The second time around

[Reggyreg56]

Why do you guys think that when you meet with the same escort a second time it's not as good as the first encounter? Oftentimes it seems like the escort is "phoning it in" on the second encounter. Am I wrong?

[jeezifonly]

It's second date syndrome.

The unknown has been made known. The rush of the first look, whiff, taste, touch, sound - has passed. 

[+ JamesB]

For me, it’s actually the other way around. By the second meeting, I feel more relaxed and comfortable. He already has a better sense of what I like and how I like it, so we can build on that and have an even better experience. It’s nice not having to start from scratch and already knowing what works for both.

[56harrisond]

 

[mtaabq]

52 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

It's second date syndrome.

The unknown has been made known. The rush of the first look, whiff, taste, touch, sound - has passed. 

Man, you got that right!

[mtaabq]

1 hour ago, Reggyreg56 said:

Why do you guys think that when you meet with the same escort a second time it's not as good as the first encounter? Oftentimes it seems like the escort is "phoning it in" on the second encounter. Am I wrong?

You’re not wrong. See what @jeezifonlysaid above. The 2nd date better be great or there won’t be a 3rd. I can’t begin to enumerate the number of providers I’ve seen in total but I CAN remember clearly the providers I’ve seen 3 times or more. They all brought something new, exciting and different to the table every single time. I’ve encountered far too many who, as you said, “phoned it in” the 2nd time around. This includes s*x workers AND massage providers. 

[Nue2thegame]

I’ve experienced both. I’ve known second date syndrome but I’ve also occasionally experienced a much richer relationship. It was as though he was surprised and delighted that I returned and there was a greater sense of intimacy. A few of these have turned into ongoing relationships that are still evolving. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. 

[NJF]

This happens sometimes but some providers bring something new and exciting for each subsequent meetings. They will build a sustainable business.

[Reggyreg56]

On 9/17/2026 at 7:44 PM, jeezifonly said:

It's second date syndrome.

The unknown has been made known. The rush of the first look, whiff, taste, touch, sound - has passed. 

That makes a lot of sense.

[Nightowl]

I have found that, the more I see someone, the better it gets.