Can rentmen providers rate clients?

[nate_sf]

On 11/9/2025 at 8:38 AM, BigK said:

I honestly don’t know why providers don’t check out their clients rent men profiles.  If they see the client has hired other escorts, possibly even some who they know, then they could reach out to get a word of mouth review of the client..

For me, the client having a track record of having reviewed other guys is a great indicator that they’re legit. I don’t go as far as contacting the escorts who have been reviewed, but I’ll look at their profiles to see what they’re like and what kinds of guys the client likes. 

I’d say most clients don’t leave reviews though, unless asked. But if a client is wanting to show that he’s legit, a history of reviews really helps. 

[SecretProvider]

3 hours ago, nate_sf said:

For me, the client having a track record of having reviewed other guys is a great indicator that they’re legit. I don’t go as far as contacting the escorts who have been reviewed, but I’ll look at their profiles to see what they’re like and what kinds of guys the client likes. 

I’d say most clients don’t leave reviews though, unless asked. But if a client is wanting to show that he’s legit, a history of reviews really helps. 

I occasionally reach out to providers who have been left a review by a client and just ask for a heads up with three simple questions - what was he like, what does he like, would you see them again? 

A history of reviews is certainly a great indicator that the client is legit.  I don't like when the client has hundreds of them though - it shows me that this client will be a one and done no matter how well I perform.  I call them "tally clients" they just be racking up a tally on the bed posts and getting someone new every time - it also creates a lot of pressure. Perform well and get a review, but also be prepared to be compared to ALL the other really hot guys that have fucked them, knowing that you are being 'rated'. I guess is our version of being 'clock watched'.  

Conversely, bad indicator is when they have left multiple reviews for guys and more than one or two of these reviews is negative, be it here or on rentmen. It could be that they are high maintenance client, or a client that has hygiene issues that they are unaware of making the providers struggle to perform. 

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

3 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

I occasionally reach out to providers who have been left a review by a client and just ask for a heads up with three simple questions - what was he like, what does he like, would you see them again? 

That's pretty much the only way to get reliable reviews.

I reached out to a client of a provider I wanted to hire. Although he left a 5 star review, he said he hated it and warned me to stay away....

....and CoM's thread on the guy bore that out.

[DMonDude]

5 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

That's pretty much the only way to get reliable reviews.

I reached out to a client of a provider I wanted to hire. Although he left a 5 star review, he said he hated it and warned me to stay away....

....and CoM's thread on the guy bore that out.

Unless the provider forced the client to leave him a 5 star review in front of him under duress, why would the client leave a glowing review for a bad experience? Did they say why they gave a 5 star review if they hated it and warned you to stay away? I guess maybe one of those "i feel bad leaving a bad review even though i got a horrible experience" guys, now that i think about it.

Edited Wednesday at 04:58 AM by DMonDude

[+ DrownedBoy]

13 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Unless the provider forced the client to leave him a 5 star review in front of him under duress, why would the client leave a glowing review for a bad experience? Did they say why they gave a 5 star review if they hated it and warned you to stay away? I guess maybe one of those "i feel bad leaving a bad review even though i got a horrible experience" guys, now that i think about it.

I bet lots of guys are afraid of retaliation or something for bad reviews. Something that never bothered me.

[SecretProvider]

17 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

That's pretty much the only way to get reliable reviews.

I reached out to a client of a provider I wanted to hire. Although he left a 5 star review, he said he hated it and warned me to stay away....

....and CoM's thread on the guy bore that out.

"I'll take things that never happened for 500 Alex."

[+ DrownedBoy]

5 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

"I'll take things that never happened for 500 Alex."

Read and learn boy 🙄

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/162679-freddieflame-denver/#comment-2418752

[savantsav]

6 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

"I'll take things that never happened for 500 Alex."

I've had two providers not just ask for a 5 star review, but asked me to do it in front of them before they left.

[+ JamesB]

7 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

"I'll take things that never happened for 500 Alex."

 

Here’s a screenshot of a direct message from a 5 star reviewer on RM.

 

[SecretProvider]

4 hours ago, JamesB said:

 

Here’s a screenshot of a direct message from a 5 star reviewer on RM.

 

Im not saying THAT part didn't happen - what I don't believe is the encounter that lead to the 5 star review was bad. 

More likely it was good, and thus the review, but afterwards sour grapes appeared - client stated messaging casually with out making bookings, client got jealous or feelings hurt, provider turned down a second appointment, client started asking for discounts 'since we both had such a good time', client starting texting asking for more pics...

 

"I only left a review because they asked me to and stood there and watched me" yeah right.  as if you woudl not say "Sure I will do it later tonight, thanks for coming over, bye"  you can also just as easily ask Rentmen to take down positive reviews they do it in a flash. so I call bullshit on that story. 

I will even grant you that maybe subsequent appointments were not as stellar as the first - but no one, NO ONE hands over their phone to someone and lets someone else publish something from their phone, especially if it was someone they did not have a good time with. When was the last time you handled over your phone and just let someone send messages with it without your approval? It doesn't make sense. 

 

 

6 hours ago, savantsav said:

I've had two providers not just ask for a 5 star review, but asked me to do it in front of them before they left.

