NYC Providers who orgasm

[Guest]

59 minutes ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

2 (1 NYC) absolutely insisted they get to do so before we finished up.

I wanna meet these hot providers someday! 🍆 🥛  😋

[Trick]

1 hour ago, Walt said:

"I don't really want to treat you like a performing robot, but I think it's very hot when a guy cums. Can you cum when we get together?"................................"Cool. Thanks!"

This is how I word  it.  
“I find it very satisfying to get a guy to cum. Are you cool with that?”

 

[+ Tygerscent]

On 1/13/2024 at 5:48 AM, GlamNYC said:

Haven’t had a provider in NYC (or anywhere else) whom I’ve seen or felt actually cum during our session. Their explanation typically would be “I didn’t know you wanted that” despite me saying otherwise before the sessions. Are there any NYC providers who actually orgasm during sessions and I’ve just hired the wrong ones? 

Wow… I can’t imagine not coming. By personal preference and simple desire, I come at least once and visibly~ often times, I’m a multiple cummer~   my record is 14 with a guy in Minneapolis and a final 15th orgasm after the first 14 because on the 14th hole I bruised my dick. So, I had to make sure everything was still working properly. But I am often times good for five or six orgasms With coming. I sort of feel cheated if I don’t come. I do however, respect those Clients who prefer that I don’t cum~ Not everyone is comfortable and wanting the of that~
 

[DMICS]

On 1/13/2024 at 8:48 AM, GlamNYC said:

Haven’t had a provider in NYC (or anywhere else) whom I’ve seen or felt actually cum during our session. Their explanation typically would be “I didn’t know you wanted that” despite me saying otherwise before the sessions. Are there any NYC providers who actually orgasm during sessions and I’ve just hired the wrong ones? 

The handful of years I've been able to hire providers I've never had this issue. That includes providers in NYC.

Before booking a session when speaking to a provider I always acknowledge they must have a busy schedule with clients, especially in NYC, and that they're not robots. That leads into me mentioning that it's important to me if they can perform, stay erect and finish. Especially since I'm more of a vanilla person, and in some ways that's the "highlight." 

One popular NY provider I was looking forward to meeting a few months back mentioned that he doesn't finish easy so I passed on booking a session.

There's other little things I'll do like ask a provider when are they generally free to take bookings and I try to get a late-morning or early afternoon session. I personally feel in NY afternoons and evenings you're competing. I also don't do weekend sessions and try to avoid visiting providers in NY who are probably a) super booked up or b) busy filming OF content and will likely cancel on your arranged appointment.

In general @GlamNYC I think when contacting a provider mentioning it's important to you if an orgasm happens is key. Outside of that the only way to ensure it happens is booking multiple hours or an overnight session.

 

Edited January 15 by DMICS

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3 hours ago, Tygerscent said:

Wow… I can’t imagine not coming. By personal preference and simple desire, I come at least once and visibly~ often times, I’m a multiple cummer~   my record is 14 with a guy in Minneapolis and a final 15th orgasm after the first 14 because on the 14th hole I bruised my dick. So, I had to make sure everything was still working properly. But I am often times good for five or six orgasms With coming. I sort of feel cheated if I don’t come. I do however, respect those Clients who prefer that I don’t cum~ Not everyone is comfortable and wanting the of that~
 

Hot! Where have you been all this time? You’ll make me happy. 😊 

[pubic_assistance]

7 hours ago, Tygerscent said:

my record is 14 with a guy in Minneapolis

The normal maximum for humans is 5 to 8 times in 24 hours.

Rodents like rabbits and rats can ejaculate 15 times a day.

You should check for a tail....😆

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Tip:  It also might help if you directly ask a guy what gets him off.

As pros, we sometime develop specific hot buttons that not only get us/keep us rock hard, but also quickly gets the pop shot.

Communication remains key.

[LookingAround]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

The normal maximum for humans is 5 to 8 times in 24 hours.

Rodents like rabbits and rats can ejaculate 15 times a day.

You should check for a tail....😆

Or a tale? 😉

[NYXboy]

15 minutes ago, LookingAround said:

Or a tale? 😉

I think this is spot on. 

[PileDriver]

When I hire a top I leave no doubt what I am expecting. And its that shared expectation that usually helps lubricate the assignation. Have had a few men been upfront about the difficulty they have at times having and orgasm with a client and we agreed to either not meet or find someway to help achieve orgasm. Only once did someone not deliver and say so. At the end of the session he suddenly asked for another hour in order to orgasm. No thanks. Once or twice there has been a fake orgasm. But then there are alot of guys who really get into that moment and milk it for all its worth. Love them!

Edited January 15 by PileDriver

[Guest]

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

The normal maximum for humans is 5 to 8 times in 24 hours.

