KaiJohansson in NYC - name change from KaiJohnson

[omgazn]

I got ask for a pic without evening talking to him

[DWnyc]

13 hours ago, omgazn said:

I got ask for a pic without evening talking to him

He’s the same on grindr and sniffies if you come within a ~1000 ft radius of him. Have lost track of how many times he’s reached out to me unprompted. Have blocked him more than once but he resurfaces pretty quickly. 

[ChasingGirth]

On 7/20/2023 at 6:15 PM, Kman said:

I’ve tried to meet up with Kai for awhile and I was finally able to when I was NYC a few weeks ago. Communication was a bit abrupt but didn’t detect any attitude. He was super patient and friendly.  
 

I suspected that he had something going on just based on our in-person interactions like very little eye contact, difficulty making conversation and did not seem to understand sarcasm. You could chalk it up to nervousness but it seemed more glaring than simple nervousness.  

When we were done with our session he divulged some information that tied that all together that I won’t share publicly because that’s his business and I hope I didn’t share too much info myself
 

 

I have heard the same from other members on here and it was sometimes last year. So it might be standard for him to be distant and cold.

If an escort is not in the right headspace to provide an enjoyable encounter he shouldn’t meet anyone.

[+ Kman]

10 hours ago, ChasingGirth said:

I have heard the same from other members on here and it was sometimes last year. So it might be standard for him to be distant and cold.

If an escort is not in the right headspace to provide an enjoyable encounter he shouldn’t meet anyone.

It’ll be the standard for him because he would not be aware that he is even acting like that…same with the abrupt texts as well as the aggressive he tries to bring in business.  I am not sure how much could change even if he was made aware of his actions.  
 

On the other hand when I was with him in person he wasn’t aggressive in any way and it was an overall positive experience.  The conversation was a little awkward and then after learning more about him all his behavior made sense including the communication via text and on RM messenger prior to meeting. He’s not trying to be rude or aggressive or, however you want to describe it, it’s how he’s wired.

 

Edited July 22, 2023 by Kman
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[Thelatin]

Any current info?  I see he will be in my area.  I’m ok with straightforward if they are at least punctual.  Late - I can’t stand. 

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/22/2023 at 11:51 AM, Kman said:

after learning more about him all his behavior made sense including the communication via text

So in other words... he's on the spectrum.

[Guest]

I've never met him - but he does state this in his profile which could explain some things: "PSAs - neurodivergent here, so I can be a little quirky/direct at times."

[Bjjx]

I meet him once it was awkward,it wasn’t uncomfortable or weird I think the chemistry wasn’t there he contacted me through the RM messenger like twice then the third time we meet as what I described it was just awkward he didn’t feel me and me too,he contacted me twice,first I told him somebody near me and the last time I just didn’t answer the message board in RM.

[DWnyc]

So I got experienced more outreach from him on an online dating site; realized it was him after some back and forth when he sent his pic, unprompted, and then requested mine in return, getting testy when I didn’t respond. 

His RM profile now seems to address a couple of the issues in discussions on this forum as @GCMan states 

(not linking to his profile again as it’s above) 

and also 

not on grindr or scruff, someone’s using my photos. also if you’re reading this, i’m probably going to reach out and say hello

Now I’d be prepared to accept it’s someone else using his photos since I’m seeing that increasingly (not just re providers)  but the location matches past comms and after I stopped responding he sent a link to the RM profile. So if it’s a fake account he’s marketing his doppelgänger well. 

Re the mental medical issue he references that may influence behavior I’d be sympathetic in most situations, particularly if given advance warning, but I’d likely consider what that may mean for a provider experience before committing or allowing a clean slate, since I’ve heard anecdotally (outside of discussions on here) enough about his interaction with others that I wouldn’t want to experience on my dime. 

[Guest]

I’ve had the same experience with him reaching out to me on RM messenger, but he was not intrusive about it; in fact I’d say he’s been very respectful. Like with others here, he did ask for stats and pics, but I simply referred him to my profile. He did not push me for more info. I’m not on any of the hookup apps, so can’t speak to that.

Agree that if his self-disclosed issues would be a turnoff, would be best to pass. I don’t know whether they would be for me, but not sure I want to spend the money to find out.

[+ Coolwave35]

I like that he messaged me on Rentmen. Shows he’s hungry and ambitious. I like his forwardness.  I won’t meet because of other users’ actual experience but I appreciate the hustle. 

[Guest]

He messaged me on RM too after I viewed his profile - I did't mind either and he was not intrusive at all. I told him I'd be in NYC in April and would reach out then. He has not bugged me since.

[Enronnja]

He did reach out to me last year when I was planning my trip to NYC. Shared my pic and he said I should reach out when I get there. He use to be in Oregon I believe, but was only advertising as masseur. He’s actually good looking but the vibe just wasn’t there. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

On 1/2/2024 at 10:37 PM, GCMan said:

I've never met him - but he does state this in his profile which could explain some things: "PSAs - neurodivergent here, so I can be a little quirky/direct at times."

Having met him the once, this makes sense to me. He didn't read social cues particularly well. BUT, there are a lot of millenials and Gen Zers who self-diagnose as ND, in part - I think - because of poor socialization by their parents.