Escort Suggestion For "Hot Guy"

[SouthOfTheBorder]

5 hours ago, lseactuary90 said:

I've fucked him via Sniffies before (for free) too.

there’s a thing among some, thinking they’re  getting something for “free” - sometimes it’s a provider and sometimes it’s grindr hookup

 they don’t really seem to grasp that they pay in other ways: time, attention, dinners, etc   Nothing is free

it’s like they have to specifically signal they don’t have to pay - for whatever reason 

isn’t it just easier to skip the self-inflicted mindfuck and come to terms w paid sex ?
it’s relevant because the “free” comment is ALWAYS in relation to paid 

 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

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Edited June 23, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder

[CuriousByNature]

6 hours ago, lseactuary90 said:

 if there are small changes I can make on my end

If you're a top, what changes to your END would make any difference....  sorry, couldn't resist

 

[+ nycman]

7 hours ago, lseactuary90 said:

I've actually banged Anthony for free lol. It was okay.

 

6 hours ago, lseactuary90 said:

I've fucked him via Sniffies before (for free) too. 

Now I see the problem….

[+ Coolwave35]

4 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

I don’t understand why he even wants/needs to hire. 

Last night at 10 pm I was horny. I logged on Grindr. A very sexy Latin bottom hit me up and asked if he could come over. 

He was at my house at 10:30. He sucked my dick for a while.  We then had sex and I nutted in him around 11:15. I fell onto the bed to catch my breath. Almost instantly he laid down on my chest and started rubbing my tummy commenting how he loved the hair. I pet his head telling him how good he was for about 5 minutes and then tried to get up. He wouldn’t budge. At 11:45 I said that he probably wanted to get home. He said he was fine. 
 

At 12:15 I said I had work early and unfortunately I had to call it a night. He got up to get dressed, walked to my French door and saw my pool. He said he always wanted to get fucked in a pool and started to walk outside. I followed him cuz dude’s in my back yard. He saw my rock speakers and said come on, let’s swim to one song. I said the heater hadn’t been on all day and the water was cold. He jumped in and started splashing me.  I was aggravated. I sat on the pools edge and he started sucking my limp dick. I was annoyed and cold and it was past midnight and I couldn’t get hard.  Walking back up to my house he noticed the hot tub on the other side of my deck.  I said it wasn’t on. He opened the lid and got in. I again sat on the ledge saying he really had to go and I had to get to bed. He tried to get me off again. I’m still Limp as a Bizkit. He said the guy that dropped him off was working til 7am and he’d like to just crash at my place. I said no  

I offered to drive him home and started walking inside. It’s 12:45 now. He said he didn’t have a house key. I said there was no way he was sleeping over and that I’d bring him home and he’d figure out how to get inside.  I get his shit together and get him in the car. He’s thirsty and asks to stop at the gas station. 
 

He gets out to get a drink and takes a phone call outside to see if someone will let him in. No one he lives with is home. 5 minutes pass and I yell to him that I’m heading home and to have a good night. He jumps back in the car and said he’s got access. 

He gives me instructions where to go turn by turn. He’s very sexy and rubbing my thigh and dick.  He says we’re almost there. We show up at a dead end street that he likes car play at. He says let’s go another round. I say no way I’m tired as he pulls my dick out. I’m obviously annoyed and tell him to stop, that it ain’t happening. 

I cum in his mouth.

He again asks if he can sleep over. I said no and that if he didn’t take me to his house I was bringing him to the police station and just leaving him there. 

He asks to sleep in my back yard under my trampoline. I say no.  I finally get him to what may be his house.  He tries a long good bye and does the whole we should hang again. I said no fucking way. I’m not having it, this went on way too long and I’m tired.  

I get home and it’s after 2:00. I’m super tired and feel like what should have been a hot experience lasted wayyyyyy too long.

Someone here once said that you’re not paying an escort to come over, you’re paying them to leave. This guy overstaying his welcome drove that point home and I’ll never do it again. 