Rodents like rabbits and rats can ejaculate 15 times a day.

You should check for a tail....😆

I think 15 is a believable number. I’ve cum 18 times overnight and can cum 6 times in an hour when topping. 

[+ Tygerscent]

7 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Tip:  It also might help if you directly ask a guy what gets him off.

As pros, we sometime develop specific hot buttons that not only get us/keep us rock hard, but also quickly gets the pop shot.

Communication remains key.

Yes… good point~ Observation is vital~ Be aware of what is exciting your partner~  Everybody enjoys something different and even still, whatever that is, changes from time to time~  What you like may change depending on who you are playing with~    
 It’s less a matter of “formula” and more a matter of watching your partner to see what’s going on inside of him~  We and our lives are not static things but are ever evolving in amazing ways.
 If you are stroking the length of his dick and completely ignoring the head of his dick, (but that’s where the sensitivity is and what’s gonna bring him on), you’re missing the queue. Do different things to the head of his dick and see what works best~ When that stops working, do something else that does~ it is a matter of thinking about what works being done as opposed to what is not working. There’s a subtle difference in the emotional encyclical attitude there. What is an exploration of what works and the other is concentrating on what doesn’t or rather failure. Failure mindset can be a big speed bump in sexual happiness. 
 It may not be all about his bone either… maybe it’s lips or nips or pits or nuts n butt~    
 Furiously pumping cock with your hand, or jerking him off with your hole feels fine but, that might not be what’s getting him off. Maybe there needs to be kissing and that’s the launch button~    
 Sometimes guys feel very pressured about cumming. It creates unnecessary tension and a psychological speed bump. Sometimes cumming is much more probable when cumming or orgasm are not the focal point. 
  While finding what works applies to one session with that person it may change the next session or even change in the current session. Our moods change, our physical awareness changes… So, it’s really important to be in tune with what’s going on with your partner there at the moment. Maybe he’s more submissive that day and wants you to take charge because he’s a Domme who needs a break from being a Domme for whatever reason. Maybe he’s a bottom who wants to take charge for a change… Verbal communication, touch/tactile communication, body posturing, breathing communication, and body response communication are involved and there to help~    
 We are dealing with human beings and human bodies: flesh and blood… Not machines… it’s a more than reading an instruction manual and setting the controls for the heart of the sun. 
 I have always been a multiple cummer but, I also am very good at directing what makes me excited and want to cum. I’m very vocal/verbal/gal and communicates to my partners what I want them to do and how to do it. Even if I’m in a “bottoming”mood, (whatever that means), I can convey that~  If I’m topping, but, I want somebody to also play with my hole and give me a prostate massage, I put their hand there, or tell them to go there. it does not mean I am suddenly bottoming… It means that now is a top. I want you to play with my hole and as a bottom you’re gonna do it.
 I think also, what can hold people off is when there are rigid ideas about the roles each partner is taking on. For example, the bottom might not think they can do something to a top because only bottoms get a prostate massage etc… but, that’s absolutely not true. There are tops, who like to have their holes played with or be talked dirty to. There are bottoms who like to instigate every nuance of a sexual session… they are dominant bottoms~    
 Maybe a top bottom is laying there with a big old heart on, and he decides that’s his property for the time being. So, he puts his bottoms arms up over his head, throws a shirt on his face, or a blindfold, maybe hold him down and then sits on his dick. He’s still topping, but he’s taking his bottom dick in a dominant way~ 
 Sometimes it’s easy to get really hung up on what bottoming and topping is and what we are allowed to do and not allowed to do because somebody is assuming what a certain role “does”….  
  Being less rigid psychologically, emotionally, spiritually can make your other “rigid” less frigid~  
 Sometimes our heads are in a psychological place or in an emotional place and the sexual session needs to address that instead of the rough fuck intended “plan”~   
 When you are flexible/Fluid and move together towards fulfilling your needs, and what feels good, physically/emotionally/psychologically/spiritually, There is a greater chance that things are going to end up happy for all involved.   
  Be gentle and kind on yourselves and each other… It’s about optimizing/satisfying shared needs~  

Edited January 16 by Tygerscent

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

. I’ve cum 18 times overnight and can cum 6 times in an hour when topping. 

You should register with Ripley's.

[+ Tygerscent]

12 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

Hot! Where have you been all this time? You’ll make me happy. 😊 

I guess I’ve been visiting other peoples holes …🤷‍♂️🤭   
 I travel everywhere… I tour the states several times a year and then I spend a significant amount of time abroad touring there~   
 Have tails, will travel:   
 For those who don’t know me, I was literally raised by a wolf~ 

Edited January 16 by Tygerscent

[+ Tygerscent]

6 hours ago, LookingAround said:

Or a tale? 😉

The 15 was my record… not my typical or average~ I can frequently come 3 to 5 or six times when time is allowed but, quite frankly that involves another person, and they also have to have the stamina. 
Sometimes guys don’t want me to come at all… It’s all about them coming~ 

[NyGold]

I fall into the category of it being more common they do come or even express that they want to.

