Truly a virgin with men, provider a good 1st experience?

[ChiTwnPaul]

I could use some advice.

I am a very submissive closeted guy and have only had a few oral experiences. I really want to go the next level but I am not looking for a relationship.

I am thinking a provider would be a good choice. The one I am looking at is experienced, has excellent reviews, offers BFE, and is really 🔥   

 Has anyone lost their virginity to a provider and is able to give their thoughts?

[56harrisond]

Some existing "first time" threads

 

[jeezifonly]

As you haven't provided your age to give us context, the best general advice is to look for threads on hygiene, and keep expectations low. I hope you have a great experience!

[+ Pensant]

For a first-time experience, I would engage a well-reviewed older provider, some of whom are COM contributors. 

[Roger Smith]

You can't go wrong with DznNYC.  I'm far from a first timer, but... 

Kind, patient, sexy, and far more vers than his profile makes it appear. 

 

rent.men/DznNYC

[Rod Hagen]

My specialty was First Timers.  Over the decades there were many many men I took from never having Touched or kissed a Man to him getting fucked and made out with and cared for, inside of an hour.  Many.  You need a guy known for that.  It's truly a shame there no longer are long reviews you can comb through, the RentMen reviews available on the Proxy Servers are more like tweets.

All you can do now is reach out.  If they don't have the patience to communicate with you on this subject, they might not be sufficiently patient in bed either.

[Nue2thegame]

11 hours ago, ChiTwnPaul said:

I could use some advice.

I am thinking a provider would be a good choice. The one I am looking at is experienced, has excellent reviews, offers BFE, and is really 🔥   

 Has anyone lost their virginity to a provider and is able to give their thoughts?

I did and had a great experience. No regrets. Selecting the right one is critical and there are lots of good suggestions on CoM, including this thread. 
“ I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy.“

…Steve Martin

Edited Tuesday at 02:47 PM by Nue2thegame

[Wings246]

14 hours ago, ChiTwnPaul said:

Has anyone lost their virginity to a provider and is able to give their thoughts?

Not sure if this answers your questions directly, but I was in a somewhat similar situation last year and I started this thread (my first ever on CoM):

Some of the comments / suggestions were very insightful, and even the sarcastic ones were super fun to read.

[+ PhileasFogg]

Contact @TJMS by PM.  He can give solid feedback

 

if you’re looking to leave Chicago, I’ll share some thoughts by PM

Edited Tuesday at 06:35 PM by PhileasFogg

[+ poolboy48220]

The first time I bottomed was with an escort. I'd told him ahead of time I'd never done it before and he was very patient with me. It was awesome. That night was my first experience rimming too. This was early 90's so I'm sure he's long retired.

[Wings246]

10 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

The first time I bottomed was with an escort. I'd told him ahead of time I'd never done it before and he was very patient with me. It was awesome.

Me too!!!  Unlike you, however, it was a fairly recent event for me.

[PetetKsfo]

I have had many first-time clients.  It is always my intention to be caring, kind, and consentual.  I love to get to know a guy and understand how he would like to connect with me,  and to let him know that  we can always modify what we are doing along the way at any point.    I always open to talking in advance about desires and intentions.    Feel free to write back to me if you'd like to disscuss more, whether you are interested in a connection wtih me, or even to bounce questions or ideas in general or for thoughts with other guys too.

Regards,

Peter