BFE - what to expect

[Veryshyone]

I see quite a few providers advertising "boyfriend experience" and am wondering overall what to expect from this type of session. Is it a date, dinner, romance, sensual, foreplay, or similar to dating? Is it something I should explain of what I am looking for in these types of meetings and my impression of what it means to me? Curious to know.

[+ PhileasFogg]

It’s what you say…but not all are as good as others

[MikeH10]

it can be any of those things, or none of those things. it's crucial to state your expectations and get agreement

[+ Jamie21]

5 hours ago, Veryshyone said:

I see quite a few providers advertising "boyfriend experience" and am wondering overall what to expect from this type of session. Is it a date, dinner, romance, sensual, foreplay, or similar to dating? Is it something I should explain of what I am looking for in these types of meetings and my impression of what it means to me? Curious to know.

It’s where you go out but he takes ages to get ready, he disagrees with you on the type of restaurant, flirts with the waiter, spends a lot of time on his phone, doesn’t notice that you’re wearing a new top (or comment on it) and then gets drunk at the club, sucks off one of your friends in the toilets and then disappears for 3 hours with one of the go go dancers. Later that evening at home in bed he tries to fuck you but falls asleep part way through. Next morning he denies everything and kisses you so tenderly you end up having sex on the kitchen table. 
Oh wait no….you mean you’re hiring a bf experience? That can mean anything you like (the above if it’s your thing) or something like that except a little more attentive and giving. I did one recently for a client where they wanted to meet for drinks in the bar of their hotel, we flirt, kiss etc then go to their room, bath together with more drinks (I had the tap end) then a massage and play on the bed. It could also involve going out to a club or restaurant, basically you decide what you’d like. He will plan it and deliver. 

[+ SirBillybob]

Tap end … a who tapped that of whomever’s end reference? Is the faucet dripping and refusing to shut off?

Edited 19 hours ago by SirBillybob

[56harrisond]

Some previous discussions 

 

[mtaabq]

I think @Jamie21 said it best and, truly, gave me my 1st genuine laugh of the day. That said, the BFE can be whatever you want the BFE to be. It’s stated here over  and over again but you need to be clear in communications with the provider as to what you want. My joke for years is that if I wanted the BFE I’ll ask my provider to treat me badly and steal my money. 🤣

[jeezifonly]

A good boyfriend experience to my way of thinking requires paying for more of the provider's time. I love the slower seduction absent from most services, and even from gratis hookups. Clothing may not come off as quick. More time on kissing, limbs entwining and tactile exploration. And laughing (very important) The more specific consent convo continues throughout as chemistry dictates new urges. 

To me, it demands a 2hr sesh, minimum, and choosing the right provider counts more than average goal-oriented sessions.