Grapes Me (consensually!)

[bboybblue]

Ok, I know this topic is a bit… idk, hard to find I’m learning. but yes, this had happened to me a couple times before without consent. I certainly understand why others may have negative experiences with such an event... But hey I’m just sick and twisted I guess, because I can’t stop wanting it to happen again.

apparently wanting that is not very common? There is no waiver I can sign for someone to grab if they fantasized about doing that and wanted to go thru with it. There’s not any platform for consensual “role play” for it, either. I cannot seem to find anywhere to volunteer as tribute. 
 

Curious if anyone here has a secret little fetish of doing that to someone? You could definitely take that fantasy out on me, to whatever extent you desire. Do any John’s or RM come to mind that might enjoy that? 
 

Discretion assured - don’t hesitate to private message questions or answers - anything said between us, stays with us  thanks!

[MikeThomas]

Sorry, but what is "grapes" (I assume it's not the fruit)?

[MikeBiDude]

@bboybblue let me know if you’d like me to change the title of your topic? 😉

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

7 hours ago, bboybblue said:

Ok, I know this topic is a bit… idk, hard to find I’m learning. but yes, this had happened to me a couple times before without consent. I certainly understand why others may have negative experiences with such an event... But hey I’m just sick and twisted I guess, because I can’t stop wanting it to happen again.

apparently wanting that is not very common? There is no waiver I can sign for someone to grab if they fantasized about doing that and wanted to go thru with it. There’s not any platform for consensual “role play” for it, either. I cannot seem to find anywhere to volunteer as tribute. 
 

Curious if anyone here has a secret little fetish of doing that to someone? You could definitely take that fantasy out on me, to whatever extent you desire. Do any John’s or RM come to mind that might enjoy that? 
 

Discretion assured - don’t hesitate to private message questions or answers - anything said between us, stays with us  thanks!

Bozo is assuming that you meant to say "Rapes me (consensually)". If correct, isn't rape by definition non-consensual? Bozo has never heard of a "rape me" event. But thank you for understanding that some of us "may have negative experiences with such an event".

Rape is not something that Bozo fetishizes or fantasizes about. It sounds sick. Rape is an act of violence. It is a crime. Let's keep that in mind.

BTC
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[MikeBiDude]

8 minutes ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

Bozo is assuming that you meant to say "Rapes me (consensually)". If correct, isn't rape by definition non-consensual? Bozo has never heard of a "rape me" event. But thank you for understanding that some of us "may have negative experiences with such an event".

Rape is not something that Bozo fetishizes or fantasizes about. It sounds sick. Rape is an act of violence. It is a crime. Let's keep that in mind.

BTC
🤡
 

And here I thought he meant “gropes”? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

4 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

And here I thought he meant “gropes”? 🤷🏻‍♂️

"Gropes"? That never crossed Bozo's mind. But you could be correct.
We'll probably have to wait for the OP to chime in to see what he meant.

...Certainly hope you're right.

BTC
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[+ Travis69]

26 minutes ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

Rape is an act of violence. It is a crime. Let's keep that in mind.

Yes, let's keep that in mind!!

[+ Jamie21]

22 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

And here I thought he meant “gropes”? 🤷🏻‍♂️

So did I. So innocent 😇 

[+ purplekow]

It seems that there are BDSM/fetish sites from which one could arrange for this FANTASY of a rape to be done, with a safe word and mutual consent.  I do not think it is that unusual for some men to want to be overpowered and forced to submit.  The fantasy of rape allows for the sex act without they guilt of permitting the act.  

[+ ApexNomad]

8 hours ago, bboybblue said:

Ok, I know this topic is a bit… idk, hard to find I’m learning. but yes, this had happened to me a couple times before without consent. I certainly understand why others may have negative experiences with such an event... But hey I’m just sick and twisted I guess, because I can’t stop wanting it to happen again.

apparently wanting that is not very common? There is no waiver I can sign for someone to grab if they fantasized about doing that and wanted to go thru with it. There’s not any platform for consensual “role play” for it, either. I cannot seem to find anywhere to volunteer as tribute. 
 

Curious if anyone here has a secret little fetish of doing that to someone? You could definitely take that fantasy out on me, to whatever extent you desire. Do any John’s or RM come to mind that might enjoy that? 
 

Discretion assured - don’t hesitate to private message questions or answers - anything said between us, stays with us  thanks!

I’m not judging at all; everyone’s experiences and turn-ons are shaped by different things.

That said, since you mentioned this has happened before, a couple of times in fact, without your consent, it might be worth exploring those feelings with a therapist familiar with both sexual trauma and kink/consensual role-play dynamics before diving in. Sometimes our minds blur past experiences and fantasy, and it can help to have the tools to make sure anything you do in the future is safe, fully consensual, and actually fulfilling for you.

You deserve to explore what you want without risking your wellbeing.

Best of luck to you.

[MikeThomas]

1 hour ago, MikeBiDude said:

And here I thought he meant “gropes”? 🤷🏻‍♂️

That's what I thought as well.

[+ SirBillybob]

?????  2nd guessing but I assume the (G) is an error and superfluous. 

Edited Sunday at 08:23 PM by SirBillybob

[+ SirBillybob]

Grapes play can be in the running for simple fetishism as is the potential of any inanimate object. The term fetish is overused and often semantically misapplied beyond its designation for objects or for highly circumscribed body parts that are not typically conceptualized as sexual. Like Concord-stained feet.

Edited Sunday at 08:11 PM by SirBillybob

[+ SirBillybob]

Rapeplay is an enacted fantasy, whether for the rapist / pseudorapist (BD) or the recipient (SM), not a fetish. If one’s sexual arousal template is predicated on truly rendered sexual assault, that seed having been robustly planted, while attempts at negotiating simulated sexual assault fall short of scratching the itch, then @ApexNomadis right on the money regarding seeking a sounding board that this board could not adequately provide.

Edited Sunday at 08:36 PM by SirBillybob

[+ sniper]

2 hours ago, SirBillybob said:

?????  2nd guessing but I assume the (G) is an error and superfluous. 

It's what the kids are using on social media like TikTok to get past the automatic censors.  Alos "unalived himself" instead of "he killed himself" or "he committed suicide."

[+ SirBillybob]

1 hour ago, sniper said:

It's what the kids are using on social media like TikTok to get past the automatic censors.  Alos "unalived himself" instead of "he killed himself" or "he committed suicide."

Thadds ah stoot. Ya knoh I hadd 1 durd affdurr. 

The added clue being ‘con sensually’, as assaultive fcuks are known for, but in this case the ‘consensually’ is literal?

Personally my chosen workaround would be wrapes … less ambiguous.

Edited yesterday at 12:01 AM by SirBillybob