Being Contacted by an Escort

[Wolfer]

I don't actually know what I would think of it... If it was a regular guy and I'd not seen him in a while (mostly for budgettary reasons) I think I'd appreciate a text saying he's thinking of me or something and of our previous sessions, without outright solliciting another session. It would make me feel like the escort likes me and prefers my business...

 

I personally always send a text after a session to let them know I enjoyed it and thank them for the wonderful time spent together (if I didn't, I don't send anything).

[mattr]

In fact, I have been contacted on this site (via PM) by escorts I never hired before. I don't mind it, but it is not something I generally respond to.

I have no issue with an escort trying to drum up business by PM'ing me in the forum... as long as it is occasional and does not become harassment

[geminibear]

Yes, as an escort I contact former clients with advanced notice of my travel plans all the time. I think Greg gave the ideal protocol, whereas my strategy is more haphazard, like "Hey i just had sex with someone who works at Apple and apples are fruity and you're really fruity so I thought of you, I will be in your city in a few months, let's fuck." Or I just copy and paste something endearing JD Daniels wrote, use the thesaurus to insert a few big words to make myself appear smarter than I really am, and hit send.

 

There are clients I like to see and clients I love to see, and if they've expressed interest in seeing me again, I'll keep in touch about scheduling. If not interested, clients can politely decline or not respond and life goes on.

 

Mike Gaite

 

You can contact me anytime you are thinking about apples or oranges or almond joys or S. Dakota or breathing.

[AdamSmith]

You can contact me anytime you are thinking about apples or oranges or almond joys or S. Dakota or breathing.

 

...these are a few of my favorite things...

 

[mike carey]

Well, I will be in NYC in November, just saying

Very deftly done there, Lance!

and what about an escort who is apparently very popular on a particular escort-discussion board periodically contacting board members with whom he has never even had meetings?......when does self-promotion become too much?.....

If they have never had a meeting but the excort and forum member had exchanged comments on one of the boards, I don't think it's a problem. I haven't had any escorts PM me about a potential meeting but I have had a few conversations with escorts here about things that were being discussed on a board. One time when I was talking about a planned trip to Vegas for a USAF reunion [next year], one escort told me I should give him a call if things got too quiet! Not exactly a hard sell, but a quiet plug for an appointment, and not one that I minded in the least.

[Strafe13]

Like some others, I generally have had pretty good hires, so not only do I not mind if they reach out to me occasionally to let me know they're visiting and are open to seeing me again, but I welcome and encourage it. I've even told local escorts whom I've really enjoyed that if they see me out in the city, they are welcome to wave, or even come over to say hello. I pick good guys, and I trust them to act accordingly if they see me out alone or even with others.

[Mikegaite]

There are socially acceptable ways to solicit business indirectly from particular clients whom one has not previously met. For example, try the high-class hustle slut strut. I believe cold soliciting is more acceptable in an eighth-tier market like Akutan, Alaska, where I feel comfortable contacting someone I've never met and telling them I'm making the first and last ever appearance in Akutan of any traveling escort, so they might want to consider hiring me regardless of how ugly they think I am because the choices in Akutan are pretty slim the other 364 days of the year. I think the escorts who are cold soliciting are making more friends than enemies doing it, else they wouldn't be doing it.

[geminibear]

...these are a few of my favorite things...

 

There are socially acceptable ways to solicit business indirectly from particular clients whom one has not previously met. For example, try the high-class hustle slut strut. I believe cold soliciting is more acceptable in an eighth-tier market like Akutan, Alaska, where I feel comfortable contacting someone I've never met and telling them I'm making the first and last ever appearance in Akutan of any traveling escort, so they might want to consider hiring me regardless of how ugly they think I am because the choices in Akutan are pretty slim the other 364 days of the year. I think the escorts who are cold soliciting are making more friends than enemies doing it, else they wouldn't be doing it.

 

There are 2 guys in Akutan, Alaska going into a frenzy right now.

[mike carey]

There are 2 guys in Akutan, Alaska going into a frenzy right now.

Both of them want an overnight and Mike is only there for 18 hours! Wherever Akutan is! (Before you comment, I know, even closer to Russia than Sarah Palin's kitchen!)

[Rudynate]

and what about an escort who is apparently very popular on a particular escort-discussion board periodically contacting board members with whom he has never even had meetings?......when does self-promotion become too much?.....

 

 

And what about that very same escort not being happy with "no" for an answer?

[geminibear]

Both of them want an overnight and Mike is only there for 18 hours! Wherever Akutan is! (Before you comment, I know, even closer to Russia than Sarah Palin's kitchen!)

 

Damnit Mike you beat me to the punch.

[+ purplekow]

I generally do not reach out to clients to solicit businesses, especially when traveling or the off chance I am actually back in Austin. There are a few clients I will reach out to because they have specifically requested that I do so. I do get repeated requests for potential clients, etc to contact them when I'm in their part of the world. Right now I'm working on an auto-notifier to send out a bulk mailing or SMS to those who have specifically requested it whenever and wherever I'm traveling.

Kurtis please feel free to contact me if you are within 24 thousand miles of me, I will not take offense. I do think your body is out of this world, so it may be you are out of range at the moment.

[rvwnsd]

I had an interesting event happen. A well-known escort texted me and told me he was available in my more-or-less local area, over a period of the next few days.

 

We couldn't set anything up, but ... I was really glad he contacted me, as I'm trying to arrange a repeat episode.

 

Dear Escorts / Companions: Do you ever contact old clients without provocation? I'm perfectly fine with all this, but it was kind of odd.

 

Dear Clients: How much do you feel compromised/[being dealt with indiscretely] were this to happen?

 

Just curious.

 

I have no issue with this. In fact, I appreciate when an escort whom I have hired contacts me.

 

On the other hand...

 

and what about an escort who is apparently very popular on a particular escort-discussion board periodically contacting board members with whom he has never even had meetings?......when does self-promotion become too much?.....

 

And what about that very same escort not being happy with "no" for an answer?

 

Not so appreciative.

[Guest]

Even after all this time, I have never developed much comfort contacting people I have not spoken to in a few months just to say "hey I'm coming to town" I have to say though that at least 99% of the people I have met have asked me specifically to contact them the next time I'm coming to town. For the 1% that indicate that email is the best way to contact them, I automatically add them to my "no text" list so that I don't send a text that lights up their phone in the middle of the night that could cause an awkward conversation at home LOL ( I don't want to get anyone in trouble on the home front )

It's been my experience that most people I meet do you want a heads up and want to know in advance when I'm coming to town again.

[+ purplekow]

Even after all this time, I have never developed much comfort contacting people I have not spoken to in a few months just to say "hey I'm coming to town" I have to say though that at least 99% of the people I have met have asked me specifically to contact them the next time I'm coming to town. For the 1% that indicate that email is the best way to contact them, I automatically add them to my "no text" list so that I don't send a text that lights up their phone in the middle of the night that could cause an awkward conversation at home LOL ( I don't want to get anyone in trouble on the home front )

It's been my experience that most people I meet do you want a heads up and want to know in advance when I'm coming to town again.

I am sitting by my phone waiting for the notice. I guess most people do not really sit by the phone any more, but nevertheless, I have a land line and if I thought Vin was calling, it would be within reach

[Guest]

I am sitting by my phone waiting for the notice. I guess most people do not really sit by the phone any more, but nevertheless, I have a land line and if I thought Vin was calling, it would be within reach

You sweet sweet man! Oh how I can't wait to see you again! You've been the biggest perk for me joining Daddys and for that I'm grateful!

[big-n-tall]

You sweet sweet man! Oh how I can't wait to see you again! You've been the biggest perk for me joining Daddys and for that I'm grateful!

 

...get a room you two!!!

[Guest]

...get a room you two!!!

With an adjoining door to your room I miss you!

[+ Funguy]

Now I need a hotel room!

[Guest]

Now I need a hotel room!

HahahahHa

[Moneymike68]

I don't see an issue with this, more so if an escort and I have met enough to be considered regular partners- I rather enjoy the outreach.

[MiamiLooker]

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I know it’s hard to believe that there are deceitful posters who will post recommendations of an escort without including an acknowledgment that they were asked by the escort to make the post. Hard to believe, but it’s Tru.

[jawjateck]

I appreciate a notification from a gentleman whose company I have enjoyed previously, but I'm not fond of "cold calls" from strangers. I disabled the private conversation feature of this forum long ago to prevent nuisance and unsavory contacts. Another annoying issue is that some folks think it is acceptable to forward my contact info to a third party that I have never met and have no personal or professional interest. That's not cool.....at all!