Escorts Not Listing Their Rates

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I've noticed a lot of guys on Rentmen who aren't listing their rates, creating a default "Ask Me". I'm curious to know why escorts would do this, if any of you do, and I'm also curious to know how perspective clients feel about this. Although I understand there are factors that can effect a session rate, like outcall travel, but I dont understand why someone would choose not to list a base rate.

[+ bashful]

As a client, my very first experience listed his rates as "ask me". Within the very first text or two, he told me his rate. Prior to that first hire, I read the threads, and many opinions related to this, and decided in my case, best to not negotiate. I was able to afford it, and am so happy we met. I don't know why he advertised "ask me" nor did I ask why. All I know is I enjoyed our time together.

[+ nycman]

When an escort lists their rate as "ask me"...I don't. I just move on to the next escort.

 

I respect anyone's right to conduct their business any way they choose.

 

I also believe in my right to vote with my wallet and to hire someone else.

 

I'm sure others feel differently.

[+ MasssageGuy]

I've noticed a lot of guys on Rentmen who aren't listing their rates, creating a default "Ask Me". I'm curious to know why escorts would do this, if any of you do, and I'm also curious to know how perspective clients feel about this. Although I understand there are factors that can effect a session rate, like outcall travel, but I dont understand why someone would choose not to list a base rate.

If someone doesn't have the balls to post their rates, I'll pass on them. Many escorts complain about back and forth with clients. Well, this could be part of the reason.

 

I'm sure those who don't post their rates get lots of "junk mail" from potential clients just kicking the tires.

[+ José Soplanucas]

There is no difference to me whether or not an escort publish his rates. In my experience, many escorts have flexible rates depending on what you are looking for. So I always establish first contact with a message describing what I want and asking for the rate in case the service can be provided.

[MikeyGMin]

It totally depends on the amount of alternative choices there are and how hot the guy is. It's a lot easier to just move on to the next guy in some cities.

[+ azdr0710]

if you're interested and it says "ask me", ask him.....this ain't rocket science, folks!!......yes, the escort may be trying to control the situation with his "ask me" policy, but this isn't some delicate Cold War negotiation with the world teetering on the brink of nuclear annihilation.....if you don't like the offer, politely thank him for his reply and move on!

[BabyBoomer]

delicate Cold War negotiation with the world teetering on the brink of nuclear annihilation

 

You're bringing back memories of air raid sirens & fallout shelters.

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ Keith30309]

I have asked (once) when it was someone I really wanted to meet but it does create a reason NOT to contact someone if there's not a really strong interest.

It creates the potential for an unpleasant conversation about "what are you looking for", "Uhmm $500 an hour is a little outside my range", "what about $400?", "Well, how much for 2 hours?", etc. I prefer to avoid it and move on unless there's a really compelling reason to work thru what I perceive as a hassle.

[rvwnsd]

I've noticed a lot of guys on Rentmen who aren't listing their rates, creating a default "Ask Me". I'm curious to know why escorts would do this, if any of you do, and I'm also curious to know how perspective clients feel about this. Although I understand there are factors that can effect a session rate, like outcall travel, but I dont understand why someone would choose not to list a base rate.

You, sir, have stepped on a third rail if there ever was one. For me, if I am interested in a guy and he lists "ask me" as his rate I ask him.

[JDXXX]

My only question is: why would an escort have to hide his rates unless he charges different rates for different types of clients. Or else why hide what his rates are? Kind of bizarre.

[big-n-tall]

A number of working guys who do mainly muscle worship put "ask me" for position and rates. Their rates can be very dependent on what the client wants.

 

Personally if I see ask me for rates, I tend to move on... unless I'm really really interested in the guy. So far the only one I have been really interested in enough to not care about their ask me rate is Damien Crosse. Mmmmm... Damien Crosse.

[+ Truereview]

A number of working guys who do mainly muscle worship put "ask me" for position and rates. Their rates can be very dependent on what the client wants.

 

Personally if I see ask me for rates, I tend to move on... unless I'm really really interested in the guy. So far the only one I have been really interested in enough to not care about their ask me rate is Damien Crosse. Mmmmm... Damien Crosse.

+1. I support an escort making his own decisions on when/where they use "ask me," but if they use it, they better be exceptional looking or thoughtful in their profile bc I'm most likely gonna skip their ad altogether. Even more so if they use "ask me" on bunk preferences...

 

Why? I have very limited time to look for new companions, and when I am, I want someone who makes things easy for me as far as contacting, facts, and logistics. If I had lots of time in my hands, maybe - it could be entertaining to pass time inquiring and getting a feel. I also get this awful feeling that "ask me" can lead to a haggling of sorts. This is not a flea market experience, this a pricey luxury...make it easy on me! If the escort makes the experience fun, easy, connected...I also vote with my wallet and my loyalty. I will come back often and be generous bc he respects my most treasured asset: my time.

[oz_carter]

There are three things I look for when I consider hiring a guy.

 

1) A great body. I understand some guys don't put their face pic and I can work around that (most of the time).

2) Versatile or bottom (I'm a top)

3) Listed session rate

 

Any of those missing from his ad I will immediately rule him out.

[tanman4u]

My only question is: why would an escort have to hide his rates unless he charges different rates for different types of clients. Or else why hide what his rates are? Kind of bizarre.

 

I've often thought that if I "ask him" and he knows that I'm a much older and non-gym-bunny type of guy that the rate I'm going to be quoted is going to be much higher. That's why I never contact anyone with "Ask Me" rates.

 

...Many escorts complain about back and forth with clients. Well, this could be part of the reason........

Exactly!!

[+ Lance_Navarro]

My only question is: why would an escort have to hide his rates unless he charges different rates for different types of clients. Or else why hide what his rates are? Kind of bizarre.

