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Just read through this interesting thread and have to admit we go back-and-forth about the posting thing. We have a decreasing scale for added time, so I like to explain that to folks....

 

On Rentmen, you could list your hourly rate in the "Rate" field and in the body of your ad explain the sliding scale.

...Also, due to our geography, we get fully half of our inquiries from men4rentnow. Somebody correct me if I'm wrong, but they don't allow rates to be listed. I've scoured the site administration as well as other ads and can't find rates anywhere.

M4RN does not allow advertisers to post rates. Although it wasn't stated, I think the OP was referring to RentMen.

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If someone I would like to see says "ask me", I ask him. I usually have a number in mind and if his quote is at or below that number, we are a go. If not, I politely let him know that I don't feel comfortable spending that amount at this time and thank him for getting back to me. I never come back with a counter offer or suggest a discount. It's not that difficult folks.

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I post the rates on Rentmen, yes. For those using M4RN, it doesn't seem to diminish our traffic for some reason. We do have to wade through unqualified candidates, though, due to our prices.

 

I am sure you do give your posted rate for an incall or outcall is 4,294,967,295. The client pool that can afford that must be incredibly small!

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We are expensive, but not that bad...lol.

I thought it was a phone number but apparently 429 is not an area code that is in use! I had thought you were expensive but that given it was for the two of you, not ridiculously so. Kinda sweet and kinda hot though. (I won't be in PS to chat and make friends though.)

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I need to speak with the person to get the vibe. I realize someone from the younger generation is so accustomed to texting nowadays. It all seemed so impersonal, and in a way he came off unprofessional. His ad is completely inviting, which is why his conduct was surprising to me. After the brief back and forth, I realized we were not a good fit.

 

I'm afraid texting is just something the older generation needs to adapt to if they are dealing with young men. Actually, I'm far from young, and I prefer texting. You miss getting a vibe from the voice, but the convenience far outweighs that in my mind.

 

Imagine it from their side. They can't possibly pick up the phone everytime someone calls. It would be time consuming and a phone call is not private unless you are sitting at home by yourself. Thay can discreetly answer a text even if they are out with friends or visiting their mother. So it is way more efficient.

 

I know that some guys will agree to a pre-arranged phone call. That is an attempt to meet you halfway, but you might have to get used to "text only" or just write off more guys the way you have this one. I'd say to alwsys just move on except the best encounter I've ever had was set up with just texts. :) ( Thouhgh I wasn't considering traveling to him. )

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You make excellent points.... Things I hadn't considered. On the other hand, consider this.... I find a guy I really want. As he says, I ask him how much and I just can't afford his price (say the $500/hour mentioned elsewhere in this forum). Now what? Do i try to 'bargain' him down (and many escorts here have said they hate when clients do this), claim I'm really buff and hung, deserve a "senior discount" which I don't even use at Denny's, or I admit I'm poor or too cheap or whatever which is a real boner killer

and end up bummed out. Hmmmmm.... No I'll just walk on down to the restaurant with the posted menu. Too much hassle.

 

When he quotes his $500 price, you can simply reply something like, "thanks so much for

letting me know, but I'm afraid I'll have to pass. My limit is $xxx, so I'll have to save up!" That way, in a friendly manner you've let him know both your limit and that you're still interested, even though he's out of reach. Ball's then in his court -- end the conversation, make another offer, agree to your limit, etc. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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We are expensive, but not that bad...lol.

 

Actually if 500 per hour to see the both of you is your base sum... it's actually reasonable if you break it down. That's 250 each, which is about the average for most. I know 500 isn't cheap, but it's doable for 2 fine fellows at the same time.

 

Now if it was 800 per hour... I'd be a bit more skeptical. :D :p

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More than happy to!!

 

I am curious, and I apologize if this has already been answered and please feel free not to respond of this is too personal of a question.....are both of you active on the board or is this something one of you enjoys doing ? I can't imagine that the tow of you are sitting at the computer like you are in the avatar photo whispering in the others ear "type such and such". (as much as that image in my head is pretty funny) I am just wondering if this is something you both jump on periodically or if really one of you has taken up? back when I was younger (he says shaking his cane) and participating on AOL chat rooms I had a couple I played with and they were both active but I could tell pretty easily which was which by what they said. But that took time and was only after we had hung out a few times. I haven't picked that up with your comments but I think it could be because I haven't met you both so I don't know your uniqueness.

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Lol...good question. This is Ace and I'm always the one responding here. Tyler has a low threshold for online involvement...lol. Plus, I enjoy the repartee since I work from home most days. He has a normal day job around people, so he gets more than his share of interaction that way!

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I need to speak with the person to get the vibe. I realize someone from the younger generation is so accustomed to texting nowadays. It all seemed so impersonal, and in a way he came off unprofessional. His ad is completely inviting, which is why his conduct was surprising to me. After the brief back and forth, I realized we were not a good fit.

 

I know many escorts probably prefer not to talk on the phone but there have been one or two duds I wish I had spoken to prior to a meeting. It may have been a red-flag for me. On the other hand there was one I did speak to that sounded great but turned out to be a dud as well. It doesn't always work.

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If someone I would like to see says "ask me", I ask him. I usually have a number in mind and if his quote is at or below that number, we are a go. If not, I politely let him know that I don't feel comfortable spending that amount at this time and thank him for getting back to me. I never come back with a counter offer or suggest a discount. ...
Once when I did just that, I got a texted reply offering a lower rate...nothing I had written was meant to suggest I was opening a negotiating session! By then I had moved on and found someone else. (This was a horny Sunday morning when I was searching the "available now"'s on RB; I guess he was in need of some fast cash. Beautiful Bel Ami type, too.)
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