Kissing and not good at it?

[Heart It Deep]

I realize not everyone requires kissing as part of their experience... but I've had two to three experiences with different providers who I've either decided after the fact are not good kissers, or it seems like they weren't interested in kissing.  

It's left me bummed out. 

I try to advocate for what I want when contacting a provider, but I feel like kissing is implied from what I describe, do I really need to ask if they kiss?  

 

Thoughts?

 

[OvrwghtQT]

I always specify that kissing is important to me and how I want it (French, deep, passionate, taking my time). Some would say they kiss dry only. Some say they’re not big on kissing. I get to decide then if I want to go forward or pass.

Edited Tuesday at 12:37 PM by OvrwghtQT
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[Heart It Deep]

40 minutes ago, OvrwghtQT said:

I always specify that kissing is important to me and how I want it (French, deep, passionate, taking my time). Some would say they kiss not only dry. Some say they’re not big on kissing. I get to decide then if I want to go forward or pass.

That's a smart tip.

[Whatsupandstuff]

that Tristan Baldwin is quite a kisser 

[BuffaloKyle]

I love to kiss and always ask a provider if they are cool with passionate making out. A provider I hired once, who had kissing listed even on his page, said in person when I wanted to kiss that he doesn't kiss. Also a provider once didn't have kissing listed but I reached out to ask anyway and they said they would. They actually were great at it too and I'm so glad I asked. So I make it a habit to verify and hopefully get some first hand knowledge from guys on here about a provider and their kissing skills and willingness.

Another quick & easy tip is to reach out to a provider who posts right in their ad they love to kiss. I don't think I have ever been burned when they state right in their ad that they are into it.

Edited Tuesday at 03:55 AM by BuffaloKyle

[+ purplekow]

However, he has told me on more than one occasion, that kissing is a if not the favorite activity of his.  

[Braziliancutee]

Brazilians are known for being great kissers that’s something I’ve heard from many clients. Sometimes, the clients even want to spend an entire hour just kissing with me.
I’d definitely recommend everyone experience a kissing session with a Brazilian at least once. We are very passionate. And I really love to kiss tbh when I don’t kiss in the sex I can’t stay hard. 

Edited Tuesday at 05:07 AM by Braziliancutee

[TonyDown]

I love kissing but often disappointed how some guys kiss.  

 

[liubit]

Just like @Braziliancutee, if there is no kissing, I simply don’t get hard. Passionate, wet, wild kissing is essential for me, so I always ask: a non-kisser is definitely a no-hire. 

3 hours ago, Braziliancutee said:

Sometimes, the clients even want to spend an entire hour just kissing with me.

You are my kind of guy, cutie. 

[Sfteenboy]

Kissing is essential. It’s the only way to get off. I think it’s the best way to get those carnal desires out .

 

 

https://rent.men/sfteenboy

[Poppie]

5 hours ago, Braziliancutee said:

Brazilians are known for being great kissers that’s something I’ve heard from many clients. Sometimes, the clients even want to spend an entire hour just kissing with me.
I’d definitely recommend everyone experience a kissing session with a Brazilian at least once. We are very passionate. And I really love to kiss tbh when I don’t kiss in the sex I can’t stay hard. 

I've had a few kissing sessions with Brazilian men. A naked make out session (leading to more oral) is a major TURN ON for me.

[+ Pensant]

2 hours ago, Sfteenboy said:

Kissing is essential. It’s the only way to get off. I think it’s the best way to get those carnal desires out .

 

 

https://rent.men/sfteenboy

Wow! I’ll have to meet you sometime. Love that leather wrist restraint in the first photo!

[Braziliancutee]

5 hours ago, liubit said:

Just like @Braziliancutee, if there is no kissing, I simply don’t get hard. Passionate, wet, wild kissing is essential for me, so I always ask: a non-kisser is definitely a no-hire. 

You are my kind of guy, cutie. 

