Seymour Butts Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 I'm thinking I might like to treat myself to a longer session with someone, hopefully get two "rides" out of the experience. How much time do you schedule if you're looking for stuff to happen more than once? Obviously if you're scheduling a whole weekend then it's likely there will be multiple rides involved, but what about four hours? Overnight? More? Less? Or does it depend on the guy?
+ DrownedBoy Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 Depends on your refractory period. liubit and Shawn Monroe 2
+ keroscenefire Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 It depends on how long it takes you to recover from an orgasm .But yeah I think if you have even a two-hour session, there definitely could be a couple of rounds of sex. Neither you nor the escort necessarily has to come from each session of sex. Seymour Butts 1
Seymour Butts Posted November 22, 2024 Author Posted November 22, 2024 1 minute ago, keroscenefire said: It depends on how long it takes you to recover from an orgasm .But yeah I think if you have even a two-hour session, there definitely could be a couple of rounds of sex. Neither you nor the escort necessarily has to come from each session of sex. Right, thank you. I don't really mind whether or not I finish; so I guess what I'm really asking is whether it's uncouth to ask a provider about his recovery period (it feels uncouth); and, if I can't ask, what can I assume?
+ keroscenefire Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 2 minutes ago, Seymour Butts said: Right, thank you. I don't really mind whether or not I finish; so I guess what I'm really asking is whether it's uncouth to ask a provider about his recovery period (it feels uncouth); and, if I can't ask, what can I assume? I don't think you need to beat around the bush. Honestly if you are hiring for a longer session (even 2 hours), I think a lot of guys will assume that you want to go a couple rounds. Just say that from the start. I think it's hot when I'm with a guy and we can have a couple rounds of sex and then some cuddling in between. Or honestly even in the moment. You're having sex for maybe 15-20 minutes say, I need a break and then go again in another 15 minutes. A good escort knows how to use those breaks well to keep the sensuality and connection going. If he like starts to use his phone or something then you know you have a not great one. Haha. But I think you're overthinking this. Anything longer than one-hour I think a couple rounds of sex are absolutely expected. And most men just need a little break anyway and can't continuously fuck for like a full hour. TorontoDrew, Seymour Butts and liubit 2 1
Seymour Butts Posted November 22, 2024 Author Posted November 22, 2024 3 minutes ago, keroscenefire said: I don't think you need to beat around the bush. Honestly if you are hiring for a longer session (even 2 hours), I think a lot of guys will assume that you want to go a couple rounds. Just say that from the start. I think it's hot when I'm with a guy and we can have a couple rounds of sex and then some cuddling in between. Or honestly even in the moment. You're having sex for maybe 15-20 minutes say, I need a break and then go again in another 15 minutes. A good escort knows how to use those breaks well to keep the sensuality and connection going. If he like starts to use his phone or something then you know you have a not great one. Haha. But I think you're overthinking this. Anything longer than one-hour I think a couple rounds of sex are absolutely expected. And most men just need a little break anyway and can't continuously fuck for like a full hour. Thank you. I probably am overthinking. Usually I hire for two hours but it goes something like this (if it's a good provider): 0:00 We meet, I am visibly nervous 0:01-0:45 Provider talks to me, soothes me, calms me down 0:46-1:30 The Main Event 1:31 I don't know what to do next, get anxious again, give the provider cash for a full two hours and wrap things up Most people probably make better use of their time than that 😂 + Vegas_Millennial, soloyo215, BCMan and 2 others 5
marylander1940 Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 (edited) 3 hours ago, keroscenefire said: It depends on how long it takes you to recover from an orgasm .But yeah I think if you have even a two-hour session, there definitely could be a couple of rounds of sex. Neither you nor the escort necessarily has to come from each session of sex. The escort might even fake it 3 hours ago, Seymour Butts said: I'm thinking I might like to treat myself to a longer session with someone, hopefully get two "rides" out of the experience. How much time do you schedule if you're looking for stuff to happen more than once? Obviously if you're scheduling a whole weekend then it's likely there will be multiple rides involved, but what about four hours? Overnight? More? Less? Or does it depend on the guy? I guess it depends on you. Do you want to orgasm at least twice during one hire. What do you want to do? Depending on your age overnight would be a safe choice but some guys can cum within 30-40 minutes especially with someone who is very hot and younger. Edited November 22, 2024 by marylander1940
+ purplekow Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 There are many variables. If you are expecting to ejaculate then the amount of time for a second session will be dependent on your recovery. If you are receiving anal, then the escort could either hold off coming or if he feels comfortable with his recuperative powers, ejaculate and then rest and then remount. If you are topping the escort, again, it is really up to your recovery. Main thing, is to let the escort know that you expect to go twice and what you want to happen. There are escorts out there such as Vin Marco that can easily come multiple times in a one hour session. There are others that may need longer. I have a regular that is basically a one and done guy and another who has never had an orgasm though he prefers giving oral to his own orgasm. So keep the communication open and let him know what you want. Stop wasting time worrying. A quick hello and a brief time to get ready and go, not 45 minutes unless that is your preference. Don't waste that post orgasm time, continue to do things that excite you as long as the escort is amenable. A post coital shower is a nice sexy way to end a session if you do not think you are able to go again. Of course, he should know that you want him to join you in the shower afterwards.
+ KensingtonHomo Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 7 hours ago, Seymour Butts said: Thank you. I probably am overthinking. Usually I hire for two hours but it goes something like this (if it's a good provider): 0:00 We meet, I am visibly nervous 0:01-0:45 Provider talks to me, soothes me, calms me down 0:46-1:30 The Main Event 1:31 I don't know what to do next, get anxious again, give the provider cash for a full two hours and wrap things up Most people probably make better use of their time than that 😂 Have you tried hiring someone a second or third time? Perhaps if you build comfort with someone, you'll be less nervous and able to get to the main event more quickly. + azdr0710 1
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted November 22, 2024 Posted November 22, 2024 Like other guys said, depends on how quick you reload. 2-3 hours can be enough time for two or three loads if the chemistry is right. + keroscenefire, MikeBiDude and Seymour Butts 2 1
+ azdr0710 Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 just find somebody who appeals (or somebody you already have met with who you like) and tell them what you want!.......and see if they reply positively....... MikeBiDude, marylander1940 and + JamesB 1 2
aiseeya Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 Echoing others, I think multiple rounds play is expected for a mutiple hours hire. Its always happened organically in my experiences....a pro provider knows how best to time himself and, on the other hand, you ought to know your body and time yourself accordingly. My go to formula is play-converse-play (might throw in hot tub/pool if accomodation permits) on repeat and only finish shortly prior to end of agreed hour. I once ask for a rest time to cook because I was starving lol If you need a break time to delay the finale, ask for it. Communication is the key. Seymour Butts 1
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