I picked him up tonight around 10:45, plowed him out, and brought him home at midnight.  I showed him!!!

Thats why people hire. 

Edited June 23, 2023 by Coolwave35

[blck37]

9 hours ago, lseactuary90 said:

It was a recommendation to which I have already tried. Wasn't showing off. 

Feeling the need to say 'for free' (to ppl who would otherwise pay for a session with this guy) is indeed showing off. Giving off new rich tech bro vibe. 

But no worries, i think found someone who will totally vibe well with you, he is impeccable, George the impeccable. You two would really hit it off

[Simon Suraci]

24 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

you’re not paying an escort to come over, you’re paying them to leave.

Excellent point. I agree.

What a nightmare some guy presuming it’s ok to stay at your place after a hookup and then continuing to pressure you to allow him to stay. The whole under the trampoline suggestion sounds pretty desperate.

Sounds like he may be living on the streets and this is how he is surviving at the moment. So strange. It’s like he wants you to make his personal crisis your problem. I guess it’s equally difficult to get them there as it is to get them to go. Escorts just want your patronage. The rest of society wants something else, whether that be your body, or a place to stay or something else.

Most normal people would leave after activities have ended, especially after you ask them to go, and you explicitly tell them no. Not him! Frustrating. Hot boy though. Hope that booty was worth the midnight hassle.

Value the pros. As much as hiring can be frustrating at times for various reasons, it offers real value. This is one of those points of value.

[Simon Suraci]

41 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

 

Those gym shorts tho….! I wear the same kind almost every day, also typically freeballing. Except mine have those little jersey style perforations in the fabric for more airflow. And I wear them in cool colors, or neutrals like white, black, or gray. Red is really unflattering on my pale skin. Works for this guy though. Love them.

 I digress…this is so off topic…

[+ nycman]

5 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Last night at 10 pm I was horny. …..This guy overstaying his welcome drove that point home and I’ll never do it again.

WTF @Coolwave35? I thought you were smarter than this!!!

5 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

 

Oh….now it get it.

Never mind. 

Edited June 23, 2023 by nycman

[+ Coolwave35]

2 hours ago, nycman said:

WTF @Coolwave35? I thought you were smarter than this!!!

Oh….now it get it.

Never mind. 

Exactly. I don’t ever get this unless I’m shelling out $500. 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

6 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Most normal people would leave after activities have ended, especially after you ask them to go, and you explicitly tell them no.

there’s the problem - meeting unknown people online & bringing them into your home, depends on them being “normal”, observing norms & being able to interpret social cues when it’s over.  
Many aren’t normal - drug addicts, thieves, homeless?, otherwise unstable people among some other “normal” guys.  Many are experts at portraying normal online until somethings goes awry in the encounter.  
The odds are relatively good you’re gonna have problems at some point. Are they really gonna leave when landing in a plush spot with a nice guy host ? NO
I’ve been there years ago as the person that can’t get them out.

Then there’s the stalking, I’ve had some show up unannounced at my home. And countless others continue unwanted texting until the only choice was to block. 

In sharp contrast, I’ve never had a provider overstay unless there was a clear invitation by me.  Never been stalked by a provider either.  
In short, I’d rather pay because it’s a cleaner deal and I’d rather not play the odds with crazy.  
In theory, I could get crazy w a provider, it’s just never happened.  A few less than satisfactory experiences but never crazy where they wouldn’t leave or there was stalking. I’ll take those odds. 

Edited June 23, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder

[marylander1940]

8 hours ago, The_Impeccable_George said:

I wouldn't... I know I repeat myself but he looks more like a client than an escort.

I guarantee you most clients DON'T look like him at all and if they do, they don't need to hire, they get it for free. 

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[marylander1940]

7 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Last night at 10 pm I was horny. I logged on Grindr. A very sexy Latin bottom hit me up and asked if he could come over. 

