What to Get a Long Time Escort Companion for Christmans

[rocky]

I know I posted this previously and some will say I should post on "ask an escort" and maybe I'll do that but I thought I'd start generically with everyone. OK, long term escort companion and now it's Christmas. Any thoughts for a nice gift, no not a car, diamonds, etc; something that means something; couple hundred dollars. Yes I could always put money in an envelope but has anyone found a nice special gift that made your escort friend smile, besides your bank account? I'm serious here guys, any advice would be helpful. I've asked and get the same lack of response so I have some same gifts each year; but always looking for that one thing that would bring him a smile. Happy Holidays you all.

[+ azdr0710]

think back thru all your meets with him and see if something pops up in your mind that he mentioned.....anything, ultimately, will be nice.....I know we all want to give the most clever, original, "wow" gift...makes us look clever and original, you know!

[Mikegaite]

I would go with something personalized, cash, or a gift card to somewhere very popular like Amazon.com. Maybe a gift card to somewhere you dined together or stayed together if that exists? Individualized custom-made t-shirts can be great if escort is into that. Or an Xmas stocking or luggage tag or LL bean bag or something else with the escort's stage name. "Hooker" wine can be a funny gift. Or Rentmen sponsorship. Ultimately, There's nothing special about the escort-client relationship that would make the gift-giving process different from other gift giving. Maybe scour Twitter posts or interviews (porn but could be rentmen for those not in porn) for clues about things the escort likes. Or check his Facebook page if you are on friendly enough terms to be Facebook friends.

[Jock123]

I've had Clients ask for my Amazon Wishlist. Maybe he has one Possibly? Honestly just the Fact You're getting Him anything just to say "Thank You" can go a long way with Him and Is very Kind.

[OneFinger]

...something that means something; couple hundred dollars..

 

The first thought that came to my mind was a good watch. I received one from a close as a gift and it was a very treasured item.

[BaronArtz]

Make it something that is fun for you too. Offer to go underwear shopping together. Give him a budget of X dollars. You can watch him try things on in the fitting room, or he can 'model' them to you later. Or go to a spa together ... a couples massage maybe. Keep it playful and fun.

[MikeyGMin]

I've had Clients ask for my Amazon Wishlist. Maybe he has one Possibly? Honestly just the Fact You're getting Him anything just to say "Thank You" can go a long way with Him and Is very Kind.

 

+1 on the Amazon wishlist. I'm a big fan. You still get the pleasure of picking something out for him, but it's from a list of things you know he really wants. I really like to give gifts, but I'm not wild about handing it to them to open in front of me. I know he gets a surprise in the mail and that is fun for him. It's perfect for birthdays, Christmas or just a token of appreciation.

[seaboy4hire]

A few stacks of silver coin. At least that's what I'd appreciate.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[american executive]

Hey Rocky

 

Since he is a long-time escort I assume you not only like the sex but as well, being with him. I am thinking a hand-written note on a very elegant notecard, telling him how much you love the time you spend with him and how much he has become a part of your life. Then a nice cash gift. He will spend the cash and appreciate it. He might save the card and truly appreciate your meaningful gesture. If I was an escort and recieved a card and gift like that - I would swoon.

 

Best regards

[+ purplekow]

This is an interesting question. There is perfunctory gift giving, which is usually see in business, but sometimes done with family members. You really do not care for your brother's new girlfriend, but you give a her a gift to avoid a conflict with your brother. If hiring an escort is a businessman customer arrangement, similar to other hirings, the person who is being hired or doing the selling is usually doing the perfunctory gift giving. You have given me business all year, thank you for that and here is a token of my appreciation. Most salesmen would give a gift to a customer, but most customers would not gift each individual salesman.

If it is a service arrangement, usually it is the person performing the service who receives the gift. This is more a gift of gratitude for services well rendered. Thanks for the wonderful service you have provided. Please continue to service me so well and here is a gift. Most doctors do not give gifts to each patient though many patient's give gifts to their doctor.

If this is a caring personal interaction, then gifts are usually mutually exchanged, though it may be that one thinks more of the interpersonal aspects of the relationship or one feels the other has gone above and beyond the expected boundaries of their relationship and that person gives the unexpected gift.

