First time advice please (London)

[Britguy]

Hi. I haven’t hired before and so looking for some advice please. I know what I’m looking for (although haven’t found it yet) but I’m quite specific on the experience I want (nothing too unusual, I think it’s described as boyfriend experience, but I want it through to, erm, completion). 
Which are the best sites to use? Are the reviews real? How specific are you when hiring? How do I know how long to book for? Do I pay before or after? 

As background I’m mid 40s time poor and don’t have time or mental capacity to deal with Grindr. Basically I want a ‘sure thing’ with someone I really fancy at a time convenient to me. But I don’t want to waste my time or money…

[Britguy]

Btw in case anyone has recommendations, my type is:

6ft+, 80kg+, 40+, top, hairy
 

[ShortCutie7]

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[+ Jamie21]

Try RentMen. Ask for what you want, don’t be coy. Usually you pay afterwards. The duration depends on your budget, but beware, if you book 3 or 4 hours and for some reason you find you don’t find him compatible after half an hour and want to curtail it he will expect full payment. Best to book someone for an hour, see what he’s like and then book a longer session next time. It’s highly likely that you’re going to have some trial and error with this. There’s no such thing as a ‘sure thing’. Don’t go into it with that expectation. 

[Mark_fl]

My one piece of advice as a relative novice myself.is to book two hours. You want to be able to go slowly, get comfortable with each other, and not feel rushed.  As for the other particulars,  I'll leave that to the experts,  as toppings or bottoming isn't part of my menu.

 

 

[Braziliancutee]

Becareful with the guys who use drugs there!!! A lot and a lot. 

[MarkBottom2025]

Utilize rent men and I agree only book for an hour.  Pay attention to what they write on their profile to be sure it is compatible with what u are looking for.   Be up front with your first communication what day time and duration u are looking for, helps for them to give a quote and state availability.  

[Chancealot]

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[Chancealot]

31 minutes ago, Braziliancutee said:

Becareful with the guys who use drugs there!!! A lot and a lot. 

Wow really ??  Can you provide more context ?

[mike carey]

12 hours ago, Britguy said:

Hi. I haven’t hired before and so looking for some advice please. I know what I’m looking for (although haven’t found it yet) but I’m quite specific on the experience I want (nothing too unusual, I think it’s described as boyfriend experience, but I want it through to, erm, completion). 
Which are the best sites to use? Are the reviews real? How specific are you when hiring? How do I know how long to book for? Do I pay before or after? 

As background I’m mid 40s time poor and don’t have time or mental capacity to deal with Grindr. Basically I want a ‘sure thing’ with someone I really fancy at a time convenient to me. But I don’t want to waste my time or money…

G'day @Britguy and welcome to the forum. You'll get a lot of advice here, mainly good. If you search the site (top right of the page, make sure you select 'Everywhere' in the drop down at the right of the search box) you'll find other threads with advice for new hirers, mostly it will be in the Questions About Hiring forum. You're asking about London, and the advice will be slighty different because of the different legal status of hiring from that in the US. I would suggest you take note of what @Jamie21 says. As has already happened, people may offer specific hiring suggestions for London.

With that in mind, I've moved the thread to the Europe forum so that your thread doesn't fade into a general advice discussion rather than being focussed on advice relevant to the UK.

Happy searching. To completion, as you put it.

[sydneyboy]

2 hours ago, Braziliancutee said:

Becareful with the guys who use drugs there!!! A lot and a lot. 

Brazilliancutee. Absolutely beautiful.

[Braziliancutee]

1 hour ago, sydneyboy said:

Brazilliancutee. Absolutely beautiful.

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[Braziliancutee]

3 hours ago, Chancealot said:

Wow really ??  Can you provide more context ?

I already talked a bit about this here! But sure.

a lot guys there are using one drugs called Tina is kind of the new crack they stay awake and horny for 2/3 days. And if they are using and kiss  you you will get the effects. Just make sure if the guy put I do “party” don’t hire him is bc he does drugs. And always ask if they do something. I stayed there a lot time already and a lot and a lot guys wanted to hire me to use drugs with them.

is hard to find escorts there who don’t do drugs. Has a few like me that who don’t do. But becareful ask them before. If they put on their profile “no drugs” that’s awesome. Any question u can text me I will be happy to help u.

Edited Sunday at 04:44 AM by Braziliancutee

[sydneyboy]

23 minutes ago, Braziliancutee said:

🥰🥰🥰🥰

My pleasure beautiful 

[Britguy]

Thanks for all the replies and advice, much appreciated. 
 

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[polysome]

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