He was at my house at 10:30. He sucked my dick for a while.  We then had sex and I nutted in him around 11:15. I fell onto the bed to catch my breath. Almost instantly he laid down on my chest and started rubbing my tummy commenting how he loved the hair. I pet his head telling him how good he was for about 5 minutes and then tried to get up. He wouldn’t budge. At 11:45 I said that he probably wanted to get home. He said he was fine. 
 

At 12:15 I said I had work early and unfortunately I had to call it a night. He got up to get dressed, walked to my French door and saw my pool. He said he always wanted to get fucked in a pool and started to walk outside. I followed him cuz dude’s in my back yard. He saw my rock speakers and said come on, let’s swim to one song. I said the heater hadn’t been on all day and the water was cold. He jumped in and started splashing me.  I was aggravated. I sat on the pools edge and he started sucking my limp dick. I was annoyed and cold and it was past midnight and I couldn’t get hard.  Walking back up to my house he noticed the hot tub on the other side of my deck.  I said it wasn’t on. He opened the lid and got in. I again sat on the ledge saying he really had to go and I had to get to bed. He tried to get me off again. I’m still Limp as a Bizkit. He said the guy that dropped him off was working til 7am and he’d like to just crash at my place. I said no  

I offered to drive him home and started walking inside. It’s 12:45 now. He said he didn’t have a house key. I said there was no way he was sleeping over and that I’d bring him home and he’d figure out how to get inside.  I get his shit together and get him in the car. He’s thirsty and asks to stop at the gas station. 
 

He gets out to get a drink and takes a phone call outside to see if someone will let him in. No one he lives with is home. 5 minutes pass and I yell to him that I’m heading home and to have a good night. He jumps back in the car and said he’s got access. 

He gives me instructions where to go turn by turn. He’s very sexy and rubbing my thigh and dick.  He says we’re almost there. We show up at a dead end street that he likes car play at. He says let’s go another round. I say no way I’m tired as he pulls my dick out. I’m obviously annoyed and tell him to stop, that it ain’t happening. 

I cum in his mouth.

He again asks if he can sleep over. I said no and that if he didn’t take me to his house I was bringing him to the police station and just leaving him there. 

He asks to sleep in my back yard under my trampoline. I say no.  I finally get him to what may be his house.  He tries a long good bye and does the whole we should hang again. I said no fucking way. I’m not having it, this went on way too long and I’m tired.  

I get home and it’s after 2:00. I’m super tired and feel like what should have been a hot experience lasted wayyyyyy too long.

Someone here once said that you’re not paying an escort to come over, you’re paying them to leave. This guy overstaying his welcome drove that point home and I’ll never do it again. 

I picked him up tonight around 10:45, plowed him out, and brought him home at midnight.  I showed him!!!

Thats why people hire. 

That was an extreme case! He had issues and either couldn't take no for an answer or some form of autism like mindset where unless he gets the answer he wants your words simply don't register! 

After a few mins of cuddling and specially SO late at night it's time to say goodbye! 

 

[+ ThroatCummer]

57 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I guarantee you most clients DON'T look like him at all and if they do, they don't need to hire, they get it for free. 

It's ironic that one of my favorite escorts has hired other guys for himself on a dozen or more occasions. 

They deal with all the same Grindr/Scruff/Sniffies issues that we have. People not showing up, people being to clingy, wanting more, etc.  Sometimes you just want fun sex with no strings and someone who is reliable and on-time. He's the hottest thing walking around the planet in my eyes, but he also pays for it. 

I totally understand too. 

[+ JEC]

On 6/18/2023 at 11:06 AM, lseactuary90 said:

I am "conventially gay hot guy" and am really bored of my Grindr encounters. I can't remember the last time I had a mindblowing sexual encounter. I am a top. 

Looking for escort suggestions (in NY) of someone who can really blow my mind and even teach me a thing or two to have better sexual experiences in general with guy I hookup with. 

