Is the escorting/massaging scene good in San Diego for providers?

[socurious]

1 hour ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

it has nothing to do with stating boundaries 

I’m a relatively new member here - less than a year, so I had no idea about your history on this site which goes back several years under a few different names.  I didn’t go looking for your old posts - another member posted a link to some of your old posts that contained the same sort of nonsensical statements/questions/posts on a variety of topics.  
After briefly reviewing those posts & several long-time members reactions to those posts - the appearance is you are not interested in any real help or advice, just engaging members here with the nonsense.  That’s the problem - people were sincerely trying to help you & you’re playing some sort of game and wasting everyone’s time.

My sense now is that you go through episodes just like this, where you are found out, then a bunch of members place you on ignore and then you start again with unsuspecting people that don’t know your game.  Then you run to the mods and complain, trying to get them to delete posts that look bad for you.

Just my opinion - but I think every bit of this is bullshit and that seems to be a recurring theme because that’s what many members have posted in direct responses to you over the years.  It’s easy to verify because it’s all here.  In this case, screenshots are not your friend.  You’ve been wasting peoples time for years here who were all trying to sincerely help you.  Pathetic 

btw - your constant nonsense questions/posts about being an escort are insulting to the real escorts here, who are trying to really improve the way they do business and take this all seriously.  The providers here make their living this way.  It’s a job that requires a lot of skill, hard work & dedication - and you treat it like a joke.  They aren’t here to pose hypothetical nonsense to generate controversy, get attention or kill time.  Clearly, you do not make a living doing escort work.  I can’t imagine any real client who would ever hire you based on how you  present yourself here.  

 

You just want to attack me.

My posting history has nothing to do with this thread. I genuinely asked for some advice.

On another thread you tried to attack me as well for just sharing my experience. But now you are saying you ended up in my posting history because someone posted a thread I made in 2017? Yeah right. 

I'm reporting you right now. You are derailing the thread with unnecessary accusations. I don't have time for that shit. You are pathetic. 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

1 hour ago, socurious said:

But now you are saying you ended up in my posting history because someone posted a thread I made in 2017? Yeah right.

this is known as a posting history, which is contained in this thread 

 

Edited November 16, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder

[SouthOfTheBorder]

1 hour ago, socurious said:

You just want to attack me.

no - this is your standard response when members tell you the truth

1 hour ago, socurious said:

I'm reporting you right now

and this is also your standard response to anyone who questions the nonsense. Same exact reply in several threads

[mike carey]

Moderator's Note

This would be a good time to return to the topic of the thread, the merits or otherwise of San Diego as a city in which to work as an escort or masseur, and to stop the two-way sniping at other members who have posted in the thread. And no, one way sniping is not okay either.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, mike carey said:

Moderator's Note

This would be a good time to return to the topic of the thread, the merits or otherwise of San Diego as a city in which to work as an escort or masseur, and to stop the two-way sniping at other members who have posted in the thread. And no, one way sniping is not okay either.

So let it be written, so let it be done.... 

Admittedly feeling somewhat bamboozled , my response to the original question, by what at this point is at least to me, coming from an "alleged" escort is:  

INYC  is the biggest and best market for those that actually escort and for those that actually offer erotic and therapeutic massage. Like @pubic_assistance said, NYC is always getting flooded by tourists adding to and substantiating my claim that there's no bigger market than NYC for those who actually do escort. As for anyone trading NYC for San Diego because of "competition" Just remember you're putting your pole in a pond with less fish and where it's incredibly expensive to live. Any place that's "attractive" to live is going to  also have "stiff" competition so with that said, good luck 🍀 and may the road rise up..................

Edited November 16, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, Vin_Marco said:

for anyone trading NYC for San Diego because of "competition" Just remember you're putting your pole in a pond with less fish

Most definitely.

Not only is San Diego expensive - it's incredibly dull.

Leaving NYC to San Diego for an escort makes little to no sense unless they are filling some niche gap in the market that they've discovered.

As others have mentioned, a hard-limit of "no kissing" is going to reduce your audience. Other factors (age, body-type & looks) are always limiting factors. Since@socurious doesn't have a profile anywhere so I can't determine what other factors may be limiting his audience, but my guess is that the audience is going to be chopped down to a few guys no matter where they travel.

 

Edited November 16, 2023 by pubic_assistance

[Marc in Calif]

14 hours ago, socurious said:

Selling sex is a serious matter and can get you into jail. It's not for everyone. 

I think this thread has proven that It's not for everyone -- even in San Diego.

