Finding Out an Escort's Real Identity

[Rudynate]

You make it sound like it's time consuming or complicated to unearth one's identity on the Internet. As I stated in my previous post, I located the true identity of an escort using just three words in a Google search. It took me less than a minute.

 

 

idle minds . . .

[Nickf66]

Why is he clueless? Maybe you hit it off so well that he trusted you. Are you implying that his trust was misplaced? I've had escorts tell me all about themselves. I've had interactions with other escorts where they tell me nothing about themselves. When an escort reveals a lot about himself to me, I just enjoy the connection. I assume he fully knows what he's doing and is sharing the information because he wants to, and likes and trusts me, not out of cluelessness or stupidity or naivete.

 

Ok, I see that. I suppose it was his openness that surprised me. Most escorts I’ve hired in the past have used fake names, burner phone numbers, etc. The phone number he advertised is his “regular” cell and is posted on his business site and Facebook- I just found that a little odd. For me, it’s been rare than an escort will reveal much at all.

[nsguy45]

idle minds . . .

An idle mind is better than no mind at all.

[MikeyGMin]

Ok, I see that. I suppose it was his openness that surprised me. Most escorts I’ve hired in the past have used fake names, burner phone numbers, etc. The phone number he advertised is his “regular” cell and is posted on his business site and Facebook- I just found that a little odd. For me, it’s been rare than an escort will reveal much at all.

I wish no ill on him but I have seen it happen to two young escorts. He will run into a batshit crazy client and regret the fact that the guy has his personal information and cell number.

[+ BlueSky]

I've been truly amazed at how open some escorts are. The tell you everything, name, (day job) employer, personal email, phone number, etc. They really don't seem to care and it's not just newbies. They just put it all out there and blithely assume nothing bad will happen. I hope they are right. But it makes me very concerned that they may be just as careless about my information. I've never really stopped seeing an escort because of this but I've had many second thoughts.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

But if an escort has few or no secrets, he has pretty much neutralized the ability of someone to use his secrets against him.

 

This.

 

Very well said

[rvwnsd]

An idle mind is better than no mind at all.

I'd say they are about the same.

[+ tassojunior]

It depends on what the information is ! It could be decisive in whether you want to hire even.

 

A few weeks ago in Fort Lauderdale I met an extremely attractive intelligent escort at Boardwalk and exchanged numbers for a date and potentially for him to visit me in DC. He mentioned he had done a little porn. When he called his name popped on the caller id. I googled it and gay porn. Although he had indeed done a little gay porn most was straight. Worse he had just gotten out of prison after 2 years on a technicality from possibily murdering a client. That information was helpful in deciding whether to date or bring to my home.

 

OTOH on the other site there is a fellow who very often pops up in messages with intimate personal details of a guy. Even childhood/high school photos etc. I find that's really interesting since I'm more attracted to someone I know but I can't imagine doing that in-depth sleuthing. I'm on Facebook with many guys I regularly date and it is nice to "know" them that well even if wives/girlfriends etc pop up. But it's details of his life he wants to present to others.

 

Use any information to decide but do not let it slip or you may seem scary to him.

Edited February 6, 2018 by tassojunior

[Nickf66]

It depends on what the information is ! It could be decisive in whether you want to hire even.

 

A few weeks ago in Fort Lauderdale I met an extremely attractive intelligent escort at Boardwalk and exchanged numbers for a date and potentially for him to visit me in DC. He mentioned he had done a little porn. When he called his name popped on the caller id. I googled it and gay porn. Although he had indeed done a little gay porn most was straight. Worse he had just gotten out of prison after 2 years on a technicality from murdering a client. That information was helpful in deciding whether to date or bring to my home.

 

OTOH on the other site there is a fellow who very often pops up in messages with intimate personal details of a guy. Even childhood/high school photos etc. I find that's really interesting since I'm more attracted to someone I know but I can't imagine doing that in-depth sleuthing. I'm on Facebook with many guys I regularly date and it is nice to "know" them that well even if wives/girlfriends etc pop up. But it's details of his life he wants to present to others.