I don’t need them to come and sometimes I’m sure they’ve asked “do you want me to …” and my reply is something like “I’m sure you’d prefer to save your energy for other meetings today”.

I’ve actually been surprised at how many seem to want it. I doubt it’s being satisfied by me - perhaps more just release of energy and maybe it helps them rest between appointments or before something they actually want to do.

More than once I’ve even had providers express frustration if we ended before they climaxed - one guy insisted we keep going so he could come and I assumed he meant pay him for more time … so that turned into a bit of an unpleasant ending as I insisted on leaving and he gave me a dirty look as I walked out! 

[NYXboy]

On 1/15/2024 at 5:19 PM, GlamNYC said:

I think 15 is a believable number. I’ve cum 18 times overnight and can cum 6 times in an hour when topping. 

if you are cumming 6 times in one hour - you are looking for a provider that has premature ejaculation like yourself - which no provider will suffer from.  

I suspect you are reaching orgasm VERY quickly, which is why your partners are not.  It appears you have revealed that it is you that is the issue. 

I wouldn't imagine that these numbers are true - but if by some chance it is, it wouldn't make you a great lover. but rather the opposite in fact. 

 

 

[Guest]

Been cumming like a teenager again since getting off Wellbutrin lol go figure…

Edited January 19 by Guest

[CuriousByNature]

2 hours ago, Ziya said:

Be cumming like a teenager again since getting off Wellbutrin lol go figure…

Wellbutrin is pretty hit and miss from what I've heard.  I'm glad you could come off it and hope that whatever you may be taking is very effective for you.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, NYXboy said:

if you are cumming 6 times in one hour - you are looking for a provider that has premature ejaculation like yourself - which no provider will suffer from.  

I suspect you are reaching orgasm VERY quickly, which is why your partners are not.  It appears you have revealed that it is you that is the issue. 

I wouldn't imagine that these numbers are true - but if by some chance it is, it wouldn't make you a great lover. but rather the opposite in fact. 

 

 

Gaslighting. 

[Guest]

On 1/14/2024 at 11:20 PM, Trick said:

This is how I word  it.  
“I find it very satisfying to get a guy to cum. Are you cool with that?”

 

I followed this piece of advice. It worked twice in a row so far. Thanks for sharing this. 

[Jason-jason]

On 1/14/2024 at 1:52 PM, Trick said:

Some guys who know I like cum put me on their last appointment for the day so they can “CUMplete” the task.

Hi. When I am available for session we usually don’t ask if u want the cum but if you mention it to me or anyone I usually try to keep ur appt to the last. Also sometimes it happens that more than one client ask for ‘cum’ so we have to force ourselves to cum more than once a day. Not to mention one day I had to cum 4 times and only one of the 4 tipped me so….. 

idk what else to tell you but this based on experience 

[NYXboy]

3 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

Gaslighting. 

you literally wrote before:  "I’m a generous tipper, I think. Typically $100 for $300/hr rate. Then I repeat with the same providers, and still no orgasm from them. Starting to think I’m the problem. 😂 "

 

I am telling you very clearly, you are right:  if you are only taking 6-10 minutes to cum - you ARE the problem, not the providers. That's why we hire for one hour, not 10 minutes. Sorry if you don't like that answer, but that is not gaslighting, its just facts. If you are being honest about the time you take to orgasm, you are definitely the problem; and if you are lying trying to big up yourself (weird flex), well you are the problem in that scenario also.

I would advise the best thing you can do is relax, take your time and try to prolong the pleasure, rather than rush things to a conclusion. This will help lead to a experience where you are far more likely to get your partner also cum. Best of luck with your endeavors. 

[kebinsan321]

You ask a great question. I feel that most providers that I have made a good connection with will cum (at least once). However, I was recently told by an escort (after cumming for me) that "escorts don't cum" and he usually doesn't. I think it was meant to be a compliment. The next day I met a guy who came twice without any issue at all. Sometimes I make it clear that's what I'd like - other times I don't - but for me it typically is about a good connection with the provider. Not sure that helps you, but I agree with others here, if it is important, set the expectation in advance.

[+ Coolwave35]

I have never in my life cum more than once in a day. I had no idea that a) it’s possible and b) there would be a desire to. I’m seeing a provider today for two hours and I’m going to try my damndest to come a second time. My mind is blown by this thread.