When a regular provider stops trying… what do you do?

[+ ApexNomad]

34 minutes ago, Braziliancutee said:

U dont need to spent a lot and we are not talking about love. But sometimes this little actions are really nice. 

So by that logic, you’d be open to seeing a client for free sometimes, just because it’s nice and makes them feel cared for?

[savantsav]

2 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

4-5 post meets at 2-3 hour blocks, plus overnights, is expensive, and yet still not delivering was very generous of you. Shame he couldn’t deliver after such a promising start. 

We did an overnight where he didn't cum, so I mentioned it to him and he said that was the goal but couldn't. OK that's fine it happens. Next time we saw each other we had another overnight where it didn't happen and that's when he apologized again. I didn't book an overnight again, I did 3hrs next time I was in town and he didn't either. That's when I stopped things.

[+ purplekow]

Hey sexual attraction has a shelf life.  It seems you have passed the Best Used By date and if you do not like smelling the milk to see if you can still use it, toss it out and buy another carton.  Sometimes hanging onto something that you know has seen its best days results in memories of what was when it should be making memories with what is.  

[savantsav]

I mean the D was good so is not like I was suffering haha I was getting off. But BFE with no cum isn't BFE.

[+ ApexNomad]

38 minutes ago, savantsav said:

We did an overnight where he didn't cum, so I mentioned it to him and he said that was the goal but couldn't. OK that's fine it happens. Next time we saw each other we had another overnight where it didn't happen and that's when he apologized again. I didn't book an overnight again, I did 3hrs next time I was in town and he didn't either. That's when I stopped things.

Look, on the one hand you gave it multiple chances and it still didn’t pan out for you. At some point it just comes down to compatibility, and it didn’t seem like it was there. 

It sounds like he came the first time you met, but never again? Did he have trouble getting it up with you there? Respectfully, do you think maybe the attraction wasn’t fully there?

Did he offer any kind of financial adjustment given how much you were spending and cumming was discussed as a prerequisite?

On the other hand, since you saw him a lot, what if you spoke to him more as a friend? Was/is he going through something? Personal stuff? Health? Family? Money? Depression? Drugs? Etc.? Not giving excuses, just seems odd that he performed so well for you the first time, then stopped every time thereafter.

[savantsav]

I did ask him several times and told him that I understood if he was going through something or using a new medication or whatever. He never really shared anything else other than "It's just difficult for me to cum". 

[+ ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, savantsav said:

I did ask him several times and told him that I understood if he was going through something or using a new medication or whatever. He never really shared anything else other than "It's just difficult for me to cum". 

Well, at that point, I think you knew what you were signing up for. You gave it a solid run and got out. Better late than never.