builder boy Posted January 11 Posted January 11 1 hour ago, Whatsupandstuff said: even now? I used to think he was pretty flawless Minus the attitude Danny-Darko 1
Whatsupandstuff Posted January 11 Author Posted January 11 27 minutes ago, builder boy said: Minus the attitude the attitude still in full force? shame builder boy 1
MikeBiDude Posted January 11 Posted January 11 16 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: Yes...the topic of "best looking" is all very subjective. +1 pubic_assistance and + ApexNomad 1 1
musclestuduws Posted January 11 Posted January 11 3 hours ago, purplekow said: I agree with you that Diego Souza is the pick of the litter here. The others are fine, certainly none of them are unattractive, but Souza is the one that gets my motor running. I also agree that Diego Souza is the hottest/best looking so far. Unless I somehow missed it, I was surprised to find nothing about him on here after a search. How is that possible? Anyway, time to start a thread on him. pubic_assistance and + cougar 2
Tandy Newton Posted January 11 Posted January 11 This brings up a topic I have been wondering about lately. When did society and gay men in particular define a certain stereotype as handsome? We all know that type, the Henry Cavills and Chris Evans. When I look through apps like Scruff and meme likes on Twitter, those tend to be the guys with those looks that get the most adulation. Its not even from a physique perspective, a lot guys don't even need to have a aesthetically please physique, but there is a certain look and its predominantly Caucasian male. I noticed my brain seems particularly wired for those type of guys over the past 20 years. I remember when discovering my sexuality, I would go for anything that was just two dudes. But my exposure to pornography was mostly straight content and there were certain types of guys I would get off to: Rocco Siffredi, Jon Dough, Christopher Clark. But gay porn just took my concept to another level of male beauty and desirability. On top of that, fitness magazines with guys like Bob Paris. Again though, how did society get so wired for this look as being handsome? Examples: Masculine refined handsome - clones Rugged handsome Gym Bunny handsome But if we even go back to the Victorian era, I came across this picture on social media and the two guys that caught my eyes who are highlighted were also the ones that got the most, if I had to choose... SD_Exec and Whippoorwill 2
pubic_assistance Posted January 11 Posted January 11 19 minutes ago, Enronnja said: When I look through apps like Scruff and meme likes on Twitter, those tend to be the guys with those looks that get the most adulation. Its not even from a physique perspective, a lot guys don't even need to have a aesthetically please physique, but there is a certain look and its predominantly Caucasian male. I'm the opposite. Physique is everything to me. Black, white, Latino, Asian or Indian is all great...as long as he's fit. Mrmongoloth, builder boy, Danny-Darko and 2 others 2 3
ShortCutie7 Posted January 11 Posted January 11 28 minutes ago, Enronnja said: This brings up a topic I have been wondering about lately. When did society and gay men in particular define a certain stereotype as handsome? We all know that type, the Henry Cavills and Chris Evans. When I look through apps like Scruff and meme likes on Twitter, those tend to be the guys with those looks that get the most adulation. Its not even from a physique perspective, a lot guys don't even need to have a aesthetically please physique, but there is a certain look and its predominantly Caucasian male. I noticed my brain seems particularly wired for those type of guys over the past 20 years. I remember when discovering my sexuality, I would go for anything that was just two dudes. But my exposure to pornography was mostly straight content and there were certain types of guys I would get off to: Rocco Siffredi, Jon Dough, Christopher Clark. But gay porn just took my concept to another level of male beauty and desirability. On top of that, fitness magazines with guys like Bob Paris. Again though, how did society get so wired for this look as being handsome? Examples: Masculine refined handsome - clones Rugged handsome Gym Bunny handsome But if we even go back to the Victorian era, I came across this picture on social media and the two guys that caught my eyes who are highlighted were also the ones that got the most, if I had to choose... Exactly, Henry Cavill and Chris Evans are both perfect examples of guys I consider to be both “classically handsome” and that get my juices flowing. But like others on this thread, I have a wide variety of types that I would consider extremely good looking (both facially and physically… like @pubic_assistance I prefer fit, but for me there are different genres of fit that all qualify). borgerback 1
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topunderachiever Posted January 11 Posted January 11 8 minutes ago, cougar said: This guy is beautiful to me...I would love to have him one day. Damian_p - Male Escort, Gay massage - Miami | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Damian_p Gay Escort in Miami, Florida, available for Gay Escorting,Erotic Massage,Boyfriend Experience. | Find all the... It's just ain't fair that just because he's gorgeous he gets to spend the 2nd week of Feb in Monaco. 🙃 builder boy, + claym, pubic_assistance and 1 other 2 2
