"No Drama" and "Confidentiality Agreement" guys.

[viewing ownly]

Reading the former, "No Drama", is seen far more often than the latter, "Confidentiality Agreement", but are these buzz words that are nothing but a turn-off when seeking someone for naked company?

Those that proclaim they aren't dramatic in reality are about as gossip queen as they come, so I find claiming to be "no drama" will be what I can come to expect, so I avoid. Those without drama don't need to tell me. 

I see providers who go over the top hammering home respecting your upmost privacy on occasion offer to put in in the form of a formal confidentiality agreement. This could in fact be an effort on their part to scam us by gaining access to our signature, and possibly more. I don't need someone I don't know to know THAT much about me that I then have to worry I signed something I would later regret being in a stranger's hands. 

 

[MscleLovr]

No disrespect intended @viewing ownly but aren’t you overthinking this?

I certainly prefer “no drama” in my life. If I meet someone who seems to thrive on drama/gossip, I politely exit the encounter. 

When it comes to providers, I treat what they say online with caution. To me, their profiles are simply marketing. I trust my own judgement.

[SirBillybob]

Chuckling over this.

The profile descriptors seem so constricted and boilerplate to me. It’s as if most providers plagiarize what they already see from others.

The caveat of lack of desire for drama is too universal to warrant specification, as if a provider expressing the necessity of being spared drama believes that a subset of peers tolerates or seeks such aggravation. Pass. 

But that is far from my pet peeve. What gets my eyes rolling up into their orbital cavities is the superfluous descriptor “hot” that accompanies images or is embedded in pseudonym. There is absolutely no justification for attempting to lead the viewer to make such an assessment, as if ambivalence or reticence on the viewer’s part is open to influence by whatever wording the advertiser appends.

(Well, I was hedging on whether those pics are appealing enough to me to run to the nearest ATM, but I’ll buy into it if you say so, …

as if ambivalence about a photo of a main course eatery menu looks iffy but the server asserts: “Don’t get to wrapped up in the image; that offering is unimaginably delish and you should commit to overriding any ambivalence getting in your own way. Take it from me …” 

… “I agree the perfume bottle lacks the design finesse befitting the price-tag, Madame, but I can assure you that it has no obvious flatus notes”)

You know who you are. And we already know you must be hot, hunbun,or why else would you be charging an arm leg tit and toenail for a basic life function.

Edited September 27, 2024 by SirBillybob

[+ Jamie21]

Confidentiality agreements… could be he’s prepared to sign one rather than he requires one. High profile clients sometimes require such an agreement if you’re hired to entertain them. 

[SirBillybob]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Confidentiality agreements… could be he’s prepared to sign one rather than he requires one. High profile clients sometimes require such an agreement if you’re hired to entertain them. 

Signed: HothungXXXL

Notarized by Flimflam Bamboozle & Associates

I’m dying here.

Edited September 27, 2024 by SirBillybob

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

All this talk lately here about NDAs.  It's kind of amusing, really.

The highest profile gents I've seen have never once asked for one. 

These are guys who are titans of their respective industries, as well as a pro athlete and a couple of very identifiable performers.

I really think it's mystique overshadowing the reality of a situation.

If their gut says you're trustworthy, they give you a lot of slack.  Just don't fuck it up.

[marylander1940]

8 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

Reading the former, "No Drama", is seen far more often than the latter, "Confidentiality Agreement", but are these buzz words that are nothing but a turn-off when seeking someone for naked company?

Those that proclaim they aren't dramatic in reality are about as gossip queen as they come, so I find claiming to be "no drama" will be what I can come to expect, so I avoid. Those without drama don't need to tell me. 

I see providers who go over the top hammering home respecting your upmost privacy on occasion offer to put in in the form of a formal confidentiality agreement. This could in fact be an effort on their part to scam us by gaining access to our signature, and possibly more. I don't need someone I don't know to know THAT much about me that I then have to worry I signed something I would later regret being in a stranger's hands. 

 

Sorry but this is too much.... 

[viewing ownly]

10 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Sorry but this is too much.... 

NO apology needed, but if I could have my body looking like that second guy by thinking TOO much, I'll take it!

[+ Jamie21]

6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

All this talk lately here about NDAs.  It's kind of amusing, really.

The highest profile gents I've seen have never once asked for one. 

These are guys who are titans of their respective industries, as well as a pro athlete and a couple of very identifiable performers.

I really think it's mystique overshadowing the reality of a situation.

If their gut says you're trustworthy, they give you a lot of slack.  Just don't fuck it up.

The few well known clients I’ve seen (a politician, a tv entertainer)- didn’t ask for one. I was invited to a party one time and sent an agreement to sign but it all seemed too shady so I declined 😂

[TallMuscl37]

I think people say no drama in their profile because, a lot of potential clients do be kinda dramatic in their approach. I actually ran this ad in my ad for a few days, ZERO TOLERANCE FOR DRAMA OR FLAKES. But then I felt it might be too much. So I try to ease up a bit.

The drama I refer to, are the high maintenance or wishy washy clients. Texting incessantly demanding instant attention, then going back and forth between cancelling and not. 
 

I even had a client text me something deep, when all I wanted was to figure out what day and time we’re meeting. I’m only showing it because he cancelled the day of the session. And then people wonder why I don’t want to work with anybody without a deposit or consultation fee upfront 

There’s more messages after that but, I haven’t even met this person and I’m getting a whole life story. Which, I can appreciate someone opening up and being transparent, but then adding 3rd parties, and being uncertain: it’s too much when we haven’t even met.

Edited September 27, 2024 by Jarrod_Uncut

[viewing ownly]

5 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I think people say no drama in their profile because, a lot of potential clients do be kinda dramatic in their approach. I actually ran this ad in my ad for a few days, ZERO TOLERANCE FOR DRAMA OR FLAKES. But then I felt it might be too much. So I try to ease up a bit.

The drama I refer to, are the high maintenance or wishy washy clients. Texting incessantly demanding instant attention, then going back and forth between cancelling and not. 
 

I even had a client text me something deep, when all I wanted was to figure out what day and time we’re meeting. I’m only showing it because he cancelled the day of the session. And then people wonder why I don’t want to work with anybody without a deposit or consultation fee upfront 

There’s more messages after that but, I haven’t even met this person and I’m getting a whole life story. Which, I can appreciate someone opening up and being transparent, but then adding 3rd parties, and being uncertain: it’s too much when we haven’t even met.

Don't even waste your own time with "un-cancel" types. Once cancelled, always cancelled from these turkeys. And yes, shouting in all caps how you expect a client to be to your liking is WAY over the top. You should've consulted a friend to read your description change.

[marylander1940]

5 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I think people say no drama in their profile because, a lot of potential clients do be kinda dramatic in their approach. I actually ran this ad in my ad for a few days, ZERO TOLERANCE FOR DRAMA OR FLAKES. But then I felt it might be too much. So I try to ease up a bit.

The drama I refer to, are the high maintenance or wishy washy clients. Texting incessantly demanding instant attention, then going back and forth between cancelling and not. 
 

I even had a client text me something deep, when all I wanted was to figure out what day and time we’re meeting. I’m only showing it because he cancelled the day of the session. And then people wonder why I don’t want to work with anybody without a deposit or consultation fee upfront 

There’s more messages after that but, I haven’t even met this person and I’m getting a whole life story. Which, I can appreciate someone opening up and being transparent, but then adding 3rd parties, and being uncertain: it’s too much when we haven’t even met.

I'm not surprised he cancelled!