I got the impression he’s a racist. But he claims that he can afford to act the way he does because he has “many requests” and “can pick the guys that fit best.” And mind you, he thought we were a match until he found out my race. Thank you, next!
Based on my chat with him today, it seems like he asks for a pic to screen your race. If you’re Asian/mixed Asian, don’t bother — “not a match.” Everyone is entitled to have “preferences.” Better to know before meeting him.
Met him in NYC last year. Had a great time. Really passionate all the way. And those eyes! Best daddy-stepson experience so far. Oh, his book is also a great read!
I agree about emergencies. They happen even to the best of us. But this provider didn’t bother to explain why he was cancelling two hours before. “Can’t make it” was pretty much all he said. “I apologize for cancelling last minute but [explains why]” would be a mature, professional thing to do. This provider had no sense of decency to explain. And then had the nerve to get pissed when I expressed my frustration.
Glad he showed up. He blew me off last minute and had the nerve to get upset at me for telling him I prepped for nothing. He was totally unprofessional about it and wasn’t apologetic about it.