Bottom clients….. why do some of y’all like to obvious bottoms?

[IamAdamRose]

Here’s my profile just incase some are wondering what i look https://rent.men/AdamRoseXo

Just i always wondered why some clients book me to top them, its always crossed my mind when everything about me screams bottom & some people book me to top 😂😂😂 is it some kind of kind or fetish?

[+ nycman]

1 hour ago, IamAdamRose said:

when everything about me screams bottom

…except for your ad….which lists you as "versatile / bottom".

[IamAdamRose]

32 minutes ago, nycman said:

…except for your ad….which lists you as "versatile / bottom".

I know that but…. Look at me why would someone want ME TO TOP 😂…. It just doesn’t make sense lol.

[IamAdamRose]

I ment to put “book obvious bottoms” btw

[jeezifonly]

Maybe they find you so irresistible they hope any disclaimers in the profile are flexible - being topped by a softer type is a thing.
If you’re finding it a recurring prevention to booking once contact is initiated, or that you have repeatedly disappointed clients, update your profile indicating you bottom only.  

[Wolfer]

6 hours ago, IamAdamRose said:

I know that but…. Look at me why would someone want ME TO TOP 😂…. It just doesn’t make sense lol.

Then change it to say bottom and leave off the versatile. Plenty of escorts I know will put top/versatile because they are actually completely versatile but top attracts more clients. You've answered your own question, clients see versatile in your profile so they enquire. 

It is wasted time for all parties involved when the descriptors on the profile do not match the actual service offered. I really suggest changing it. 

Edited March 2, 2023 by Wolfer

[wsc]

2 hours ago, Wolfer said:

Then change it to say bottom and leave off the versatile. Plenty of escorts I know will put top/versatile because they are actually completely versatile but top attracts more clients. You've answered your own question, clients see versatile in your profile so they enquire. 

It is wasted time for all parties involved when the descriptors on the profile do not match the actual service offered. I really suggest changing it. 

If you're having trouble with your profile, then so are others. If a client can't discern what you're offering, they'll make assumptions, or seek clarity elsewhere. It's your profile; manage it!

[wayout]

When I see versatile/bottom and I am attracted to the pics and other info on the profile, I will reach out to see if they are willing to top as I interpret that description as being that the escort is very much versatile but has a preference for bottoming.  How strong that preference is different for different escorts so I feel it is fine to ask when I see that.  I assume at the start that in some situations and/or at some times they are willing to top.

And yes there are some clients who enjoy having someone who is clearly mostly a bottom be a top.  Call it what you will, like a fetish, but it does exist.

As others have said, if you can't describe yourself as truly being versatile to some extent then change your ad and avoid the whole discussion.

Edited March 2, 2023 by wayout

[IamAdamRose]

52 minutes ago, wayout said:

When I see versatile/bottom and I am attracted to the pics and other info on the profile, I will reach out to see if they are willing to top as I interpret that description as being that the escort is very much versatile but has a preference for bottoming.  How strong that preference is different for different escorts so I feel it is fine to ask when I see that.  I assume at the start that in some situations and/or at some times they are willing to top.

And yes there are some clients who enjoy having someone who is clearly mostly a bottom be a top.  Call it what you will, like a fetish, but it does exist.

As others have said, if you can't describe yourself as truly being versatile to some extent then change your ad and avoid the whole discussion.

Interesting answer

[+ keroscenefire]

In my experience in talking to escorts, the vast majority of clients want to bottom when they hire. One of my regulars actually is more of a bottom and has vers/bottom as his description on RM. Even so he told me that 70% of his clients want him to top.

To me it makes sense. I am not sure how is in other cities, but Denver has way more bottoms than tops. If I want to top, it's quite easy for me to find someone on the apps. But I very seldomly can find a good top on the apps.

That's when I find a great true vers escort....that's the best!

[IamAdamRose]

1 hour ago, keroscenefire said:

In my experience in talking to escorts, the vast majority of clients want to bottom when they hire. One of my regulars actually is more of a bottom and has vers/bottom as his description on RM. Even so he told me that 70% of his clients want him to top.

To me it makes sense. I am not sure how is in other cities, but Denver has way more bottoms than tops. If I want to top, it's quite easy for me to find someone on the apps. But I very seldomly can find a good top on the apps.

That's when I find a great true vers escort....that's the best!

