Meeting and then marrying an escort?

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Bargara Leatherboy said:

Yes sad but true.  I just had a discussion on FB about the reason not to eat at Chik Fil A - apparently a good chicken sandwich outweighs good self image or concern about what the profits are being used for .

You have to love yourself before anyone else can benefit from your love 

 

[LookingAround]

9 hours ago, jessmapex said:

How can a homosexual be homophobic? It's my first hand experience as a proud homosexual. I wanted to say it as a word of caution to people spending $$$ in search of love in unlikely places in response to the OP. Gosh queens are so judgemental these days! 🙄

Lol. The same way a black person can be racist.  There are a ton of homophobic gay people. The fact you ask the questions shows your blind spot. 

[+ ThroatCummer]

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 

We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:

www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)

As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 

I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎

He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 

He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 

I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

Edited August 13, 2023 by ThroatCummer

[KeepItReal]

9 minutes ago, ThroatCummer said:

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 

We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:

www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)

As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 

I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎

Congratulations on being lucky in love. 

[Guest]

11 hours ago, LookingAround said:

Lol. The same way a black person can be racist.  There are a ton of homophobic gay people. The fact you ask the questions shows your blind spot. 

Jesus F. Christ. I guess that poster has never heard of Milo Yiannopoulos or Roy Cohn, some of the most fucked up, homophobic men who've ever existed. 

Edited August 13, 2023 by Unicorn

[+ purplekow]

Congratulations on the upcoming nuptials. It took me eight years of living with my wife to marry and I could not imagine marrying any more quickly than that, even though I told her we could marry any time she was ready after dating for only two months.  So I guess, I understand the desire to consider marriage early but for me, I did not actually continue until years had passed.  I hope you and you soon to be husband and your anticipated children have a great life together.  Please continue to post here, we have not had a great family drama poster since Basketballer faded from view.  

[+ tassojunior]

it's complicated

[+ nycman]

8 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding.

What???

I though we were invited?

I already RSVP’d and bought my outfit for the big day.

WTF man?…..grin.

PS He’s gorgeous and it sounds like he’s incredible. Congratulations!

[BSR]

9 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 

We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:

www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)

As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 

I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎

He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 

He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 

I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

¡Enhorabuena!  Your wedding website is lovely.  Never thought I'd want to crash a total stranger's wedding, LOL.  From "érase una vez" -> a Rentmen twist -> "fueron felices y comieron perdices," your story is a 21st century gay fairytale.

[JourneysEnd]

10 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 

We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:

www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)

As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 

I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎

He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 

He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 

I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

Congratulations 

[JourneysEnd]

6 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Jesus F. Christ. I guess that poster has never heard of Milo Yiannopoulos or Roy Cohn, some of the most fucked up, homophobic men who've ever existed. 

Try Bad Gays by Ben Miller and Huw Lemmie (I think I'm spelling that right) for interesting historical examples, thoroughly researched by a historian. Either the book or the podcast is great.

[shadowcatzxxx]

Reposting this after deleting it from the thread above, because I foolishly included a detail that could cause problems for this one-in -a-million man.

Very very personally interesting thread here.

So I'm not the only one who finds himself in an unexpected situation with a particularly handsome, hot, and passionate escort (Brazilian).

For background, I was in a 30+ year marriage with a wonderful man (WASP) ... who died three years ago. I'm now in my early 70's. In good shape for my age, accomplished, semi-retired, with plenty of disposable income. Considered reasonably good-looking for my age (in the right light). Both love- and sex-starved. Since my husband's death, a pandemic sugar-baby (30's; Colombian), one of the most extraordinarily handsome men who has ever walked the earth, who left me for a woman, and with whom I am now platonic friends. Then an almost fairy-tale (non-escort) romance with a brilliant, successful, charismatic man (late 40's; Spaniard) who swept me off my feet for a year and a half ... and then kicked me to the curb when he took up with a younger, handsome hunk.

I have been hiring this high-end escort now for about two months, usually once a week or so. Would be hiring him more often if he wasn't quite so pricey. The sex is absolutely off the charts ... combining intense physical pleasure with a beyond-strictly-physical connection that leaves  both little head and big head spinning. He is the most amazing top I've ever had sex with. He is a consummate professional who is , as a former poster here said, very good at compartmentalizing and  acting like he has feelings that he may or may not actually have.

I am deep into the infatuation stage. Any time I get a text from him, my cock starts swelling spontaneously ... even though, for prolonged sex, I have needed Viagra for years. That has literally never happened before. Both of us have been tossing around the term "love" for a couple of weeks.

It was a glorious pseudo-romance while it lasted.

 

 

Edited August 18, 2023 by shadowcatzxxx

[+ ThroatCummer]

6 hours ago, shadowcatzxxx said:

Reposting this after deleting it from the thread above, because I foolishly included a detail that could cause problems for this one-in -a-million man.

 

The motto of my wedding is "Vivir en el Momento!" (Live in the moment!) 

Just keep doing that. Our time on this rock is finite. Use your money to bring you joy -- sexually and emotionally. Then leave it to whomever is deserving, even if that is an escort. Always be genuine and respectful in everything you do and you will live out your remaining years with incredible sex and friends and comfort. 

You're lucky.