Oral Question

[Minneapolis]

Do most providers provide oral even if their status in Rentmen is a "Top".  Is there anyway to tell other than ask the provider?  

[+ KensingtonHomo]

It depends. Usually, guys who refer to themselves as "total tops" or "Dom tops" are less likely to give oral. Guys who are "vers tops" or just "tops" tend to be orally inclined. But we also live in a world where bottoms eat ass, so if it's not indicated, you're better off asking than being disappointed. 

[italianboyph]

Everyone is different, some guys do both, some like to just receive. If you're looking to receive just always be transparent and tell the provider what you're looking for. 

[Simon Suraci]

Ask for what you want.
That’s the best way.

[ShortCutie7]

Definitely ask!  I had a guy who had “ask me” listed as his position quote me an exorbitant extra charge for providing oral… I declined.  Prior to that, I had assumed that it was a given that anyone providing escort services to men would give oral unless explicitly stated otherwise.

[Becket]

Nothing is ever "given." Communicate, don't masterbate.

[Vulgarii]

Always ask what's included beforehand.

 

Someone who claimed to be a client messaged me on grindr and said I wouldn't let him blow me, which meant I must have been a bottom. 

Like dude, bottoms enjoy receiving oral, maybe you had bad breath and I wasn't attracted to you. 🤭 Plus we didn't meet for any type of sex in the first place!

 

[+ Jamie21]

Oral skills vary wildly. If the giver is a poor sucker then I’m ’thanks for trying but no…’

I’ve a regular massage client who is expert at it. His visit to me always the same. After 10 minutes I stand at end of the table and massage his head. After a few minutes of this he lifts it up takes my cock into his mouth and sucks me to completion, with a nice creamy mouthful. The rest of the massage continues as normal to a HE for him. It’s rare for me to cum from oral alone but this guy achieves it. I try to learn from him. 

[+ WestGuy]

I usually tell them what am into (which definitely includes mutual oral), and ask if they are good with all of that. I have l never had a situation where a provider didn’t come through in what we had agreed on.