 

Use any information to decide but do not let it slip or you may seem scary to him.

 

 

Holy crap, did you say murder? Geez .... I like to think I can take care of myself, but .... wow

[crushme99]

he had just gotten out of prison after 2 years on a technicality from murdering a client. That information was helpful in deciding whether to date or bring to my home.

 

#1.) "whether to date"

#2.) "bring to my home"

OR

#3.) Run away as fast as my legs can carry me.

[+ tassojunior]

Holy crap, did you say murder? Geez .... I like to think I can take care of myself, but .... wow

 

Google Josh Logan gay porn murder. He was working at Boardwalk week out of prison. Amazingly good looking in person. He's "To die for".

[escortrod]

Google Josh Logan gay porn murder. He was working at Boardwalk week out of prison. Amazingly good looking in person. He's "To die for".

Googled it. Unless you have evidence the prosecutors didn't it sounds unlikely that he committed the murder.

[+ tassojunior]

Googled it. Unless you have evidence the prosecutors didn't it sounds unlikely that he committed the murder.

 

Agree but "Unlikely" was not good enough to bring him to my house or even a hotel.

 

Either he or another escort that night did it. They never found the other and couldn't prove which one did it. Too risky for me, even though he's drop-dead good-looking.

Edited February 6, 2018 by tassojunior

[Cyd_StVincent]

Part of the enjoyment of escorting is the chance for both parties to leave the selves that they inhabit outside that door. Thats the joy of the flirt, I tell people true things about me but not the things they would find from my personal facebook page. The me thats on my facebook page might not be the kind of person that gels well with an investment banker or a business administrator, tbh but the person I am as an escort does. Why would you want to invite the parts of ourselves that might not be a perfect match for you into the room?

[+ peterhung85]

Hello, everyone.

 

I'm in a bit of a pickle.

 

Through a photo that he posted on his escorting Twitter account, and some not-very-difficult sleuthing, I was able to find out the identity of a guy that I'm seeing next month for an overnight. By this I mean I was able to find his real social media accounts—he participates in them almost daily.

 

Our first time seeing each other was only for 2 hours, so we didn't really chat much. This time around, we'll be together for about 12 hours, and obviously not all of it will be intimate. I asked that when we're not in bed that we'd hit up a local bar and just drink and talk.

 

Because I feel relaxed around the guy, I highly doubt I'll be able to stop myself from uttering something from his not-escort life, if not at the beginning of the overnight, most definitely once I've had a few beers or wines in my system.

http://media.zenfs.com/en-US/video/video.snl.com/SNL_1606_10_Surprise.png

On one hand, I'm pretty sure he'll be cool with it. On the other, he might freak out.

 

My question is a very broad one, but I think it's most pertinent: Should I tell him that I know or should I just let things happen and hope for the best?

For a second I thought it was me ... but then I saw "twitter account" and that quickly dismissed all my potential concerns... Having said that; if YOU ever find out my real identity, I would be OK with it since you are a sweetheart

...and if the guy is "dumb" enough to be unaware of Google image search, then oh well... what can you do?! It may come useful for him to learn about these things from someone who would not take advantage of such information (e.g: real identity) and therefore could take appropriate measures - if it bothers him - so that such thing would not happen again and potential threats in the future can be prevented.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Very soon face recognition software will be easily identifying anyone from any photo, or short video, by going through an index of faces from public media on the web, even if the image does not match at all, the system will recognise that it is the same person, even when just in the background of some random tourist’s selfie.

[MiamiLooker]

Agree but "Unlikely" was not good enough to bring him to my house or even a hotel.

 

Either he or another escort that night did it. They never found the other and couldn't prove which one did it. Too risky for me, even though he's drop-dead good-looking.

Today's his birthday.

[Chandler Midas]

Ironically, He may know more about you than you’ve shared with him also. I generally expect that I’ve been reverse searched every time, and usually reveal more once I’m comfortable anyway. However, when I reverse search, I keep my mouth shut about it... it’s part of respecting discretion... If he’s smart, he’d

assume you’ve already done it.