I'm not precious on attributes, but I'm a tall muscled guy (6'1, 215lb), so please suggest accordingly. 

90% of my escort encounters have been mind blowing.  To achieve that success rate, you have to do the work of finding the right match, and vetting them.  If you treat RM like ordering from a website or from a catalogue, your results will be highly variable.  Vetting = engaging in dialogue to see if you are in fact a good match.  Some escorts will say what's needed to close the deal, so the trick is to try to dig a little.   For example, as a fellow top I'm into sub bottoms.   You will need more info than "I'm a sub" or "Are you a sub? Yes.".  Like, I want to know that dick is like oxygen to them.  If you find someone and they have been discussed here, do reference checks with clients who have been with the person.  Good luck.

[LookingAround]

I can’t tell you the number of Grindr guys I’ve thrown out (who’ve not taken the hint that it’s time to leave) lol I kept giving one hints and finally I said “you need to learn how to be a good guest. It’s time to leave!”

Regarding the two posts above who are “bragging” (my word) of their Sniffies and online conquests (not referencing Coolwave) none of my friends who regularly hookup easily via these apps would even think to come on here and post about it. I mean why would they?

Edited June 24, 2023 by LookingAround

[HoseMaster]

On 6/22/2023 at 10:34 PM, Coolwave35 said:

Last night at 10 pm I was horny. I logged on Grindr. A very sexy Latin bottom hit me up and asked if he could come over. 

He was at my house at 10:30. He sucked my dick for a while.  We then had sex and I nutted in him around 11:15. I fell onto the bed to catch my breath. Almost instantly he laid down on my chest and started rubbing my tummy commenting how he loved the hair. I pet his head telling him how good he was for about 5 minutes and then tried to get up. He wouldn’t budge. At 11:45 I said that he probably wanted to get home. He said he was fine. 
 

At 12:15 I said I had work early and unfortunately I had to call it a night. He got up to get dressed, walked to my French door and saw my pool. He said he always wanted to get fucked in a pool and started to walk outside. I followed him cuz dude’s in my back yard. He saw my rock speakers and said come on, let’s swim to one song. I said the heater hadn’t been on all day and the water was cold. He jumped in and started splashing me.  I was aggravated. I sat on the pools edge and he started sucking my limp dick. I was annoyed and cold and it was past midnight and I couldn’t get hard.  Walking back up to my house he noticed the hot tub on the other side of my deck.  I said it wasn’t on. He opened the lid and got in. I again sat on the ledge saying he really had to go and I had to get to bed. He tried to get me off again. I’m still Limp as a Bizkit. He said the guy that dropped him off was working til 7am and he’d like to just crash at my place. I said no  

I offered to drive him home and started walking inside. It’s 12:45 now. He said he didn’t have a house key. I said there was no way he was sleeping over and that I’d bring him home and he’d figure out how to get inside.  I get his shit together and get him in the car. He’s thirsty and asks to stop at the gas station. 
 

He gets out to get a drink and takes a phone call outside to see if someone will let him in. No one he lives with is home. 5 minutes pass and I yell to him that I’m heading home and to have a good night. He jumps back in the car and said he’s got access. 

He gives me instructions where to go turn by turn. He’s very sexy and rubbing my thigh and dick.  He says we’re almost there. We show up at a dead end street that he likes car play at. He says let’s go another round. I say no way I’m tired as he pulls my dick out. I’m obviously annoyed and tell him to stop, that it ain’t happening. 

I cum in his mouth.

He again asks if he can sleep over. I said no and that if he didn’t take me to his house I was bringing him to the police station and just leaving him there. 

He asks to sleep in my back yard under my trampoline. I say no.  I finally get him to what may be his house.  He tries a long good bye and does the whole we should hang again. I said no fucking way. I’m not having it, this went on way too long and I’m tired.  

I get home and it’s after 2:00. I’m super tired and feel like what should have been a hot experience lasted wayyyyyy too long.

