What Does A Provider Like in A Client Experience Besides Cleanliness?

[FaustOust]

Other than being hygienic, on time, and not haggling over his fee, what can I as a client do to make my experience with a provider as pleasant and easy as possible for the provider, so that he would welcome me as a repeat client, particularly in overnight or multi-day engagements?

[Shawn Monroe]

1) PARTICIPATE. 

2) know your own body and have an active idea of what you want out of the experience. Or even baseline, what it takes to get YOU off - not just to get us off (if that’s your thing). That’s ultimately what we are for - to make you happy. 

[+ Jamie21]

8 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

1) PARTICIPATE. 

2) know your own body and have an active idea of what you want out of the experience. Or even baseline, what it takes to get YOU off - not just to get us off (if that’s your thing). That’s ultimately what we are for - to make you happy. 

This. If you’re happy then so am I. 

[jmichaeliii]

Be pleasant and nice.  I find it to be a major ice breaker when a provider first walks in the door and reaches to shake your hand, and you pull them in for a hug.  Don't know if I should be doing that or not, but it has never failed me yet.

[+ DrownedBoy]

11 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

1) PARTICIPATE. 

Can you please elaborate here?

[Andy768]

5 hours ago, jmichaeliii said:

Be pleasant and nice.  I find it to be a major ice breaker when a provider first walks in the door and reaches to shake your hand, and you pull them in for a hug.  Don't know if I should be doing that or not, but it has never failed me yet.

As a total introvert, I could never pull this off myself, but I love the idea and it would absolutely give me a warm and friendly first impression if a guy did this to me. (But I'm not a provider so perhaps I shouldn't be chiming in, but I just really loved this!)

[+ Jamie21]

18 hours ago, FaustOust said:

Other than being hygienic,

I know this is switching it around (as in this is the client’s requirement of the provider) but I have a client who doesn’t want me hygienic; he specifically wants me to not shower beforehand, not wear deodorant and be a bit sweaty (maybe after a gym session) when I meet him. He likes that musty sweaty smell. 

[jmichaeliii]

3 hours ago, Andy768 said:

As a total introvert, I could never pull this off myself, but I love the idea and it would absolutely give me a warm and friendly first impression if a guy did this to me. (But I'm not a provider so perhaps I shouldn't be chiming in, but I just really loved this!)

I have always found it to immediately insert a feeling of comfort.  No one has pulled back on me yet!

[Shawn Monroe]

3 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I know this is switching it around (as in this is the client’s requirement of the provider) but I have a client who doesn’t want me hygienic; he specifically wants me to not shower beforehand, not wear deodorant and be a bit sweaty (maybe after a gym session) when I meet him. He likes that musty sweaty smell. 

I have some like this too 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

4 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I know this is switching it around (as in this is the client’s requirement of the provider) but I have a client who doesn’t want me hygienic; he specifically wants me to not shower beforehand, not wear deodorant and be a bit sweaty (maybe after a gym session) when I meet him. He likes that musty sweaty smell. 

I feel like this isn’t something one should spring on a provider. And for me I’m very sensitive to scent in general so even a provider wearing a lot of cologne is off putting. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I know this is switching it around (as in this is the client’s requirement of the provider) but I have a client who doesn’t want me hygienic; he specifically wants me to not shower beforehand, not wear deodorant and be a bit sweaty (maybe after a gym session) when I meet him. He likes that musty sweaty smell. 

I had one provider who wanted the same from me.  He asked me not to shower or wear deodorant the day of a massage.

[Archangel]

14 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I had one provider who wanted the same from me.  He asked me not to shower or wear deodorant the day of a massage.

Provider asked that of you?

[marylander1940]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I know this is switching it around (as in this is the client’s requirement of the provider) but I have a client who doesn’t want me hygienic; he specifically wants me to not shower beforehand, not wear deodorant and be a bit sweaty (maybe after a gym session) when I meet him. He likes that musty sweaty smell. 

 

13 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I had one provider who wanted the same from me.  He asked me not to shower or wear deodorant the day of a massage.

That's certainly unusual, most escorts want their clients to be clean. 

1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I feel like this isn’t something one should spring on a provider. And for me I’m very sensitive to scent in general so even a provider wearing a lot of cologne is off putting. 

I only tell that to providers I assume are more likely to wear cologne because they're from the Middle East or Russia. Most gay men nowadays use deodorant, but cologne is very unusual. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 minute ago, Archangel said:

Provider asked that of you?

Yes.  I thought it was quite queer at the time.  But now I get it.  There are some man's pits that are great to sniff during sex.

[marylander1940]

Just now, Vegas_Millennial said:

Agree.  That was not the norm.  I found it a queer request at the time.

more like a kinky fetish.

Did you meet him?

Was HE clean? 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

more like a kinky fetish.

Did you meet him?

Was HE clean? 

I met him several dozen times.  He gave a great massage.  Was the Happy Ending clean?  Back then I used to shoot so high it reached the ceiling; so not too clean.

[marylander1940]

14 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I met him several dozen times.  He gave a great massage.  Was the Happy Ending clean?  Back then I used to shoot so high it reached the ceiling; so not too clean.

I meant to ask was HE (the masseur/escort) clean. 

Sorry about the confusion. 

[+ Jamie21]

6 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I feel like this isn’t something one should spring on a provider. And for me I’m very sensitive to scent in general so even a provider wearing a lot of cologne is off putting. 

Well yes, he told me a few days before at the time of booking. I almost forgot too. I’d been to the gym before the session and I kind of routinely finished my session and headed to the showers. Just before I went in the cubicle I remember ‘oh yeah he wants me unshowered…’ so I turned on my heel and left the wet area to get dressed. No deodorant or anything. Then I headed to my studio for his booking. I almost showered there too because it’s a habit before a session… I prefer to be fresh but the client really liked getting his face in my pits and groin area so hey, he’s the customer, if he wants me sweaty that’s what he gets 😂. 

[+ Pensant]

I love my providers to come over sweaty. Always have.

[Simon Suraci]

A few of my clients prefer me sweaty and musky. Some really get off on sniffing my pits. It’s not that uncommon or weird to me. I accommodate as best I can. The more notice the better.