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[Cooper]

Administrator’s Reminder

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Failure to follow this warning will result in being banned from the site. A few messages have already been deleted. 

[HockeyMan]

Many escorts get into the business because they like older men.

[Peter Eater]

On 6/7/2026 at 8:05 AM, jonasfoleson said:

Paid sex is different to normal sex

Paid sex is normal sex.

[Peter Eater]

On 6/11/2026 at 7:33 PM, nomad said:

n.  A few have asked for pic before mtg.  All have said how handsome I look (it’s the Benjamins talking I'm sure 😆).

If a twink provider asks for a pic, send a pic of the Benjamins. Problem solved.

[jonasfoleson]

10 minutes ago, Peter Eater said:

Paid sex is normal sex.

It's not. It lacks the emotional capacity and is by name transactional let alone by definition.

[Peter Eater]

1 minute ago, jonasfoleson said:

It's not. It lacks the emotional capacity and is by name transactional let alone by definition.

You need to get out more.

Especially if you think ‘normal’ sex is always emotional and never transactional.

Edited Friday at 02:19 PM by Peter Eater

[jonasfoleson]

Just now, Peter Eater said:

You need to get out more.

I do, hence why paid sex and normal sex aren't the same. escorts are doig this as a job. the vibe is different. it's not soething choose with a hook up or their lover. It seems pretty self-explanatory. So yes, paid sex isn't the same as other forms of sex, or normal sex. 

[DMonDude]

6 minutes ago, jonasfoleson said:

It's not. It lacks the emotional capacity and is by name transactional let alone by definition.

"Normal sex" doesn't inherently have an emotional aspect to it. Sex is just sex. It can have an emotional aspect to it, but that isn't what differentiates it from paid sex. Transactional sex can also happen without money changing hands.

You're confusing emotional capacity to simple mutual physical attraction. Which is probably why Peter Eater is saying you need to get out more, because those are not at all the same thing.

Edited Friday at 02:23 PM by DMonDude

[jonasfoleson]

1 minute ago, DMonDude said:

"Normal sex" doesn't inherently have an emotional aspect to it. Sex is just sex. It can have an emotional aspect to it, but that isn't what differentiates it from paid sex. Transactional sex can also happen without money changing hands.

You're confusing emotional capacity to simple mutual physical attraction. Which is probably why Peter Eater is saying you need to get out more, because those are not at all the same thing.

A hook up is chosen. Paid sex is a job. that's it. Hook-ups can have emotional impacts as they bring excitement and genuine attraction. Paid sex is a job and thus transactional. He can surfely speak for himself and not need you to defend his points. 

[ACluelessGent]

1 hour ago, Peter Eater said:

If a twink provider asks for a pic, send a pic of the Benjamins. Problem solved.

I very often see in escort profiles "no blind dates". They regard escorting not as work but as a paid date and they don't go on blind dates.

[+ Kevin Eagle]

If a twink escort is only expecting clients similar in age to themselves, they must be naive

[BoyOnABoat]

I’ve aged out of twinkhood, but I still often encounter older men who are self-conscious about their age or the gap between us. Recently, a guy paused during sex to ask, “I don’t look too old, do I?” I told him no, but given the context and timing I didn't stop to reassure him further or dig into it.

As a provider and in my private life, I always struggle to express this plainly: yes I am genuinely attracted to older men -- and no I am not just saying that for money. 

[ACluelessGent]

15 minutes ago, BoyOnABoat said:

I’ve aged out of twinkhood, but I still often encounter older men who are self-conscious about their age or the gap between us. Recently, a guy paused during sex to ask, “I don’t look too old, do I?” I told him no, but given the context and timing I didn't stop to reassure him further or dig into it.

As a provider and in my private life, I always struggle to express this plainly: yes I am genuinely attracted to older men -- and no I am not just saying that for money. 

I don't believe you. Old age is disgusting. I know from firsthand experience.