💙💙💙

[Braziliancutee]

3 hours ago, Poppie said:

I've had a few kissing sessions with Brazilian men. A naked make out session (leading to more oral) is a major TURN ON for me.

Yeah I don’t kiss just the lips.. I know how to use my tongue and do things with it on my partner's neck, face, ear and lips. Idk how to explain but it’s something that def Americans providers don’t do a lot. Even Colombians a few they do but is not so common. Bc a lot they kiss but they don’t know how to use the tongue. I already taught a few clients how to use. Is good to bring a bit from my culture to the clients 😅

Edited Tuesday at 01:33 PM by Braziliancutee

[+ JamesB]

I’ve learned from experience to always ask whether they’re okay with the things that matter to me, even if those are listed on their profile. Keep in mind that providers, like anyone else, won’t excel at everything they offer. Some may be great kissers, others not so much, and the same goes for everything else. As long as they make an effort, I’m more than willing to guide them on how I prefer things to be done.

Just as an example, about a month ago I contacted a provider who was new to me and didn't have his “into” section filled out. I asked about the things I like and he said no to one that’s a dealbreaker for me, so I thanked him and left it at that. Two days later, he updated his profile and listed that same thing as something he offers. So yes, it’s always best to ask, be specific and get clear confirmation on anything that’s important to you.

[Sfteenboy]

6 hours ago, Pensant said:

Wow! I’ll have to meet you sometime. Love that leather wrist restraint in the first photo!

Thank you ☺️🩵

[TJMS]

I love deep kissing and so far only one provider has not delivered on that promise, so even though he had a gorgeous ass and was a hot fuck, I won't be seeing him again. There are plenty of other guys will kiss, and kiss well!

[pubic_assistance]

18 hours ago, Heart It Deep said:

I feel like kissing is implied from what I describe, do I really need to ask if they kiss? 

Escorts are hired for SEX not to be your boyfriend. So...YES if kissing is important than you should absolutely ask. 

Alternatively, I notice that many providers list BFE ( Boy Friend Experience ) I would assume that THIS service would have kissing as an assumption.  SO it's a good starting point.

[+ Jamie21]

I find it difficult not to kiss. When one really gets into things and the client is passionate and responsive I just find it natural to kiss. Some clients will turn their head away indicating they don’t want to kiss but most just accept it willingly. It is of course extremely intimate, which is why there’s some who draw the line at kissing. 

[OvrwghtQT]

15 hours ago, Braziliancutee said:

Brazilians are known for being great kissers that’s something I’ve heard from many clients. Sometimes, the clients even want to spend an entire hour just kissing with me.
I’d definitely recommend everyone experience a kissing session with a Brazilian at least once. We are very passionate. And I really love to kiss tbh when I don’t kiss in the sex I can’t stay hard. 

I kissed a Brazilian once and didn’t like it. 😂 

[Braziliancutee]

36 minutes ago, OvrwghtQT said:

I kissed a Brazilian once and didn’t like it. 😂 

I am so sorry for that!!! I think u need a new experience ❤️

[OvrwghtQT]

34 minutes ago, Braziliancutee said:

I am so sorry for that!!! I think u need a new experience ❤️

Can you recommend someone? 😘 

[Braziliancutee]

55 minutes ago, OvrwghtQT said:

Can you recommend someone? 😘 

I will text u!

[CuriousByNature]

10 hours ago, Braziliancutee said:

Yeah I don’t kiss just the lips.. I know how to use my tongue and do things with it on my partner's neck, face, ear and lips. 

Is this literally the GOAT (Greatest of All Time)?

[Heart It Deep]

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Escorts are hired for SEX not to be your boyfriend. So...YES if kissing is important than you should absolutely ask. 

Alternatively, I notice that many providers list BFE ( Boy Friend Experience ) I would assume that THIS service would have kissing as an assumption.  SO it's a good starting point.

This is a reason I was confused on at least one account, because even though the provider didn't kissing as an "into" he listed "boyfriend experience." soooooo  conflictory.