MikeyGMin Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Thats probably legit concern. Thinking ahead, with the brain in my head.... a young interesting guy, some youthful zeal, would be nice to have around. And Id genuinely like the idea, get fulfillment, by supporting an education, social or travel companion, etc. But it would probably seem too-good-to-be-true for a potential youngster. And, I should remind myself that, if hes my kind of eye candy.... the brain below my belt might complicate the initially platonic setup. Don't doubt your ability to lead with your big head so easily. I have had a young Costa Rican friend (who I'm extremely attracted to) stay with me for months with no quid pro quo. I don't expect or "make" him do anything other than the normal behaviors of a good roommate. I don't claim to be overly altruistic and the satisfaction and enjoyment of having someone young and handsome in the house is significant. It does keep things fresh. The fact that I don't get to poke him doesn't diminish any of that. pubic_assistance and + nycman 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Tarte Gogo Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Im not certain I'd expect sex as part of the deal. Yeah, I was going to ask that. The price of a room isn't very much, so I was doubtful that you had agreed that some sex would be involved. So now I see you are not over-expecting and I say well done. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 The price of a room isn't very much THAT depends on location. The price of a room in Manhattan is valuable indeed. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Yeah, I was going to ask that. The price of a room isn't very much, so I was doubtful that you had agreed that some sex would be involved. So now I see you are not over-expecting and I say well done. I am only providing living quarters with no cash payments involved on my part. He is providing sex, it is part of the contract. Besides the sex we are going to have every time both of us want to (he is actually into older men, he specially loves my dick), it is explicitly agreed that during the 2 weeks trial we will have sex at least 3 times a week. If we prolong the agreement, the minimum requirement is once a week. And I do not live in a fancy flat in Manhattan. My condo is an average 2 BR, 1 BR, in a humble neighborhood of DC. Of course part of the arrangement is developing a warm and mutually supportive friendship, I was focussing on the raw deal. I am a sexual being, a sex freak some would say. Sex is always part of my conversations since the very beginning, I would not be interested in any kind of arrangement without it. + HornyRetiree, marylander1940 and LoveNDino 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Tarte Gogo Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 (edited) I am only providing living quarters with no cash payments involved on my part. He is providing sex, it is part of the contract. Besides the sex we are going to have every time both of us want to (he is actually into older men, he specially loves my dick), it is explicitly agreed that during the 2 weeks trial we will have sex at least 3 times a week. If we prolong the agreement, the minimum requirement is once a week. And I do not live in a fancy flat in Manhattan. My condo is an average 2 BR, 1 BR, in a humble neighborhood of DC. Of course part of the arrangement is developing a warm and mutually supportive friendship, I was focussing on the raw deal. I am a sexual being, a sex freak some would say. Sex is always part of my conversations since the very beginning, I would not be interested in any kind of arrangement without it. Wow, well if he is hot enough, that is a very nice deal you got yourself. Edited July 8, 2017 by Tarte Gogo marylander1940 and + HornyRetiree 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 You know my physical type, I think. He is very cute, has a big dick, and worships my dick. Besides he is very smart, and goal driven. My place is not a palace, but his commute would be only 15', he would be fucking with a daddy he likes, and this daddy is not possessive and does not care if he fucks with half of dc. His part of the deal is not that bad either. Wow, well if he is hot enough, that is a very nice deal you go yourself. + HornyRetiree, GTMike, LoveNDino and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaffingBear Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I created a profile. The autobots prompted me that if I posted my picture, I could read messages. That seems to have been a false marketing tactic. Ill let it go passively for a while.... but so far, Ive gotten dozens of messages, looks, favorites, etc..... but no one that interests me enough to fork over $80 just to read their message. GTMike and tennisjock 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Having the right young guy around can exude youthful energy.... slow my creep into fuddy-duddy-ness. How about being a proud gay man and not living a peter pan fantasy? Build a life together with say real man that you can take home and meet the family and not hidden away. I'm sorry but this just all seems ridiculous. marylander1940 and + quoththeraven 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I created a profile. The autobots prompted me that if I posted my picture, I could read messages. That seems to have been a false marketing tactic. Would you mind clarifying, are you saying you did post your pic and could not read the messages? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaffingBear Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Would you mind clarifying, are you saying you did post your pic and could not read the messages? Co-rect! + oldNbusted 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Guys, you have to be patient like fishermen if you do not have a fat bank account. Being not wealthy has written me out of most of the contacts I have received. Out of my full first month of membership I got one good find, my Texas boy. Right now I am in the second week of my second month, and I am talking to three guys. I am possibly meeting one tonight. Something that is saving me a lot of time is I am direct and straight forward with the kind of arrangement I am looking for, making clear it involves none or very little cash. I am been able to focus and work better the few ones who pass that initial filter. I will keep posting my successes and frustrations. tennisjock, marylander1940, MikeBiDude and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 How about being a proud gay man and not living a peter pan fantasy? Build a life together with say real man that you can take home and meet the family and not hidden away. I'm sorry but this just all seems ridiculous. I understand your point but the gentlemen above might not be interested in dating (for free) gay men of their own stats, and they'd rather providing a free room in exchange for sex/companionship. Some of us just will keep on hiring escorts. to each his own. tennisjock and caliguy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Guys, you have to be patient like fishermen if you do not have a fat bank account. Being not wealthy has written me out of most of the contacts I have received. Out of my full first month of membership I got one good find, my Texas boy. Right now I am in the second week of my second month, and I am talking to three guys. I am possibly meeting one tonight. Something that is saving me a lot of time is I am direct and straight forward with the kind of arrangement I am looking for, making clear it involves none or very little cash. I am been able to focus and work better the few ones who pass that initial filter. I will keep posting my successes and frustrations. +1 It's just this simple.... marylander1940, + oldNbusted, tennisjock and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I am only providing living quarters with no cash payments involved on my part. He is providing sex, it is part of the contract. Besides the sex we are going to have every time both of us want to (he is actually into older men, he specially loves my dick), it is explicitly agreed that during the 2 weeks trial we will have sex at least 3 times a week. If we prolong the agreement, the minimum requirement is once a week. And I do not live in a fancy flat in Manhattan. My condo is an average 2 BR, 1 BR, in a humble neighborhood of DC. Of course part of the arrangement is developing a warm and mutually supportive friendship, I was focussing on the raw deal. I am a sexual being, a sex freak some would say. Sex is always part of my conversations since the very beginning, I would not be interested in any kind of arrangement without it. Will Argentine stake (asado) be involved in the deal? More Americanized version: http://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0379/0221/files/Flor_y_Ron_241.jpg?2258 + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Is that Argentine stake being burnt at the steak? LaffingBear 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 (edited) Last night I had my first date from my second SA season. We met at the stripers club. The guy is smoking hot, everyone was trying to hook up with him. We had some drinks and then came to my place. Excellent. Of course I paid the check last night, but there has been no mention of any "arrangement" so far. Let's see whether we have a second date. Edited July 10, 2017 by latbear4blk LTLurker and MikeBiDude 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 Last night I had my first date from my second SA season. We met at the stripers club. The guy is smoking hot, everyone was trying to hook up with him. We had some drinks and then came to my place. Excellent. Of course I pay the check list night, but there has been no mention of any "arrangement" so far. Let's see whether we have a second date. You could tell the dancers really liked him by the attention they were giving him, and that was fun to see. + José Soplanucas and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 You could tell the dancers really liked him by the attention they were giving him, and that was fun to see. You also noticed, I was not crazy. The waiter was sitting with us, the dancers were jumping on us, I went to get drinks and when I came back I had to rescue him from a vulture patron. I love it when I have the one everyone else is wanting. + oldNbusted, BabyBoomer, + WmClarke and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 Is that Argentine stake being burnt at the steak? Yes that's the way they cook it. Sometimes with the leather on the back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 You also noticed, I was not crazy. The waiter was sitting with us, the dancers were jumping on us, I went to get drinks and when I came back I had to rescue him from a vulture patron. I love it when I have the one everyone else is wanting. I missed the vulture, I must have been busy with Gabriel upstairs. + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I missed the vulture, I must have been busy with Gabriel upstairs. That boy is moving up in my To Do list. + oldNbusted 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Now, now Latbear4blk. If I found what you term a "smoking hot guy" on SA, I wouldn't let my attention stray to a dancer, I'd focus on having a second date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Travelguy368 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I've enjoyed reading the success stories from the last few pages. I'm still in contact with two guys from my last time subscribing to SA and planning to get together with one of them this weekend in Madison. + PapaTony and + WmClarke 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 (edited) Has anyone been to a SA Party? They are advertising one in NYC on 29SEPT. http://contentz.mkt8105.com/ra/2017/30808/06/11302594/17-SA-0605-NYC-Party-Banners-1200x1200.jpg Edited July 11, 2017 by Oaktown marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Has anyone been to a SA Party? They are advertising one in NYC on 29SEPT. I wonder how easy it would be telling who's at the party to be a "kept boy" and who's there as a potential sugar daddy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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