+ ApexNomad Posted January 11 Posted January 11 2 hours ago, Enronnja said: This brings up a topic I have been wondering about lately. When did society and gay men in particular define a certain stereotype as handsome? We all know that type, the Henry Cavills and Chris Evans. When I look through apps like Scruff and meme likes on Twitter, those tend to be the guys with those looks that get the most adulation. Its not even from a physique perspective, a lot guys don't even need to have a aesthetically please physique, but there is a certain look and its predominantly Caucasian male. I noticed my brain seems particularly wired for those type of guys over the past 20 years. I remember when discovering my sexuality, I would go for anything that was just two dudes. But my exposure to pornography was mostly straight content and there were certain types of guys I would get off to: Rocco Siffredi, Jon Dough, Christopher Clark. But gay porn just took my concept to another level of male beauty and desirability. On top of that, fitness magazines with guys like Bob Paris. Again though, how did society get so wired for this look as being handsome? Examples: Masculine refined handsome - clones Rugged handsome Gym Bunny handsome But if we even go back to the Victorian era, I came across this picture on social media and the two guys that caught my eyes who are highlighted were also the ones that got the most, if I had to choose... The standard of male attractiveness, particularly within the gay community, has been shaped by a combination of cultural, historical, and media influences. Western media has long emphasized muscular, traditionally masculine looks, often depicted by white men in movies, advertisements, and fitness magazines. This standard became ingrained in societal ideals of beauty and sexuality, which were then reflected in gay culture, particularly through gay porn and platforms like Scruff. While these ideals are still prevalent, there has been a shift in recent years toward embracing a broader range of body types, ethnicities, and expressions of masculinity. Peter Eater, Tandy Newton, Whippoorwill and 1 other 1 1 2
gopochi Posted January 11 Posted January 11 7 minutes ago, ApexNomad said: Western media has long emphasized muscular, traditionally masculine looks . . . This standard became ingrained in societal ideals of beauty and sexuality, which were then reflected in gay culture, particularly through gay porn and platforms like Scruff. I agree that the standard can be found and was popularized in ancient Greek and Roman art, through Renaissance art and modern art, and to the present. Doubtful it is likely to change except on the margins. SD_Exec, musclestuduws and + ApexNomad 1 2
bretts2002 Posted January 12 Posted January 12 On 1/11/2025 at 12:20 AM, DavidNY said: Skinny smooth femme twinks to the front. also, the best looking guy I ever got was the worst performing. Arrogant jerk. Love to hear if you have found any skinny smooth twinks lately that you had a great time with!
BaronArtz Posted January 12 Posted January 12 On 1/10/2025 at 10:27 PM, Whatsupandstuff said: whoa he is purrrr ty I am in NYC and would hire him, Too bad the ad has expired! Mmmen and builder boy 1 1
pubic_assistance Posted January 12 Posted January 12 18 hours ago, ApexNomad said: there has been a shift in recent years toward embracing a broader range of body types, ethnicities, and expressions of masculinity. Ethnicity....yes. I absolutely agree that is now a far more diverse group than the old Hollywood Hunk standard. But ...as far as the rest...... The gays STILL die over fit muscular, and masculine men. Fat, out-of-shape sissies are still a fringe /fetish interest. + ApexNomad 1
+ ApexNomad Posted January 12 Posted January 12 27 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Ethnicity....yes. I absolutely agree that is now a far more diverse group than the old Hollywood Hunk standard. But ...as far as the rest...... The gays STILL die over fit muscular, and masculine men. Fat, out-of-shape sissies are still a fringe /fetish interest. Agreed. Shift, yes. How big a shift? That’s a different story.
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+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 12 Posted January 12 23 hours ago, Enronnja said: When did society and gay men in particular define a certain stereotype as handsome? I thought it was evolutionary... Survival of the fittest. Attractive gay men have more gay sex, thereby increasing their chance for producing gay offspring. It's what's helped us survive and thrive for millennia musclvr, musclestuduws, ShortCutie7 and 7 others 1 1 8
pubic_assistance Posted January 12 Posted January 12 3 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: I thought it was evolutionary... Survival of the fittest. Attractive gay men have more gay sex, thereby increasing their chance for producing gay offspring. It's what's helped us survive and thrive for millennia Nah. It's the opposite. Gay men make sure only ugly idiots breed, by stealing the seed of all the hottest men and swallowing it. (j.k.) + Vegas_Millennial, Whippoorwill, + claym and 2 others 1 4
Tandy Newton Posted January 13 Posted January 13 3 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: I thought it was evolutionary... Survival of the fittest. Attractive gay men have more gay sex, thereby increasing their chance for producing gay offspring. It's what's helped us survive and thrive for millennia You gotta admit though, based on our high sex drive, I think it probably was natures way of population control. There are studies that have proven there gay men up there who easily have had 10,000 to 20,000 sexual partners throughout their lifetime. Imagine if that was a straight man. Also, I am not referring to studies where you have short stint relationships to max between 30 to 90 guys, which is in itself high. pubic_assistance and Whippoorwill 1 1
SD_Exec Posted January 13 Posted January 13 I've hired some truly amazing, good looking guys since I started this hobby a few years ago. Feel free to message me for recs; I have a weak spot for classically handsome guys too. builder boy, Mikeyty and Whatsupandstuff 3
pubic_assistance Posted January 13 Posted January 13 2 hours ago, Enronnja said: There are studies that have proven there gay men up there who easily have had 10,000 to 20,000 A few weekends on Fire Island and you're already there......😉 + ApexNomad, Whippoorwill, Tandy Newton and 1 other 1 3
+ goosh69 Posted January 13 Posted January 13 3 hours ago, SD_Exec said: I've hired some truly amazing, good looking guys since I started this hobby a few years ago. Feel free to message me for recs; I have a weak spot for classically handsome guys too. The author of this thread did NOT say “classicly handsome.” That is a very narrow definition and a subset of what the original poster is asking for. Walt 1
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