[Spikeseven]

Well for me it didnt take any investigating at all. The escort was a part time escort as I found out after going to a play in Santa Monica and seeing him on stage. Afterwards as he was signing that playbill program for me he simply said "Well now you know" I replied "Know what? and smiled. He nodded and that was that. The next identity buster came a few weeks later when I hired a Masseurfinder masseur and thought his profile pic looked familiar as a cop from a hit show I had just watched the night before. When I walked in I knew for sure and he was happy and started promoting the show for the first 10 minutes before we got undressed. Turned out to be one of the best sessions I've ever had from a masseur from Masseurfinder. Now when I see his profile pic its obvious who he is. Great guy fun guy and super interactive hot guy.

[Inkdnaija00]

And you wonder why people are always protective of their privacy or identity... so say you reveal this "information", then what?!

[+ TheKnobGobbler]

A few more of the most common ways anyone, including providers and clients, can inadvertently let slip their real information have come to mind recently. They include:

• Amazon's gift registry/wishlist
  
• Any personal social media profile that has been linked to your alternate phone number
  
• Use of a common username on bulletin board forums (like this one) and sites like Twitter, Instagram, or Facebook
  
• Comments on Disqus using mixed personal/private info in the user account
  
• Google+ Communities - Bulletin: There is nothing private about Google anything, folks!
  

Amazon is chief among them as far as making it difficult to protect one's private identity. The hoops they make customers jump through in order to set up a gifting address properly and associate it with their public and/or shared Wish Lists is ridiculous. Sites like pipl.com make short work of aggregating enough data points from all over the deep web to uncover identities not hidden with the strictest diligence.

 

Some advice I often give is to have separate email accounts for your separate identities, create separate phone numbers for each, and never, ever, ever mix up information from one identity with a profile, account, comment, delivery, etc. for another identity. That goes for website registrations in a computer browser as well as accounts and contacts on your phone(s). If possible, keep your secret identity on a separate device altogether, and use different browsers when operating as one vs. the other. I use Chrome for Hangry Starfish but Firefox for my real identity. I have a separate skype for each ID, use an old phone no longer attached to a provider for all of my Hangry Starfish communication via Wi-Fi and VoiP, Skype, Sideline, Telegram, and a few other apps for texting/calling that don't always require an active phone number.

Edited April 1, 2018 by TheKnobGobbler

[Youngmilkman]

As a client, I find it so much more exciting NOT to divulge what I know.

As a former escort myself , I would have gone pretty flaccid if the client had told me he knew my age, or who my friends were etc. etc.

[Inkdnaija00]

As a client, I find it so much more exciting NOT to divulge what I know.

As a former escort myself , I would have gone pretty flaccid if the client had told me he knew my age, or who my friends were etc. etc.

 

Right! I believe clients that divulge the escort's identity knowingly is just messy!

[MichBoyBlake]

Yeah I mean, I feel it's very possible to have a good client/escort relationship and a real connection, even with the specifics or real identities of each other being a bit reserved. I wouldn't want to know if a client were to find out my "real identity", whatever that actually means, and if they did I would be so appreciative if they were to just kinda stuff that information away and never bring it up with me or anyone else for that matter (although I suppose I wouldn't know anyways, so I guess it'd be hard to be appreciative, but you get the point). I don't feel like I'm a fake or different person with clients. I still have very much the same personality and I'm not constantly lying or saying things I don't mean. To me at least, having it sort of separated isn't about keeping clients at arms' length or being dishonest. It's more about keeping both parts of my life separate. It's partially the same reason I don't do incalls (although not the only reason); I don't really want clients knowing exactly where I live, unless I've seen them enough to really trust them enough with that information, but even then it still sorta worries me because sometimes you really can't tell what people might do, no matter how well you think you know them. If I were to do this as a full-time job, or if it ever became prominent enough in my life to make it worth it, I'd rather rent a 2nd place for doing incalls, rather than using where I actually live.

[crushme99]

Those are some very insightful comments, MichBoyBlake. Thanks for sharing them.