How Important is the Cleanliness of an Escorts Home or Space?

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I am not an exceptionally tidy person, but working out of my space helps me to keep it clean and tidy as I see my space as an enormous reflection of me and I want it to be a space that is clean, organized and uncluttered, because it creates calmness and serenity. I make sure my sheets are clean and high quality, always have clean bath towels, keep the bathroom clean and stocked, I make sure it smells nice, etc. I'm just curious how other's feel. What things are most important to you when seeing an escort at his place? What's acceptable and what's not?

[down_to_business]

Very!

 

If his place is nasty, I won't ever be back. That was the case with one Austin escort I saw who I might have repeated with otherwise. I think you are 'spot" on!

[mattr]

Clean bedroom, clean bathroom, dirty mind!

[+ Keith30309]

Your place sounds wonderful Lance.

Being welcomed into someone's home is a privilege and honor and I appreciate and respect that. I like for a space to be clean with sheets as you describe, relatively tidy without clothes scattered everywhere in the bedroom and the bathroom clean at a minimum and preferably without lots of clutter. I recognize that someone lives in the apartment/condo/house and that can be a plus over a hotel if it's a warm, welcoming atmosphere as opposed to a condemned frat house. I'm more likely to connect more quickly and develop some chemistry when someone is opening their home up to me... there's an element of trust in that which is emotionally attractive. A sofa that encourages close, quiet conversation along with dimmed lights, soft music, even some candles are all wonderful.

 

[something like 80% of my hires are incalls and I've seen, smelt and stepped in some fairly gruesome stuff. Also, everyone loves their pets but please please please clean up after them and keep the smell under control if you're going to host.]

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Your place sounds wonderful Lance.

 

Thanks @Keith30309! It's small, but I make the most of it. I wish I had room for a seating area, but since I don't, everything happens in and on the bed.

[AdamSmith]

I don't mind a reasonable amount of clutter, but smells can be a buzzkill. Not just the (often interesting) way most everybody's home smells a little different from anywhere else. But things like last night's curry, or as Keith noted the cat's litter box.

[+ Topseed]

The home's size is never a concern. Cleanliness is. Always.

[+ bashful]

I agree about smells, and the place being clean and uncluttered. It doesn't have to be fancy, or have cutting edge décor. It can even have hand me down furniture. That doesn't matter. So long as it's clean and uncluttered. If it's their residence, that should not be a problem, and I wouldn't revisit if anything less.

 

I once went to an incall at a hotel (just for a massage), and his dirty laundry was piled up in the corner of the room, and used towels piled up on the bathroom floor. Although it was dry, to this day, I'm not sure if the towel he supplied was actually clean. I understand it's difficult to have housekeeping clean when the room is rarely empty, but set some time away, and never go more than a day. But, I can understand it can happen to the client too. I once hired for an afternoon outcall, and purposely left the room so it would be clean for the appointment (I should have called Housekeeping). I returned 30 minutes before the appointment, and found the room still wasn't clean. I quickly made the bed, had to go down the hall, find a housekeeper cleaning another room, and ask her to give me a supply of towels, water, and toiletries. I neglected to grab the towels I used in the morning, so I had to throw them under the sink. I apologized to the escort for the towels on the floor.

 

My worst cleanliness experience, was with someone who hosted at an obvious private short-term rental. Hardly any towels, and tub needed cleaning, stains on the living room couch, so who knows what was on that bedspread we were on (although it didn't appear to be dirty). I'll never rent one, and no matter how much I may need the money, I would never put my place for rent for short periods.

[marylander1940]

Very!

 

If his place is nasty, I won't ever be back. That was the case with one Austin escort I saw who I might have repeated with otherwise. I think you are 'spot" on!

 

I know it could be tough to get into a hotel room and make yourself at home, but guys please put the clothe in the shelves or out of sight, so much clutter (clothe all over the place) one time at an escort's hotel room I felt like I was at an episode of "Hoarding buried alive".

[MikeyGMin]

There's a big difference between cleanliness and tidiness. A place can have some clutter and still be clean. Personally, I'm a very tidy person and have a very uncluttered house - - except for the bathroom. I like my products out and accessible. I put them away so the cleaning lady can deep clean and then they all come right back out.

 

I wouldn't adapt my preference, so I wouldn't try to impose my idea of tidy on another person. Clean and odor-free is pretty universal though.

[Guest]

I seem to be in the minority. I don't mind a cluttered place, as long as it's not smelly or dirty (cat hairs, etc.).

[+ deej]

I wish I had room for a seating area, but since I don't, everything happens in and on the bed.

 

I don't hate that idea at all.

[+ nycman]

I've done a few out calls to messy, dirty, and/or smelly locations.....but I've never gone back to one twice.

[Bearofdistinction]

I am not an exceptionally tidy person, but working out of my space helps me to keep it clean and tidy as I see my space as an enormous reflection of me and I want it to be a space that is clean, organized and uncluttered, because it creates calmness and serenity. I make sure my sheets are clean and high quality, always have clean bath towels, keep the bathroom clean and stocked, I make sure it smells nice, etc. I'm just curious how other's feel. What things are most important to you when seeing an escort at his place? What's acceptable and what's not?

 

VERY IMPORTANT --- I usually prefer to host for that reason among others. However if I am out of town that changes things - since the local gentlemen is more likely to have more gear at his place than I have been able to travel with.

 

If I am hosting -especially for a long appt. I want to be sure the cleaning service had been through the day prior and that there are plenty of clean linens - towels - and ask the gentleman his preference in beverages and snack so the house is well stocked. I offer a well appt'd guest room to the gentleman for breaks - a knap before we start (for those travelling) - his own bathroom - wifi - tv - CD/DVD/MP3. Again for extended sessions I offer the guest room for him to sleep as I tend to be a restless sleeper. Comfort for all -- Treat gentleman like valued guests in your home and visa-versa.