Someone here once said that you’re not paying an escort to come over, you’re paying them to leave. This guy overstaying his welcome drove that point home and I’ll never do it again. 

I picked him up tonight around 10:45, plowed him out, and brought him home at midnight.  I showed him!!!

Thats why people hire. 

Yummy!  He looks hot! Lol. However, maybe he was waiting for you to fall asleep so he could rob you?

Edited June 24, 2023 by HoseMaster

[+ Coolwave35]

2 hours ago, HoseMaster said:

Yummy!  He looks hot! Lol. However, maybe he was waiting for you to fall asleep so he could rob you?

I can’t tell you how many times this goes through my head on a daily basis. Especially when I bring boys home after an Adonis party or I host. 

[ICTJOCK]

I'm sure it can be a challenge finding the right kind of guy no matter whether one is in NY or in Kansas.    I think the answer is the same no matter what kind of provider is sought.    Look through Rent.Men in the NYC area and take the time to talk to them and assess what is important.    I definitely would look for one who is experienced,  professional,  and you click on a personal level.

[+ goosh69]

On 6/20/2023 at 5:05 PM, marylander1940 said:

Back to subject:

 

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He's been mentioned on here before. 

Is he bald? I know some guys like that or don’t care. But IMO, if you’ve got a hat on in all your pictures, it’s 99.999999% of the time because you’re bald.

[+ goosh69]

On 6/23/2023 at 8:14 AM, Simon Suraci said:

Excellent point. I agree.

What a nightmare some guy presuming it’s ok to stay at your place after a hookup and then continuing to pressure you to allow him to stay. The whole under the trampoline suggestion sounds pretty desperate.

Sounds like he may be living on the streets and this is how he is surviving at the moment. So strange. It’s like he wants you to make his personal crisis your problem. I guess it’s equally difficult to get them there as it is to get them to go. Escorts just want your patronage. The rest of society wants something else, whether that be your body, or a place to stay or something else.

Most normal people would leave after activities have ended, especially after you ask them to go, and you explicitly tell them no. Not him! Frustrating. Hot boy though. Hope that booty was worth the midnight hassle.

Value the pros. As much as hiring can be frustrating at times for various reasons, it offers real value. This is one of those points of value.

I’ve had hot hookups who were quite likely homeless who just would NOT leave. It’s a fucking pain. 

[+ azdr0710]

the OP has not posted in two months and hasn't logged in in six weeks.......he has evidently found a provider who can match his conventional hotness and who can teach him to be a better top........

 

[muscmtl]

On 6/18/2023 at 11:06 AM, lseactuary90 said:

I am "conventially gay hot guy" and am really bored of my Grindr encounters. I can't remember the last time I had a mindblowing sexual encounter. I am a top. 

Looking for escort suggestions (in NY) of someone who can really blow my mind and even teach me a thing or two to have better sexual experiences in general with guy I hookup with. 

I'm not precious on attributes, but I'm a tall muscled guy (6

On 6/18/2023 at 11:06 AM, lseactuary90 said:

I'm not precious on attributes, but I'm a tall muscled guy (6'1, 215lb), so please suggest accordingly. 

I heard Diagon Alley has a sale on Dead Inside mirrors. Lucius Malfoy says they're faaaabulous.

Henry Cavill lookalikes who won't blow your mind ok Grndr!! Pearl clutching. What's next? moguls!!!!

Hey, anyone can tell me what's that uwrjaine or uqrayne (who fukn knows) I keep hearing about

 

[supersweetlover]

Is the OP the porno actor Austin Wolf? The physical measures seem to match, and based on what I’ve seen of Austin’s videos, he’s exclusively top and seems to always have monotone uninspiring sex, which also match what the OP says about himself! 

[+ azdr0710]

the OP (a "conventionally gay hot gay", you know) is now looking for NYC masseuses who might be able to do HE/HJ services......

just sayin'!