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On 9/25/2023 at 11:53 AM, BenjaminNicholas said:

Guys- at least the men I see- aren't hiring me to be reminded that they're paying for my service.  They want to relax, vacation, enjoy, cut loose and simply have a friend with them who makes it all flow and feel easy.

This describes me.  The most stressful part of hiring for me (once I've done the homework of deciding to hire a provider) is negotiating the fee.  I say negotiating, but I don't negotiate.  I ask the provider what his fee is and either I'll accept it and move forward or I'll say that's too pricey and walk away.  Even if the provider comes back and offers a lower price that I would have accepted if it were offered initially, I turn it down.  I don't want to meet someone if any of my mindspace is taken up with "did I get a good price".   Also, my experience with an escort is good or bad regardless of price.  I have NEVER walked away from a bad or mediocre encounter thinking "It would have been a good session if only I had paid $100 less."  

All that being said (sorry for the rambling), a regular provider offering me a discount would damage the relationship that we've built.  Better, as suggested above, to offer something special or to extend our time.  I wouldn't even point out that this is a  frequent flyer perk.  Better for the provider to say "I thought this might be fun" or "Don't go just yet.  Hang out a bit." 

Posted
11 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

A regular, weekly client who pays offers predictability, which is rare and valuable. That’s not a drawback — that’s a win!

 

Indeed!  This was some loose lipped posting, almost two years ago. 

The near-weekly regular is a unicorn.  We should all be so lucky.  Gratitude only!

Posted
2 hours ago, jackcali said:

This describes me.  The most stressful part of hiring for me (once I've done the homework of deciding to hire a provider) is negotiating the fee.  I say negotiating, but I don't negotiate. 

I won’t be nominating you to write the Forward for the Encyclopedia of Trade Pay.😏

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