"I only left a review because they asked me to and stood there and watched me" yeah right.  as if you would not say "Sure I will do it later tonight, thanks for coming over, bye"  you can also just as easily ask Rentmen to take down positive reviews they do it in a flash. so I call bullshit on that story. 

[savantsav]

9 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

Im not saying THAT part didn't happen - what I don't believe is the encounter that lead to the 5 star review was bad. 

More likely it was good, and thus the review, but afterwards sour grapes appeared - client stated messaging casually with out making bookings, client got jealous or feelings hurt, provider turned down a second appointment, client started asking for discounts 'since we both had such a good time', client starting texting asking for more pics...

 

"I only left a review because they asked me to and stood there and watched me" yeah right.  as if you woudl not say "Sure I will do it later tonight, thanks for coming over, bye"  you can also just as easily ask Rentmen to take down positive reviews they do it in a flash. so I call bullshit on that story. 

I will even grant you that maybe subsequent appointments were not as stellar as the first - but no one, NO ONE hands over their phone to someone and lets someone else publish something from their phone, especially if it was someone they did not have a good time with. When was the last time you handled over your phone and just let someone send messages with it without your approval? It doesn't make sense. 

 

 

"I only left a review because they asked me to and stood there and watched me" yeah right.  as if you would not say "Sure I will do it later tonight, thanks for coming over, bye"  you can also just as easily ask Rentmen to take down positive reviews they do it in a flash. so I call bullshit on that story. 

I have zero reasons to lie about this. I wouldn’t have posted. You may not do it or think it’s kitsch but there are providers out there that have SERIOUS issues with aggression. In a decade of hiring it has happened to me twice that they ask for a 5 star review at the end and asked to see it before publishing it and in both times they asked for it so aggressively that I had fears they would get aggressive if I didn’t even after saying “yea I’ll do it later” “no, now before I go”. This particular one I remember he was COKED out of his mind (and he had issues performing and keeping it hard because of that) so I did it in front of him to appease him and not put myself in danger. 

There’s already other clients here telling you it has happened to them too. Do you know every provider? If you believe me, great, if you don’t, well, it doesn’t change what happened to me. 

Edited Thursday at 03:06 PM by savantsav

[SecretProvider]

1 hour ago, savantsav said:

I have zero reasons to lie about this. I wouldn’t have posted. You may not do it or think it’s kitsch but there are providers out there that have SERIOUS issues with aggression. In a decade of hiring it has happened to me twice that they ask for a 5 star review at the end and asked to see it before publishing it and in both times they asked for it so aggressively that I had fears they would get aggressive if I didn’t even after saying “yea I’ll do it later” “no, now before I go”. This particular one I remember he was COKED out of his mind (and he had issues performing and keeping it hard because of that) so I did it in front of him to appease him and not put myself in danger. 

There’s already other clients here telling you it has happened to them too. Do you know every provider? If you believe me, great, if you don’t, well, it doesn’t change what happened to me. 

don't hire guys who PnP - thats a risk you get when you play with drugs.

and delete the reviews.  Hope that helps. 

[savantsav]

Just now, SecretProvider said:

don't hire guys who PnP - thats a risk you get when you play with drugs.

and delete the reviews.  Hope that helps. 

There was no indication whatosever on their profile that they PnPed. I don't do drugs. Seeing PNP in a profile is an instant no for me. So thank you for your concern and recommendation but it wouldn't have stopped this.

[DMonDude]

On 11/13/2025 at 8:17 AM, SecretProvider said:

don't hire guys who PnP - thats a risk you get when you play with drugs.

and delete the reviews.  Hope that helps. 

Funny how you didn't address SavantSav pointing out that other people here corroborated the experience you called BS on (cause you're wrong). You're trying way too hard to assert your experiences as the norm that everyone else here experiences too, while also being sassy about it, and it's making you look silly. And also like SavantSav said, not everyone who PNPs lists that on their RM profiles. Your suggestion there is a good one but it's not a guarantee or something anyone can have true control over because people sometimes lie or omit that information.

Edited Friday at 08:57 PM by DMonDude

[SecretProvider]

2 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Funny how you didn't address SavantSav pointing out that other people here corroborated the experience you called BS on (cause you're wrong)

I'm not wrong. I just don't believe it. Nothing said here has changed my mind on that. No one here was with SavantSav at the time this 'happened', and so no one can actually 'corroborate' what transpired. 

I have arrived at group bookings where other providers have been high or under performed. I have been in situations where I was shocked by the behavior of the other providers in all manner of ways (hygiene, drug use, tardiness, politeness, outdated pics, poor effort). I have trusted regulars who have told me about providers who have been aggressive. I am certain that is true that provides can behave in these ways, and I am certain he has had bad encounters. 

I just don't believe that the initial experience he had with provider resulting in a 5star review was a bad one. Sorry. *Shrug* But it's not just my experience that tells me otherwise, it's also Rentmen's (admittedly deeply flawed) review policies. 

So once again - if there was a situation where someone DEMANDED you give up your phone to them (I don't believe this happened, but lets go with it) IF that was true - you can simply have the review removed by contacting Rentmen. They remove reviews at the posters request very quickly.