So which is it? Are you client and vendor? Service provider and service user? Interpersonally connected persons with one beholden to the other?

All this to say....any gift goes beyond the usual boundaries of escort client relationships. It is a token above and beyond the expected.

I frequently give gifts to escorts and have given all sorts of things from lottery tickets, to manicures, to books and personalized items. Not once was a gift expected. On each occasion the recipient was gracious and seemed genuinely pleased and touched, It turns out, it is not the gift at all. at least not the kinds of gifts that I can afford, but it is the sincere expression of good will and caring that ultimately brings happiness from a gift. Give whatever you do give with a open heart and a joyous spirit and you will have given the right gift.

[LADoug1]

How do you mail a gift to an escort if you don't know their actual name? Will the post office deliver to a stage name and the correct address?

[+ sync]

If he is a pet owner, perhaps a gift assortment of gourmet treats with a monogrammed food/water dish; a unique pet toy; a quality pet brush/comb set; a gift certificate to a pet supply vendor; if available, a gift certificate for services at the pet's groomer.

[Brian Kevin]

Buy us hoes' a box on condoms, some lube and toys you'd like to use. Keep Your escort safe

[MiamiLooker]

If you don't know of any gift he might like, how well do you really know him?

[mike carey]

Buy us hoes' a box on condoms, some lube and toys you'd like to use. Keep Your escort safe

*Takes notes*!

[Brian Kevin]

Haha that is a SERIOUS reccomendation.

#2 cover a website expense.

#3 buy him a hotel gift certificate.

 

#4 (whats happend to me) schedule an appointment, book a nice hotel with a jacuzzi, suprise him with 5star dinning, wine in the room(or vodka and whiskey for the escorts like me) and enjoy a nice mellow evening with him

[gallahadesquire]

The usual things:

• Flowers
  
• Chocolates
  
• Promises you don't intend to keep
  

Clocksworth, in Beauty and the Beast, Disney

[geminibear]

• Gold
  
• Frankincense
   
  
• Myrrh
  

[+ quoththeraven]

How do you mail a gift to an escort if you don't know their actual name? Will the post office deliver to a stage name and the correct address?

 

I'm assuming the present will be given in person.

[MikeyGMin]

I believe the post office will deliver to any name at a valid address. I get mail for a friend who doesn't live with me all the time. I suppose they could be more security conscious about packages.

 

However, unless you've done an in-call at his home, you probably don't know the address either. If you use Amazon wishlist, that is set up by the escort using his stage name and his address remains private. (It's almost like they had us in mind when they set up this feature. :))

[Jock123]

"Im gonna let Yall Finish But..." *In my best Kanye West voice

 

Amazon Wishlist guys...Amazon. Trust me on this one.

[big-n-tall]

How do you mail a gift to an escort if you don't know their actual name? Will the post office deliver to a stage name and the correct address?

 

I'm assuming the present will be given in person.

 

As QTR commented it could be given in person. However, if the guy is a long time companion, it isn't out of the question that the OP has the real name and address of said working guy.

 

There are a few guys who've told me their real names the first time we met.

[corndog]

I think that the Amazon Wishlist is a solid, safe suggestion (and, Amazon takes care of the address and real name, which is kept confidential).

 

However, the gift which will be most appreciated is something that is based on your personal observation of your guy. For example, if the guy does outcall massage and plays music from his phone, maybe a portable bluetooth speaker. If he travels with a knapsack of supplies, maybe a stylish, leather one. Better yet, something related to an interest that has come up in conversation, which shows that you really pay attention to him as a person.

[BabyBoomer]

Haha that is a SERIOUS reccomendation.

#2 cover a website expense.

#3 buy him a hotel gift certificate.

 

#4 (whats happend to me) schedule an appointment, book a nice hotel with a jacuzzi, suprise him with 5star dinning, wine in the room(or vodka and whiskey for the escorts like me) and enjoy a nice mellow evening with him

 

The perfect gift for you would be a gift certificate to MELT.

 

~ Boomer ~

[Brian Kevin]

The perfect gift for you would be a gift certificate to MELT.

 

Damnnnn daddy. You really know how to spoil somebody. Enough for a couple drinks too, shit I'll never come home.