Would you hire a “side” provider?

[Rod Hagen]

As an escort, I have to admit that I was always (a bit) disappointed when penetration was not on the table (desk, floor, or chair.)

[moonlight]

On 7/13/2025 at 5:39 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Frottage is an under-appreciated sensual activity. 

Yes! I've come to realize I actually enjoy it more than anal.

I was recently with a guy where we both came this way. We were both oiled up and he was on top of me. As he was thrusting against my torso, the friction from his torso was stimulating me at the same time. I love this because it provides direct cock stimulation while maximizing skin to skin contact. I clasped my hands around him as he thrusted with enough power to rock the bed against the wall. That does so much more for me than getting my hole pounded.

I don't really understand why this position isn't more popular among gay/bi men. It provides opportunity for an active and passive role, stimulates both cock simultaneously, and to me provides a higher level of intimacy. And no annoying anal prep. I feel like it should have a name more specific than frottage which seems like more of an umbrella term and also has an antiquated air to it.

One downside with this position is that with shaved pubic hair in its 'prickly' phase the experience can be a bit scratchy.

[pubic_assistance]

22 minutes ago, moonlight said:

One downside with this position is that with shaved pubic hair in its 'prickly' phase the experience can be a bit scratchy.

Well...shaving pubic hair is disgusting and people should stop doing it. 

Glad you are enjoying the pleasures of body-to-body gliding.

[Rudynate]

I've been seeing that word in profiles and didn't know what it meant. So "side" means they're doing sex work as a side hussle.  If I liked them, I don't know why I wouldn't hire them.  If they were new to it, I would be surprised if they wanted top dollar, but that would be my only issue.

[moonlight]

1 hour ago, Rudynate said:

I've been seeing that word in profiles and didn't know what it meant. So "side" means they're doing sex work as a side hussle.  If I liked them, I don't know why I wouldn't hire them.  If they were new to it, I would be surprised if they wanted top dollar, but that would be my only issue.

Side=Not into anal penetration. Not side hustling/sex work.

[Rudynate]

29 minutes ago, moonlight said:

Side=Not into anal penetration. Not side hustling/sex work.

I see.  If he were exceptional, I might give him a try.

[Jmore]

I would hire a side.  That’s what I really want.  

[+ DrownedBoy]

I wouldn't mind. I reserve anal for guys I'm actually dating.

I'm kind of a side myself, so anal sex is more of a conjugal duty.