When you don't want to believe the writing on the wall.

[viewing ownly]

Summer of last year, an amazing session (to me, amazing) with someone I'd never hired before. He said he'd "definitely let me know" when he's in town again. I see many different guys, so I was a bit surprised that he was in my town this year several months back - he lives quite far away - and I didn't know that he was here.

I reach out to him recently when I see his listing to return many months from now, as I love to plan way ahead, and I get this : "We'll see, but I'm staying in a home of someone I don't know very well, so I'm not sure if it will work". Does this seem like a peculiar reply to a prospective repeat client, or does this read between the lines to you like it does to me, "Cherish the memory, dude 'cause it's a no". I can at least be grateful that I'm able to click with precious few that I see, but the rejections en masse for a repeat are a real bummer.

[jmichaeliii]

2 minutes ago, viewing ownly said:

Summer of last year, an amazing session (to me, amazing) with someone I'd never hired before. He said he'd "definitely let me know" when he's in town again. I see many different guys, so I was a bit surprised that he was in my town this year several months back - he lives quite far away - and I didn't know that he was here.

I reach out to him recently when I see his listing to return many months from now, as I love to plan way ahead, and I get this : "We'll see, but I'm staying in a home of someone I don't know very well, so I'm not sure if it will work". Does this seem like a peculiar reply to a prospective repeat client, or does this read between the lines to you like it does to me, "Cherish the memory, dude 'cause it's a no". I can at least be grateful that I'm able to click with precious few that I see, but the rejections en masse for a repeat are a real bummer.

Try offering to set up a hotel to meet and if it is no again, you likely have the answer.

[SecretProvider]

Or maybe he is staying in the home of someone and not able to see clients on this trip. Perhaps he doesn't want to plan many months ahead. I don't know of any providers who like to plan that far ahead.