So it is way more likely that the review is still up because it was genuine, and now something has happened since the encounter and the reviewer has sour grapes/ the relationship has soured. 

This might surprise you - but people often come on here a tell half lies or complete BS in order to get sympathy and pats on the back- it makes them feel better about themselves I guess I don't know the motive. They put down providers here on the DAILY. 

Not sure what else to say my dude. Sorry but thats how I see it. 

[savantsav]

37 minutes ago, SecretProvider said:

I'm not wrong. I just don't believe it. Nothing said here has changed my mind on that. No one here was with SavantSav at the time this 'happened', and so no one can actually 'corroborate' what transpired. 

I have arrived at group bookings where other providers have been high or under performed. I have been in situations where I was shocked by the behavior of the other providers in all manner of ways (hygiene, drug use, tardiness, politeness, outdated pics, poor effort). I have trusted regulars who have told me about providers who have been aggressive. I am certain that is true that provides can behave in these ways, and I am certain he has had bad encounters. 

I just don't believe that the initial experience he had with provider resulting in a 5star review was a bad one. Sorry. *Shrug* But it's not just my experience that tells me otherwise, it's also Rentmen's (admittedly deeply flawed) review policies. 

So once again - if there was a situation where someone DEMANDED you give up your phone to them (I don't believe this happened, but lets go with it) IF that was true - you can simply have the review removed by contacting Rentmen. They remove reviews at the posters request very quickly.

So it is way more likely that the review is still up because it was genuine, and now something has happened since the encounter and the reviewer has sour grapes/ the relationship has soured. 

This might surprise you - but people often come on here a tell half lies or complete BS in order to get sympathy and pats on the back- it makes them feel better about themselves I guess I don't know the motive. They put down providers here on the DAILY. 

Not sure what else to say my dude. Sorry but thats how I see it. 

I wasn't gonna ask to have the review removed because they know where I live! It's perfectly fine if you don't believe me and the others telling you it has happened, it does seem, idk, odd that we would all be in cahoots to lie about this., but I guess you know every provider that exists and that none would be so coked up their mind to demand and be aggressive about it. It's OK.

[DMonDude]

6 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

I'm not wrong. I just don't believe it. Nothing said here has changed my mind on that. No one here was with SavantSav at the time this 'happened', and so no one can actually 'corroborate' what transpired. 

I never said they were there. I'm saying the scenario is not far fetched because other people NOT related to SavantSav have experienced exactly what they described. The fact that you're so bone headedly stubborn to keep doubling and tripling down on your dumb point, that you didn't understand that the other people were confirming the scenario happened to them separately and independently to what SavantSav described kinda proves my point that you're trying way too hard to assert your own experiences as the norm that everyone else here experiences or didn't actually experience. Which, again, has you looking really ridiculous here. Especially when in your own very next paragraph you talk about all your own regulars who also have told you of similar experiences. So what is it about SavantSav, that suddenly you know for such fact the review they're referring to is BS? Do you see the silliness in your argument here?

Edited yesterday at 06:06 AM by DMonDude

[marylander1940]

On 11/2/2025 at 6:59 PM, Mark_fl said:

And if so, can I client see their feedback?

they can always review folks in Mr. Number.

I can't find the old thread about that site.

[nate_sf]

Mod's Note: The original question was whether providers can rate clients. The tit-for-tat is not on topic, and it is becoming personal. Either stick to the original question, or we can conclude it's already been answered and lock the thread.

[SecretProvider]

10 hours ago, DMonDude said:

So what is it about SavantSav, that suddenly you know for such fact the review they're referring to is BS? Do you see the silliness in your argument here?

I don't know if you are dense, or I am not being clear. 

1. I believe providers, like anyone in any industry,  can act inappropriately. you know we are people too right? 

2. I don't believe people give up their phones to have these people leave reviews. Sorry - I just don't. 

3. and IF it has happened, I don't believe that they don't then take these reviews down.  Him saying 'oh but he knows where I live' is also BS. The provider won't get a notification the review is gone. just block his profile and be done with it. 

Just because someone says it happened, doesn't mean it is gospel. and here is the real gag: YOU ACTUALLY DON'T KNOW EITHER.  you chose to believe it, I don't.  And guess what - that is OK.  

[+ DrownedBoy]

I have a provider I'm the "Chicago anchor" for, and he's been very reliable and loyal. Nonetheless, the following happened at the end of our first meeting.

Posts - including from a trustworthy member of this forum - warned that he was bad with scheduling, and was flaked on by him.

I warned him ahead of time about that warning. He arrived on time. I let him know in the meeting that kind of behavior was unacceptable. Afterwards, he insisted on sitting and watching as I gave him his review. He wasn't forcing me; just seemed like mild intimidation, as he's not a violent person from what I've seen. At the time he was relatively new and desperate for reviews from Premium members.

Not sure who was being more manipulative. He has a guaranteed hire as long as we're both in Chicago at the same time, I get special treatment, he knows to show up on time, so all worked out.

[nate_sf]

Mod's Note: Fair warning was given... thread is now locked.