 

Yeah, that's my feeling as well, and I think that's not only sad but prejudicial and unfair. It always humors me when a guy will ask for a discount "because he's hot". I let them know that's immaterial, my time costs the same for all.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I understand seasoned escorts who do not like fees open to bargain, they want to protect their 250/300 and up fees. But as a client I appreciate the chance to make our hobby more affordable. I just had a hot wonderful first meeting with a beautiful young man at my place, meeting all my expectations (passionate French kissing and penetration in bfe context), and paid only 160.

I know that many forum members can afford even extended sessions and pay thousands, I can't. So my point I made in another thread: we are not the same, let's appreciate diversity. You do not like escorts who do not publish their fees? Move on to the next, you do not need to trash anybody. Just know that there are many outstanding, hot, talented sex workers who will not meet your expectations. That doesn't mean they are not honest, hard working, excellent professionals.

[+ glennnn]

I have a fairly strong phobia against bargaining, perhaps it is my West European background or middle class upbringing. For me, the price is the price and I can either afford it or I can't, and I mean I have the money in my pocket

now.

 

I love restaurants that post the menu outside so one can see the selection and affordability and will walk past those who don't. I don't like to haggle over purchasing a car; tell me the price and I will pay it or walk away ( much to the chagrin of many nice sales people). I would love to have an overnight, or a weekend with many of our escorts, but I won't until I can afford it according to the rates posted.

 

I definitely feel strongly against asking for a discount when hiring an escort; the price is the price. I could NEVER denigrate a potential sex partner by offering him less than his asking price. What would I be saying? Now, that I've seen your face, your body, your cock, I don't think you are worth it? Why not settle up after the session and I will pay what I feel it was worth? No!!!!

 

I m grateful that these wonderful guys are willing to make love to me, and will pay what they need to maintain their lifestyle. All I ask is to know the cost in advance so I can avoid the embarrassment of being caught short (so to speak) or the indignity of bargaining.

 

I agree that escorts and restaurants do not have to post the menu and prices, but I will just walk on by, thank you. BTW, I'm very popular with many merchants around the world, because I always pay the full asking price. Lol!

[RussJohnson]

I have a fairly strong phobia against bargaining, perhaps it is my West European background or middle class upbringing. For me, the price is the price and I can either afford it or I can't, and I mean I have the money in my pocket

now.

 

I love restaurants that post the menu outside so one can see the selection and affordability and will walk past those who don't. I don't like to haggle over purchasing a car; tell me the price and I will pay it or walk away ( much to the chagrin of many nice sales people). I would love to have an overnight, or a weekend with many of our escorts, but I won't until I can afford it according to the rates posted.

 

I definitely feel strongly against asking for a discount when hiring an escort; the price is the price. I could NEVER denigrate a potential sex partner by offering him less than his asking price. What would I be saying? Now, that I've seen your face, your body, your cock, I don't think you are worth it? Why not settle up after the session and I will pay what I feel it was worth? No!!!!

 

I m grateful that these wonderful guys are willing to make love to me, and will pay what they need to maintain their lifestyle. All I ask is to know the cost in advance so I can avoid the embarrassment of being caught short (so to speak) or the indignity of bargaining.

 

I agree that escorts and restaurants do not have to post the menu and prices, but I will just walk on by, thank you. BTW, I'm very popular with many merchants around the world, because I always pay the full asking price. Lol!

 

I'm not sure that's a western european or middle class thing, but I know people who are the exact same way and some who are the opposite and haggle for everything! I personally believe there are jobs that involve sales, and then there are sales people. It is 100% appropriate to haggle with sales people, I find it fun and exciting (it is what they are trained for!) Not necessarily appropriate for a job that just involves sales, like an escort (although most jobs require some kind of agreement or contract so I think everyone should learn the skills.)

[+ Funguy]

I have found that there are a lot of gentlemen who are reviewed here on Daddy's who list "ask me" in their ads. Looking at their reviews you get to know what they charge and you just have to confirm, "You charge $XXX for an hour? What about a second hour?"

[Edward]

I usually don't bother to ask. My question is do they expect you to "haggle" with them. If I do ask and they to don't respond in the first two emails. I say thank you, I don't have time to play your games. I am not a game player. Not to list their price/fee is rude on their part.

[+ glennnn]

What I meant by West European is that I have not found price bargaining to be a part of shopping in Paris or Berln, while it may be acceptable in Istanbul or Athens. I don't mean it is wrong or bad, it is not a skill I have practiced and I am uncomfortable with it. It is not fun for me.

[+ Keith30309]

What I meant by West European is that I have not found price bargaining to be a part of shopping in Paris or Berln, while it may be acceptable in Istanbul or Athens. I don't mean it is wrong or bad, it is not a skill I have practiced and I am uncomfortable with it. It is not fun for me.

 

... Agreed and, for me, it sets an adversarial tone that's the exact opposite of what I want. To carry it to the logical extreme, I'd boil it down to asking "How much affection and interpersonal chemistry can I get for 50 bucks less?"

[+ bashful]

What about a second hour

 

I did learn, when I contacted an escort about meeting a second time, his rate for multiple hours was not simply his hourly rate times the number of hours. That may be why they advertise "ask me" rates.

[Mocha]

I'm surprised at how some responses seem so utterly offended by someone not listing their rates. I mean, once again using the lawyer reference...they never list rates until they do a consultation to find out what they're working with.

 

Even places that list rates: like car repair shops, how often do you end up paying that rate? You go in for a $39.95 lube and oil, and end up walking out paying $1,256.75 for new shocks, struts, brakes, and a tune up. Why? Because they didn't know what the fuck they were getting into before you bought the car in.