Edited November 16, 2023 by Marc in Calif

[socurious]

Working in San Diego and living in Tijuana?

Edited November 16, 2023 by socurious

[Marc in Calif]

6 minutes ago, socurious said:

Working in San Diego and leaving in Tijuana?

If you didn't know much about the escort market in San Diego, why even bring up living in Tijuana? That's just a whole kettle of risk and danger. 

I predict that you'd be leaving Tijuana the day after you move there. 

Edited November 16, 2023 by Marc in Calif

[Guest]

21 hours ago, Vin_Marco said:

One hour and 15 minutes to Palm Springs, exactly 1 hour to downtown San Diego and an hour and a half to West Hollywood/Beverly Hills. I do it every week and I am not in the slightest inconvenienced by it.

Just to give an example.... yesterday I was in Palm Springs, today I'm home 🏡 doing nothing and will enjoy every moment of it, tomorrow I'm back in Palm Springs and will come home, Saturday I'm back again in  Palm Springs and won't be home 🏡 until Monday...  the following week it's a  very similar "flow" only it will be in Los Angeles. Point is there's a commute and one I don't mind at all... the alternative is being home and jacking off alone 🤣 If you are in my line of work and you have a regular commute every single week, be GRATEFUL ☺️ 

[Guest]

10 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

when the escort doesn't penetrate, perform oral, rim, kiss, or cum. 

Sounds like a fella in the wrong business to me 😂

And next teachers 👨‍🏫 🧑‍🏫 will be expected to pay for their own schools supplies.... oh wait 🫤

[SouthOfTheBorder]

Since the OP brought up Mexico, in addition to San Diego - let’s give that some thought 

It’s possible there could be a city in Mexico that is completely off-the-radar and underserved by providers.  A hidden little jewel so to speak.

Ever heard of Culiacan, MX ?  1million people and no provider listings.  Nicely situated near Gulf of California with mountains & hot springs nearby. Not far from Mazatlan and Cabo San Lucas.  I suppose the one downside could be it’s the HQ of the Sinaloa Drug Cartel.  But, those guys need some love too.  Sounds a bit “Ozark” if you know the show - but what an adventure and evidently, no competition !

I love Mexico - it’s South of the Border !!!

 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

3 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

I think this thread has proven that It's not for everyone -- even in San Diego.

👆the most accurate statement in entire thread. gracias 🙏🏻 

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

Since the OP brought up Mexico, in addition to San Diego - let’s give that some thought 

It’s possible there could be a city in Mexico that is completely off-the-radar and underserved by providers.  A hidden little jewel so to speak.

Ever heard of Culiacan, MX ?  1million people and no provider listings.  Nicely situated near Gulf of California with mountains & hot springs nearby. Not far from Mazatlan and Cabo San Lucas.  I suppose the one downside could be it’s the HQ of the Sinaloa Drug Cartel.  But, those guys need some love too.  Sounds a bit “Ozark” if you know the show - but what an adventure and evidently, no competition !

I love Mexico - it’s South of the Border !!!

 

I was born in Mexico 🇲🇽 and my father's family is from Sinaloa. 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

4 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

I was born in Mexico 🇲🇽 and my father's family is from Sinaloa. 

I’ve read & heard the Sinaloans are thought to be among the most attractive people in Mexico. For real. 

Edited November 16, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder

[Guest]

Just now, SouthOfTheBorder said:

I’ve read & heard the Sinaloans are thought to be among the most attractive people in Mexico. For real.

🤷🏽‍♂️ 😂 Mexico 🇲🇽 is and has historically been a melting pot so naturally there's going to be a beautiful, wide variety of genotypes 😍

[SouthOfTheBorder]

4 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

Mexico 🇲🇽 is and has historically been a melting pot so naturally there's going to be a beautiful, wide variety of genotypes

true - yet I haven’t seen the same type comments re; physical attractiveness about other regions of Mexico compared to Sinaloa.  It seems to be something that is commonly discussed and the people are very proud of it.  References seems to include virility of the men w machismo mixed in. 

Edited November 16, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder

[Guest]

3 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

true - yet I haven’t seen the same type comments re; physical attractiveness about other regions of Mexico compared to Sinaloa.  It seems to be something that is commonly discussed and the people are very proud of it.  References seems to include virility of the men w machismo mixed in. 

Where my mother is from in Sonora, a lot of Europeans migrated there to mine copper.... that's why a lot of my relatives are over 6 feet tall with colored eyes on my moms side. On my dad side they migrated from Portugal.