I think its platforms have alot of to do with it, I’m a femme/nonbinary provider so im also on some Trans escort sites as well & those clients are mainly str8 men who book me to bottom…. RM clients are the ones who book me to top but i guess its because those clientele are mainly gay

[DWnyc]

I would turn the question around.

As a provider if it’s clear from the appointment setting phase (as it often is) that someone is interested in something that isn’t a natural fit for you, would you say “sorry, not a match”? 

 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I'm a bottom, and without disrespect, I wouldn't even linger on your profile. I look for tops or tops/vers. If a provider even has a lot of ass shots or hole pics, it puts him lower on my list. 

This has nothing to do with masculinity versus femininity. I like tops of all kinds, but I want to know what I'm getting if I'm hiring. 

[Xavitv]

I think you’re assuming that femme/non binary = bottom. It’s not always the case. 

[IamAdamRose]

37 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm a bottom, and without disrespect, I wouldn't even linger on your profile. I look for tops or tops/vers. If a provider even has a lot of ass shots or hole pics, it puts him lower on my list. 

This has nothing to do with masculinity versus femininity. I like tops of all kinds, but I want to know what I'm getting if I'm hiring. 

No I completely understand you, i dont know why someone would want an obvious typical gay bottom to top them lol, me personally im 1000% bottom in my personal life, im bi & i only like to penetrate actual woman or trans woman….. i’ll only top a man if im being paid for it. But like i said, it blows my mind when clients ask me top them

[+ nycman]

56 minutes ago, Xavitv said:

I think you’re assuming that femme/non binary = bottom. It’s not always the case. 

But it’s not a bad bet in Vegas either……

[IamAdamRose]

1 hour ago, Xavitv said:

I think you’re assuming that femme/non binary = bottom. It’s not always the case. 

Well its the case with me 😂

[kevininsa]

Hey Adam,

I'm guessing here, but could it be your size?  There's not a lot of tops that are smaller than 7" in SA.  Some guys might want to btm but can't handle the larger size.  Maybe they're just attracted to your look.  The size was the first thing that came to my mind though.  My only other suggestion would be to ask.  Wait till you're wrapping up the session and just say, "out of curiosity, why did you choose me?"  It's a perfectly valid provider question.   🙃

[IamAdamRose]

46 minutes ago, kevininsa said:

Hey Adam,

I'm guessing here, but could it be your size?  There's not a lot of tops that are smaller than 7" in SA.  Some guys might want to btm but can't handle the larger size.  Maybe they're just attracted to your look.  The size was the first thing that came to my mind though.  My only other suggestion would be to ask.  Wait till you're wrapping up the session and just say, "out of curiosity, why did you choose me?"  It's a perfectly valid provider question.   🙃

That makes sense, good analogy

[+ The Big Guy]

Your good looking 

[BtmBearDad]

I’m with @KensingtonHomo - in this hobby, I like to be sure I want to be sure I’m getting what I want ie; a top. As such, other than the link here, your profile wouldn’t be one I’d look at, or that would show up in my searches. 

As to why some gents may hire you to top them when your ad gives off serious bottom energy, I think what others have said are some valid reasons. There are also some gents out there who want a more femme guy as their top because it lets them still be “the man” so to speak - even tho he is bottoming. 

As the saying goes, there is a lid for every pot! 😉

 

BBD 

[Marc in Calif]

On 3/2/2023 at 12:41 PM, IamAdamRose said:

Well its the case with me 😂

So why don't you want to change your profile to make it crystal clear that you don't want to top other men?

[IamAdamRose]

1 hour ago, The Big Guy said:

Your good looking 

Thanks hunty 😌

[IamAdamRose]

1 hour ago, BtmBearDad said:

I’m with @KensingtonHomo - in this hobby, I like to be sure I want to be sure I’m getting what I want ie; a top. As such, other than the link here, your profile wouldn’t be one I’d look at, or that would show up in my searches. 

As to why some gents may hire you to top them when your ad gives off serious bottom energy, I think what others have said are some valid reasons. There are also some gents out there who want a more femme guy as their top because it lets them still be “the man” so to speak - even tho he is bottoming. 

As the saying goes, there is a lid for every pot! 😉

 

BBD 

Its pretty funny weird & funny at the same time lol

[IamAdamRose]

1 hour ago, Marc in Calif said:

So why don't you want to change your profile to make it crystal clear that you don't want to top other men?

I’m not against of course if im getting paid for it lol… just i find it bizarre why they they ask me of all the providers in my city