New to massage

[Act25]

I had my first massage recently (excluding a purely therapeutic one at my gym several years ago); the masseur had two options - sensual therapeutic and VIP full service for everything.   I chose the latter.  The masseur was nude which I could feel before I could see.  A couple of times he lay on top of me and I was able to hold his cock. I rolled over and he used his hands to give me a happy ending and at one point his cock was in my mouth.  

I don't have enough experience to know if it was a "good" massage, but I enjoyed it.  He would've topped me if I'd wanted.  I'm usually into kissing and this was just a few pecks and that was fine.  I would definitely repeat this experience and see this masseuse again (he travels and is in Seattle once a year). 

The question:  is that a typical experience for an erotic message?  I know that's a generalization and that YMMV. 

And, in looking at both Rent Masseur and Masseur Finder it feels to me that I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for on Rent Masseur. Is that a correct assumption?

I appreciate the group's input. 

Thanks!

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, Act25 said:

The question:  is that a typical experience for an erotic message? 

YMMV is the correct answer

[+ Just Sayin]

6 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

YMMV is the correct answer

it's all chemistry, which is the exciting thing about seeing a new provider!

[DesertJ]

6 hours ago, Act25 said:

And, in looking at both Rent Masseur and Masseur Finder it feels to me that I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for on Rent Masseur. Is that a correct assumption?

I've had great experiences using both sites. I found my favorite repeat on MF. Key is using this site for research. A lot of great info here. 

[simongayx]

My most memorable experiences are when the entire massage itself becomes an erotic experience -- from beginning to end.  That will depend on the chemistry, the mood, the atmosphere in the room etc.  The sexual elements should feel that they are part of the massage, and not just an add on at the end because you chose and paid for the erotic option.   Sounds like your first experience was pretty typical.  I find that the experience also gets more erotic on second and third visits.   I too have had better luck  with rent masseur than masseur finder. 

[rafelaw]

On 10/26/2024 at 5:35 AM, simongayx said:

The sexual elements should feel that they are part of the massage, and not just an add on at the end because you chose and paid for the erotic option.

This. OP, obviously if you've never had a massage you wouldn't know what the standard is, but a sensual massage should be, first and foremost, a good regular massage. With a cherry on top. When it comes to "VIP"/"full service"/"premium" options, it's worth asking in advance for the elements that you want. You said you're into kissing, so for you it might be worth asking about that.
As far as sites go, personally I prefer RM.

[+ Jamie21]

49 minutes ago, rafelaw said:

This. OP, obviously if you've never had a massage you wouldn't know what the standard is, but a sensual massage should be, first and foremost, a good regular massage. With a cherry on top. When it comes to "VIP"/"full service"/"premium" options, it's worth asking in advance for the elements that you want. You said you're into kissing, so for you it might be worth asking about that.
As far as sites go, personally I prefer RM.

This is great advice. I totally agree. 

[BaronArtz]

First of all, I am glad you had a great massage experience.  You will find that this new-found hobby can be deeply satisfying and rewarding.

I am a bit concerned that you paid for, in your words, a  VIP full service for everything.  What you got was a massage and a handjob, although you felt the masseur would have topped you if you wanted to.  To me, it sounds like you got a sensual massage, not a full service erotic one.  If that is what you want, consider paying for a sensual massage and not for a higher-priced VIP full service.

YMMV, but when a provider offers you a full service erotic massage, 'more' than a hand job should be on the menu.

Edited October 27, 2024 by BaronArtz

[DavidShaw]

On 10/25/2024 at 3:31 PM, Act25 said:

I had my first massage recently (excluding a purely therapeutic one at my gym several years ago); the masseur had two options - sensual therapeutic and VIP full service for everything.   I chose the latter.  The masseur was nude which I could feel before I could see.  A couple of times he lay on top of me and I was able to hold his cock. I rolled over and he used his hands to give me a happy ending and at one point his cock was in my mouth.  

I don't have enough experience to know if it was a "good" massage, but I enjoyed it.  He would've topped me if I'd wanted.  I'm usually into kissing and this was just a few pecks and that was fine.  I would definitely repeat this experience and see this masseuse again (he travels and is in Seattle once a year). 

The question:  is that a typical experience for an erotic message?  I know that's a generalization and that YMMV. 

And, in looking at both Rent Masseur and Masseur Finder it feels to me that I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for on Rent Masseur. Is that a correct assumption?

I appreciate the group's input. 

Thanks!

That sounds very much like my experience when I go to the male spas in New York City

[harlow]

On 10/25/2024 at 2:31 PM, Act25 said:

I had my first massage recently (excluding a purely therapeutic one at my gym several years ago); the masseur had two options - sensual therapeutic and VIP full service for everything.   I chose the latter.  The masseur was nude which I could feel before I could see.  A couple of times he lay on top of me and I was able to hold his cock. I rolled over and he used his hands to give me a happy ending and at one point his cock was in my mouth.  

I don't have enough experience to know if it was a "good" massage, but I enjoyed it.  He would've topped me if I'd wanted.  I'm usually into kissing and this was just a few pecks and that was fine.  I would definitely repeat this experience and see this masseuse again (he travels and is in Seattle once a year). 

The question:  is that a typical experience for an erotic message?  I know that's a generalization and that YMMV. 

And, in looking at both Rent Masseur and Masseur Finder it feels to me that I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for on Rent Masseur. Is that a correct assumption?

I appreciate the group's input. 

Thanks!

You said yourself that you enjoyed the massage so would say if you enjoyed it then the massage was good. What’s good for me may not be what you enjoy. I say do exactly what you did…tell us your experiences and we can decide for ourselves if we’re interested in contacting that provider.

Also it’s a good idea to insert the link to the provider you saw. HAPPY HUNTING 🤗

[mike carey]

4 hours ago, harlow said:

You said yourself that you enjoyed the massage so would say if you enjoyed it then the massage was good. What’s good for me may not be what you enjoy. I say do exactly what you did…tell us your experiences and we can decide for ourselves if we’re interested in contacting that provider.

Also it’s a good idea to insert the link to the provider you saw. HAPPY HUNTING 🤗

@Act25, to add to what Harlow correctly stated, it is indeed useful to include a link if you are asking for comments on the particular masseur that you saw (although that would really belong in the Spa Forum). As I read your original post, that was not what you were asking for. It could also be useful if you want those sorts of comments as well as advice on whether the sort of experience you had is what customers typically have and want in their appointments. Of course, if you aren't interested in comments on the particular masseur, it's fine to raise it here as a 'was this a normal appointment' question without a link. I hope that the comments so far have helped you, and enabled you to more confidently navigate future appointments!

[harlow]

49 minutes ago, mike carey said:

@Act25, to add to what Harlow correctly stated, it is indeed useful to include a link if you are asking for comments on the particular masseur that you saw (although that would really belong in the Spa Forum). As I read your original post, that was not what you were asking for. It could also be useful if you want those sorts of comments as well as advice on whether the sort of experience you had is what customers typically have and want in their appointments. Of course, if you aren't interested in comments on the particular masseur, it's fine to raise it here as a 'was this a normal appointment' question without a link. I hope that the comments so far have helped you, and enabled you to more confidently navigate future appointments!

@Act25 everything Mike said is true.  Ask as many questions as you like because thats what this space is for.  This type of forum didn't exist when many of us started hiring but I'm glad it does now.  There's a ton of experience between the forum members so please reach out to any of us and learn from our mistakes!