Mexico has a Jewish population, Chinese population, Arab,  German....  in the state of Guerrero you can definitely see the African influence...  i've had the good fortune of visiting almost every state in the Republic of Mexico.... 🇲🇽 we are a very diverse people, most people think of Mexicans and think of Benito Juarez lol 😂 

Edited November 16, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[Guest]

@SouthOfTheBorder i'll be happy to send you a photo privately of my grandfather, who looked like a young Paul Newman, blue eyes  and all born and raised in Mexico, became a cattle trader and broker along the US Mexico border in Arizona

Edited November 16, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[socurious]

Thanks everyone for sharing your thoughts. 

[socurious]

4 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

If you didn't know much about the escort market in San Diego, why even bring up living in Tijuana? That's just a whole kettle of risk and danger. 

I predict that you'd be leaving Tijuana the day after you move there. 

Um... I was kidding when I made that post.

Either way, a lot of people work in SD and live in Tijuana. Spanish is my first language. There are good affordable safe parts in Tijuana. 

[Simon Suraci]

Comments about whether to be in the biz at all notwithstanding…

…speaking fluent Spanish is an asset in San Diego. Occasionally a client will contact me requesting service with Spanish-only communication.

Unfortunately I do not speak more than a few phrases and words in Spanish, so I rely on an automatic translator to relay information. Clients with the patience and understanding to communicate that way will see me. I have several Spanish speaking clients with very limited to no English skills and we get by just fine. Sometimes I miss out on work because the language barrier is too much for the client. It’s just a matter of client preference. I imagine some of our local Spanish speaking clients would prefer a fluent Spanish speaker provider.

I can’t say being a Spanish speaking provider would be unique or novel around San Diego, but it certainly would be an asset and an opportunity to capture a particular niche in the market, especially if your look is different than the majority of other Spanish speaking providers in the area. I can’t speak to your look since I don’t have an ad or photo to go on. I recall seeing your ad while back when you posted it, but I lack a photographic memory.

I speak French and I have many francophone clients. That would help me a lot more in Canada or other French speaking places, but those clients seem to find me here just fine one way or another. Another reason location isn’t everything.

[Brock O]

7 hours ago, Vin_Marco said:

Just to give an example.... yesterday I was in Palm Springs, today I'm home 🏡 doing nothing and will enjoy every moment of it, tomorrow I'm back in Palm Springs and will come home, Saturday I'm back again in  Palm Springs and won't be home 🏡 until Monday...  the following week it's a  very similar "flow" only it will be in Los Angeles. Point is there's a commute and one I don't mind at all... the alternative is being home and jacking off alone 🤣 If you are in my line of work and you have a regular commute every single week, be GRATEFUL ☺️ 

Oh dear, what a waste to have Vin sitting home, jacking off alone when that energy could be spent making other men happy. A horrifying scenario.  Embrace that commute!

[Guest]

You can call me Danny here @Brock O too 😙

[Jarrod_Uncut]

7 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

Ever heard of Culiacan, MX ?  1million people and no provider listings.  Nicely situated near Gulf of California with mountains & hot springs nearby. Not far from Mazatlan and Cabo San Lucas.  I suppose the one downside could be it’s the HQ of the Sinaloa Drug Cartel.  But, those guys need some love too.  Sounds a bit “Ozark” if you know the show - but what an adventure and evidently, no competition !

I love Mexico - it’s South of the Border !!!

 

Sounds like a town I just went to in the “Ozarks” region. It’s Hot Springs central. Lot of affluent people and tourism. One of my clients has a Rolls Royce, just to give an idea of the kinda money there lol.

Unfortunately, those type of towns you have to find the business…it’s not necessarily conveyor belt. Lots of straight, conservative…so takes a bit of patience. It’s good for an overnight or multi hour session planned ahead. 
 

6 hours ago, socurious said:

Um... I was kidding when I made that post.

Either way, a lot of people work in SD and live in Tijuana. Spanish is my first language. There are good affordable safe parts in Tijuana. 

When I was in San Diego earlier this year, I stayed a couple weeks just walking distance from the Tijuana coast. And just a skip and hop from the entry point. I did learn a lot of people travel to/from San Diego to work and live in “TJ”. 
 

But similar to what’s going on the Middle East, going to Mexico for tourism was highly discouraged. Unless you just have a house and resort, but I wasn’t about to go out there alone. Especially considering so many can get to San Diego and book me. 

Edited November 17, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut