RM profiles and "Ask Me" sexual orientation

[Mark_fl]

3 hours ago, TJMS said:

Interesting take. I ask every provider if they have had sex with a woman, and to a man they said no. Now some could be lying, but I have gotten to know a couple of them very well and at least these guys are telling the truth. They live the gay life.

Funny, my experience has been the opposite. Gay providers that have said their first sexual experience was with a female.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

3 hours ago, jackcali said:

After all, they're on a website advertising sexual services for men, so clearly they are open to gay sex regardless of their "true" sexual preference (if such a thing exists). 

Actually, Rent Men is just listing men for rent. Those men could be rented by men, women, or other. Rent Men clientele are assumed to be primarily men because paying for sex, like good driving, is not something women are known for.

Edited 11 hours ago by Vegas_Millennial
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[Mark_fl]

47 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Thank you! 🙏 

Tbh I find it difficult to shake hands with the client after I’ve fucked him!!! I prefer to give a cuddle but the more ‘straight’ guys get very anxious about intimacy after they’ve cum. So we shake hands and say ‘good day to you’. 

I guess, as usual, I'm an anomaly.  I considered myself straight until I started dabbling in this hobby a couple of years ago. When I first meet a provider I always shake hands. Just what guys do in my world. After intimacy (not actual fucking, as that isn't on my playlist), a handshake goodbye would seem silly to me. Then it seems a hug is appropriate. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 7/8/2026 at 7:44 AM, rojjodc said:

I am a little intrigued by what this means or the intent for providers who chose this for their sexual orientation?  What could it possibly mean?  Are providers required to answer this question, and they choose this because they don't want to answer?

 I know a few escorts that are "very gay" that have been hired by women for sensual massage or sex, and the gay escorts serviced the women despite having no attraction. The client was polite and paid the fee, so the escort provided the service.

Similarly, I don't find it far fetched to believe a straight female hooker would turn down money from a female john if asked, and that taking that gig doesn't change her to a lifelong bisexual or lesbian nor should she necessarily change how's she's advertising her identity.  She's created her brand that works for her.  She may feel it's not worth changing her advertisements to "bisexual" if she's already getting plenty of customers from servicing primarily men.  

Edited 10 hours ago by Vegas_Millennial
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[Mark_fl]

5 hours ago, TJMS said:

 If he was straight, he'd be on a site for women seeking lovers.

Doubtful. I dont think there are enough straight women comfortable with or desperate enough to have to pay for sex to keep that many straight men in business. It's likely straight-leaning guys who just aren't repulsed by gay acts.

I've never understood why seeing two guys or girls having sex would gross someone out that much. If you see two dogs having sex and aren't disgusted, does that mean you want to partake in that too. Its OK to not be aroused by something yet not find it disgusting.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

4 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

I guess, as usual, I'm an anomaly.  I considered myself straight until I started dabbling in this hobby a couple of years ago. When I first meet a provider I always shake hands. Just what guys do in my world. After intimacy (not actual fucking, as that isn't on my playlist), a handshake goodbye would seem silly to me. Then it seems a hug is appropriate. 

I remember when visiting Australia, all the escorts I hired ended the session with "Cheers, Mate!"

[+ SirBillybob]

“Ask me” is misleading and should be replaced with “Let me know after”. 

Edited 12 hours ago by SirBillybob

[+ KensingtonHomo]

9 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

In other words, your friend is “not a totally straight man,” as TJMS put it. 

He's as straight as anyone else because that's just an invented identity. Same as being gay or bi. 

[TJMS]

LOL