Sensuality Redefined — The Masseur Wasn’t Even Naked

[+ 7829V]

This year I had one of the most sensual massages I’ve ever experienced, and the masseur wasn’t even naked. He was so caring, his energy perfectly in tune, and the way he touched me felt more like gentle caressing at times. I could feel genuine care and devotion in every movement.

He worked wearing only his underwear, and his touch covered every part of my body. With each breath, he softly blew warm air over my skin. Every single muscle was attended to, with special attention to the glutes and inner thighs. He even touched around my balls and dick intimate, but still within the flow of the session.

I was leaking precum, but there was no happy ending. Honestly, I think one might have cheapened the experience. It was powerful just as it was. He’s clearly trained in multiple modalities and blends techniques beautifully.

After a few visits, he did end up nude once, by chance, but I respected his boundaries. And, I’ve got to say… the man was packing. I’m not even sure if he’s straight or gay. 

Now I understand that a truly sensual massage is about connection, the energy, the flow, and the way the masseur genuinely cares for you and your body. It’s a world apart from the routine rub-and-tugs that have become so common these days.

I just wanted to share this experience, but I’d like to keep the masseur’s identity private.

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16 minutes ago, 7829V said:

there was no happy ending. Honestly, I think one might have cheapened the experience.

Usually a happy ending makes a session less cheap. 😉🤣🤑

[+ 7829V]

Our sessions were always long, usually around three hours, and one even lasted five. During that one, I got to return the favor and massage him, following my instincts and a few pointers he shared with me. 

[Aedo]

That’s amazing.

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35 minutes ago, Aedo said:

That’s amazing.

Yeah, this guy set the bar incredibly high. Most other masseurs now feel like clumsy attempts to get you aroused and make you finish for a fee.

Very few masseurs are truly trained, and even fewer know how to create a genuine connection with their clients.

[HockeyMan]

Great experience. It's a reminder to book erotic massages with men who are trained in massage therapy. They know how to use their touch.

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3 hours ago, HockeyMan said:

Great experience. It's a reminder to book erotic massages with men who are trained in massage therapy. They know how to use their touch.

Yes, I have one deal breaker: if the “masseur” doesn’t use a proper massage table, I won’t hire him. Very, very few can deliver a good massage on a bed. At least with a table, I know he takes his work a little more seriously.

[jeezifonly]

True artistry in massage is a rare commodity. The physiological science of it can be taught, but how the masseur senses body feedback in realtime in addition to tapping into sustained human connection on that other level that makes chemistry, is partly innate to the individual (aka talent) and partly accumulated and refined through his experience. Which is why it's almost always a crapshoot.

Personally, I would rather have the plain-looking education/talent/experience guy working on me with no sensual elements, than the gorgeous big-dicked escort wannabe who's eager to get to the HE and collect his tip. 

[Simon Suraci]

39 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

Personally, I would rather have the plain-looking education/talent/experience guy working on me with no sensual elements, than the gorgeous big-dicked escort wannabe who's eager to get to the HE and collect his tip. 

This sentiment unfortunately represents a minority on these boards. If we spent half as much energy here talking about actual talent than we do how old a guy is or what he weighs, or how big his dick is, or how much sex he will give for a massage fee, we could power a city indefinitely!

[Thelatin]

Giving a good massage is hard work.  Anymore most of them rub on me for like 20 minutes and then want to smash lol. 

[+ Jamie21]

Proper sensual massage doesn’t need to include a happy ending and to call it a ‘happy ending’ is wrong too. If there is a climax it doesn’t have to happen at the end. It’s best if there’s plenty of time after a guy climaxes for continuation of the massage to bring him back down again gently. Head massage and feet massage are great after climax.

Rub and tug guys do a perfunctory massage, then grab and grope at your bum and cock in a rush to get you off. They call it a sensual or erotic massage 🙄. It’s nothing of the sort. In a proper sensual massage the masseur and the client are fused together as if they are inhabiting the same body. Their breath aligns, the masseur moves seamlessly through the sequence like it’s a dance. There’s no separation between massage and ‘happy ending’ because the whole thing is erotic not just the last 5 minutes. That’s why I think guys who’ve done therapeutic massage sometimes get it wrong: they do a therapeutic massage and tag on a hand job and then charge sensual rates. You have to think of a sensual massage as a seduction from before the client even gets on the table. Work their brain as well as their body.