[DMonDude]

3 hours ago, jonasfoleson said:

A hook up is chosen. Paid sex is a job. that's it. Hook-ups can have emotional impacts as they bring excitement and genuine attraction. Paid sex is a job and thus transactional. He can surfely speak for himself and not need you to defend his points. 

You just said the same thing i did now, so you agree. Sex isn't inherently emotional. Sex can be transactional regardless of it being for money or something else. A hook up being chosen is due to mutual physical attraction. Nice backtrack 👍.

Also if me agreeing and supplementing someone else's point bothers you, maybe don't be on a public forum where discussion is multi-person and not always one on one. Other people are going to chime in, that's how it works.

Edited Friday at 06:23 PM by DMonDude

[jonasfoleson]

6 hours ago, DMonDude said:

You just said the same thing i did now, so you agree. Sex isn't inherently emotional. Sex can be transactional regardless of it being for money or something else. A hook up being chosen is due to mutual physical attraction. Nice backtrack 👍.

Also if me agreeing and supplementing someone else's point bothers you, maybe don't be on a public forum where discussion is multi-person and not always one on one. Other people are going to chime in, that's how it works.

Where did I agree? I disputed that paid sex isn't normal sex. It cannot be. The fact escorts do it as a literal vocation means there are different factors involved. Paid sex is just "this person has given me money for an act, OK, let's do it." No prior attraction, not the same level of desire. Your and his points are just pedantic waffling in truth. Moreover, yes, people making points should substantiate them. They made the point, after all. Saying "paid sex is normal sex" is a goofy point that belies nuance, and the realities of escorting and prostitution at large. that is MY opinion and you can lie if you cannot even apply a point like "everybody has the right to an opinion".

Edited yesterday at 12:35 AM by jonasfoleson

[Becket]

On 6/30/2026 at 1:26 PM, HockeyMan said:

Many escorts get into the business because they like older men.

Indeed. One can always tell if you're with a guy who's enjoying himself. But different ways for guys to "enjoy themselves:" Some are turned on just by the intensity of the client really being turned on by the escort. Others are turned on by the money. Some like the social interaction, others are caring and compassionate people and really enjoy helping, providing a service. Some are just horn dogs and would screw a tomato. 

Whatever the reason, I for one am thankful that there are younger guys available to be with older guys like me. What a joy it is to lay down with a beautiful younger man!

[jonasfoleson]

7 hours ago, ACluelessGent said:

I don't believe you. Old age is disgusting. I know from firsthand experience.

More often than not, it is disingenuous lies or half-applied truths. as is much of this "kind" bs in "open" spaces. I guess it's a sin not to expect people to be shifty and not pose for social kudos. 

[Nue2thegame]

14 hours ago, ACluelessGent said:

I don't believe you. Old age is disgusting. I know from firsthand experience.

Old age is what we make of it. Somethings get better, some get worse. I like to dwell on the positive side. 

[+ StLouisOct]

I had a lovely affair a few years ago with a guy in his 30s and he was half my age. He liked older guys.  When it comes to my younger escorts, I have no idea if they like older guys. They’re great company, it seems like they like the experience and my company, they never fail me and I have memorable times. But we aren’t lovers. They’re pros. They don’t have to really like my aging body while they’re making me happy.

[jonasfoleson]

On 7/4/2026 at 2:04 AM, Becket said:

Indeed. One can always tell if you're with a guy who's enjoying himself. But different ways for guys to "enjoy themselves:" Some are turned on just by the intensity of the client really being turned on by the escort. Others are turned on by the money. Some like the social interaction, others are caring and compassionate people and really enjoy helping, providing a service. Some are just horn dogs and would screw a tomato. 

Whatever the reason, I for one am thankful that there are younger guys available to be with older guys like me. What a joy it is to lay down with a beautiful younger man!

people get into escoring for money or they're horny and it's a godo way to get money. and the reasons for moeny are varied - students, artists needed supplemental income, people who hook up on Grindr and realise they can make money from sex, people from marginalised groups who have no other means of income, etc.