Do most clients tell you their realistic stats when they contact you?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

3 hours ago, Hot4latin said:

I'll take it a step further.  I'd be curious to know if providers charge differently when they know a potential client's stats.  Are there discounts for clients a provider is attracted to?  Are there hidden upcharges for "less than attractive" clients that the provider views as combat pay or to possibly dissuade the client from hiring?

I know of many escorts who privately do this.  It's their prerogative. 

Myself, I'd never upcharge based on someone's stats/race, but do institute a pain in my ass tax in the event it's warranted.  That means I have already have some understanding of who the client is and what he's looking for.  I wouldn't do that without having some existing relationship.

I'm lucky that nearly my whole stable of clients are easy-going and guys I genuinely enjoy, but there's always the exception...  And those exceptions pay more.  Sometimes a lot more.

Edited January 6, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas

[Guest]

I think a pain in the ass tax is fair; I suspect it usually involves something the client can control.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

5 minutes ago, Km411 said:

I suspect it usually involves something the client can control.

Exactly right.

And since they can control it, but don't, therein lies the need for the taxation.

Everyone gets what they want.  All's well that ends well.

Edited January 6, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas

[Hot4latin]

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

…but do institute a pain in my ass tax in the event it's warranted. 

I can relate. I do the same thing in my RL job. There are clients out there who are guaranteed to be a time-suck and now I know to add about 10-20% to their job. But it’s not because they’re unpleasant. They just have a way of requesting more of me than originally scoped. 

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

And since they can control it, but don't, therein lies the need for the taxation.

I have the same approach. There are a few clients who have pain in the ass characteristics:

- making bookings and repeatedly cancelling or rescheduling so I spend loads of time scheduling.

-  having extremely demanding requirements (like wanting to over choreograph a massage).

- booking for difficult times. Example I say I’m available up to 4pm on Tuesday…and he then asks for 4:30pm (done on purpose to exert control). 

These clients pay more than my standard rate. I don’t mind what they look like. In fact I like the variety of different clients, big, small, older, younger, different races and colours etc. It’s the wonder of the job, the opportunity to find out that despite all the outward differences there’s some things that apply universally. 
 

 

 

 

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

2 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

No, I do not charge differently. Unprofessional providers cherry pick and/or charge differently for each client based on their personal preferences.

The thing is, I've seen ads where they offer "college specials" and discounts for "fit" clients. Also, I'm sure both providers and clients have encountered situations where, for some reason or another, the provider decides to do more because he finds it pleasurable.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

12 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

et. My face pic is a dealkiller.

A deal killer meaning you won’t send it or the provider won’t see you? 

[DWnyc]

16 hours ago, Hot4latin said:

I'll take it a step further.  I'd be curious to know if providers charge differently when they know a potential client's stats.  Are there discounts for clients a provider is attracted to?  Are there hidden upcharges for "less than attractive" clients that the provider views as combat pay or to possibly dissuade the client from hiring?

I’m sure I’ve seen ads basically saying that (discount if you’re “hot”). 

I’m pretty sure there are some providers who won’t turn anyone away but give them less than stellar service if they are not attracted to them or have some feature they find problematic - age, body type, race, “masc vs femme” etc

One provider shared w me once that he had some tricks if he’s bored or really not into a client - the most outrageous of which was pretending they’re not clean down there … as he described it, that typically sends them into deep embarrassment, they run to the bathroom, by the time they come out they’re desperate to leave even if all that hasn’t used up the remaining time.

Yes I’d rather have a provider reject me before meeting if it can lead to that but I’d rather this wasn’t an issue in what’s supposed to be different from regular hooking up. 

 

Edited January 7, 2024 by DWnyc

[+ DrownedBoy]

15 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

A deal killer meaning you won’t send it or the provider won’t see you? 

I don't send it. Ever.