 

IF he is traveling also -- I always wonder how the hosting gentleman gets an endless supply of clean sheets and towels from the hotel without raising suspicion . . .

 

Please don't think that I am a prude I have done lots of things in lots of places in my time.

However, entertaining a gentleman caller is a different experience and at this point in my life I wanna be comfortable - even when we are kinky

[+ Lance_Navarro]

VERY IMPORTANT --- I usually prefer to host for that reason among others. However if I am out of town that changes things - since the local gentlemen is more likely to have more gear at his place than I have been able to travel with.

 

If I am hosting -especially for a long appt. I want to be sure the cleaning service had been through the day prior and that there are plenty of clean linens - towels - and ask the gentleman his preference in beverages and snack so the house is well stocked. I offer a well appt'd guest room to the gentleman for breaks - a knap before we start (for those travelling) - his own bathroom - wifi - tv - CD/DVD/MP3. Again for extended sessions I offer the guest room for him to sleep as I tend to be a restless sleeper. Comfort for all -- Treat gentleman like valued guests in your home and visa-versa.

 

IF he is traveling also -- I always wonder how the hosting gentleman gets an endless supply of clean sheets and towels from the hotel without raising suspicion . . .

 

Please don't think that I am a prude I have done lots of things in lots of places in my time.

However, entertaining a gentleman caller is a different experience and at this point in my life I wanna be comfortable - even when we are kinky

 

Wow, @Bearofdistinction, you sound like the DREAM client. Thanks for showing the guys so much love and respect. Those little extra touches really do say it all.

[Nvr2Thick]

Clutter is fine as long as it's not heading toward "Hoarders." I vividly remember the first guy to fuck me. He was a great guy and a lot of fun, but I also remember stumbling on the heap of Sunday New York Times and Daily News while we made out in his living room. Keep the clutter off the floors and furniture. Make sure every surface your guests are going to touch is touchable. Make sure there's a place to leave your clothes and shoes, and they won't get absorbed in a pile of unfolded or unwashed laundry.

 

Also, the bathroom shouldn't feel like a minefield. You should be able to use the sink and shower without hunting for the soap or tripping over 10 bottles of shampoo, lotion, and conditioner. I don't mind sharing a towel - just make sure one is available.

 

Fresh sheets aren't a must, as long as they're not overdue. A "lived-in" place and an unmade bed with the scent of a man make me feel comfortable. It also makes the escort experience seem less like you've hired the unreachable man of your fantasies and more like you've hooked up with a hot man. I get the impression that I know the man a little better, and the scene seems more real.

[rvwnsd]

I hired Lance a few years ago and his place was fine. As he said, it is small, but very comfortable.

 

I had hired another guy who lived in a larger place and it was NOT fine. The place looked to be dirty, he had to move a pile of crap to give me a place to sit down, and I just did not feel comfortable. I remember riding the bus back to my hotel thinking I needed a hot shower and a rinse with Mr Clean. Actually, a visit from Mr Clean would have been nice, but I digress.

[Decatur Guy]

Clutter and untidy is fine. Dirty -- not so much.

[Bearofdistinction]

Wow, @Bearofdistinction, you sound like the DREAM client. Thanks for showing the guys so much love and respect. Those little extra touches really do say it all.

 

Well thank you for the kind words Lance.

 

Interesting that I have had a couple of 24hour visitors that were kind of hurt when I offered the guest room for their sleeping comfort. Both said an important part of the sharing for them was sleeping together ==== so we did and it was lovely

[craigville beach]

clean, fresh smelling in the location and the escort is more important to me than if the books are on a shelf or on the floor. A pile of newspapers from weeks or days ago, has to go. Ratty torn furniture needs a slipcover. Eclectic is good, eccentric not so much.

[bigvalboy]

For myself...Clean yes, tidy yes, organized yes. Bathrooms and bedrooms clean, but most importantly an attitude from the escort that is welcoming. "Mi Casa Su Casa"...that goes a long way in my book. Walking into a sanitized space where you are afraid to even sit comfortably, is mood killer for me, and I like to see decor that tells me something about the escort. What he enjoys, what he is passionate about, what his life is like outside the world of Rentmen...

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Well thank you for the kind words Lance.

 

Interesting that I have had a couple of 24hour visitors that were kind of hurt when I offered the guest room for their sleeping comfort. Both said an important part of the sharing for them was sleeping together ==== so we did and it was lovely

 

I wouldnt have been hurt but I too would have insisted that we share a bed. I believe that sharing a bed is a wonderfully intimate part of the shared experience.

[mike carey]

I have had a couple of 24hour visitors that were kind of hurt when I offered the guest room

I wouldnt have been hurt but I too would have insisted that we share a bed. I believe that sharing a bed is a wonderfully intimate part of the shared experience.

I can understand that a client could think that they were paying for the play and that the escort was entitled to time out to sleep on an overnight. My perspective, however, always was that the intimacy of sleeping together is as much part of the experience as the play beforehand. Spooning through the night and waking to that feeling ascribed to 'mornings' in my back is not something to be missed. Even if shortly after I wake up I find myself speadeagled in restraints.

[LADoug1]

Clean and tidy. And:

 

importantly an attitude from the escort that is welcoming. "Mi Casa Su Casa"...that goes a long way in my book

 

said with a smile and a hug!

[BabyBoomer]

Paramount.

 

~ Boomer ~