What American city do you think has the hottest guys?

[socurious]

I know this question can be subjective but in my experience is either Los Angeles or New York leaning towards the former by a considerable margin. I say leaning towards LA because that city seems to have less extremes while New York is more diverse. LA guys just have the reputation of being quite superficial.

 

 

[socurious]

Also Miami. But this is from what I've heard though because I've never been there. But it looks like every guy there has a beach body. Miami guys can also be quite picky. Again, more than one person has told me this.

[+ nycman]

4 hours ago, socurious said:

Miami guys can also be quite picky

Miami: a city of 10s looking for 12s.

[Kevin Slater]

Depends where I am at the time. 

Kevin Slater

[coriolis888]

4 hours ago, socurious said:

I know this question can be subjective but in my experience is either Los Angeles or New York leaning towards the former by a considerable margin. I say leaning towards LA because that city seems to have less extremes while New York is more diverse. LA guys just have the reputation of being quite superficial.

 

 

Beauty is in the eye of he beholder!   No way around that.

Edited February 26, 2023 by coriolis888

[arnie]

Looking for 10s is futile because unless you are a 12, they won't give you the time of day.  Every town has its place where the hot guys hang out and then there are the places for the rest of us.  

[MscleLovr]

I agree @socurious For me, the best city for meeting hot guys is LA.

NYC is a close second as many hot guys from elsewhere travel to the city. I’ve also met a few Miami muscleboys visiting LA. 

1 hour ago, arnie said:

Looking for 10s is futile because unless you are a 12

I understand the sentiment, but I found many become amenable if you open a big, thick wallet.

[jtwalker]

Miami or New York

[+ The Big Guy]

I love the look of the guys in smaller towns with a large university.  For example, I like the preppie look of the guys in Oxford Mississippi.  

[+ poolboy48220]

I picked up a friend at the airport, returning to Detroit from South Beach. One of the first things he said was "I'm back in the land of ugly people".

[+ Pensant]

San Diego and south OC. Phoenix isn’t bad. Nashville has a lot of cute boys. I and others have remarked on how unattractive people are in Seattle; however, the quality improves considerably as you move north towards the Canadian border.

[EZEtoGRU]

I would say San Diego.  It seems nearly everyone is in great shape.  Another plus is all the military guys that are there.

[MscleLovr]

1 hour ago, EZEtoGRU said:

I would say San Diego.  It seems nearly everyone is in great shape.  Another plus is all the military guys that are there.

That was certainly the case 40 years ago. That’s when I spent a lot of time there and dated various attractive men (including my first Marine).

Is it still the same @EZEtoGRU? Friends have reported to me that it’s changed considerably (fewer guys for hire, unreliable professionals, flaky amateurs etc)

[Rudynate]

13 hours ago, socurious said:

I know this question can be subjective but in my experience is either Los Angeles or New York leaning towards the former by a considerable margin. I say leaning towards LA because that city seems to have less extremes while New York is more diverse. LA guys just have the reputation of being quite superficial.

 

 

Ditto.  LA is just crawling with amazing guys. I haven’t spent much time in New York, but if the profiles on RM are any indication …

[Rudynate]

4 hours ago, The Big Guy said:

I love the look of the guys in smaller towns with a large university.  For example, I like the preppie look of the guys in Oxford Mississippi.  

True, southern guys have a special something.

[+ tassojunior]

+1 Southern guys. #1 for me was always Birmingham with it's muscle boys with angel faces playing pool 24/7 at the Quest and looking for dates. I hear Al's, also famous for trade, is re-opened in southside. The Patio in Columbus Georgia is probably closed. Was full of Ft. Benning trade as is around many southern military bases.

btw- the oldest existing gay bar in the US is Lafiete in Exile in New Orleans which started serving liquor in 1933 officially. Tito's in Birmingham was also a gay speakeasy throughout prohibition when B'ham was the south's largest city with many Italian immigrants. Sadly it closed. 

Financial and business urban centers have the same guys or look-alike clones. Often because the same guys move between them. I've lived in DC most of my life and run into guys from bars here in bars in NY and LA and London. Either traveling or moved for work between offices. A few locals filter into these financial centers but mostly it's the same mobile social class. 

 

Edited February 26, 2023 by tassojunior

[Enronnja]

I am in the PNW and I have to admit, there are a lot of very handsome guys here. They are not on the apps though, but why would you even need to do. The weather here seems agree very well with their skin.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, tassojunior said:

...btw- the oldest existing gay bar in the US is Lafiete in Exile in New Orleans which started serving liquor in 1933 officially....

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Horse_Inn_(Oakland,_California)

"The White Horse Inn is a gay bar located at 6551 Telegraph Avenue in Oakland's Bushrod Park neighborhood. It officially opened in 1933 but is rumored to have operated as a gay speakeasy since before the end of Prohibition.[1][2] It is said to be the oldest continuously operating gay bar in the United States, along with Cafe Lafitte in New Orleans, Louisiana which has also operated since 1933.[3] The White Horse is situated geographically near the Oakland-Berkeley border and in close proximity to the University of California, Berkeley campus."

[Guest]

Well, I'm always trolling the internet for new J/O material. The city where I see handsome men call home most often is LA, presumably because they're aspiring model/actors. Often, they're here in LA for a period of time. then end up elsewhere, when they realize it takes more than good looks to be a star, and the cost of living here catches up to them. And, boy, is this the place where a lot of men have beauty-enhancing procedures done. And there are quite a number of kept men here, as well. This is the entertainment capital for the beautiful, after all. Not the main reason, but one of the reasons I moved down here. Look at all of those photos of hunks in the gallery taken in LA, often in Runyon Canyon, where I walk my bitch every day...

And, of course, there are some real movie stars and models who live here. Northern entrance, right by my house:

 

 

[+ tassojunior]

14 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Horse_Inn_(Oakland,_California)

"The White Horse Inn is a gay bar located at 6551 Telegraph Avenue in Oakland's Bushrod Park neighborhood. It officially opened in 1933 but is rumored to have operated as a gay speakeasy since before the end of Prohibition.[1][2] It is said to be the oldest continuously operating gay bar in the United States, along with Cafe Lafitte in New Orleans, Louisiana which has also operated since 1933.[3] The White Horse is situated geographically near the Oakland-Berkeley border and in close proximity to the University of California, Berkeley campus."

I wish there were a history of gay speakeasys in America.  Of course there probably were gay bars before prohibition too. Nice at least a couple are still open.

[+ nycman]

8 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

I picked up a friend at the airport, returning to Detroit from South Beach. One of the first things he said was "I'm back in the land of ugly people".

[caramelsub]

I live in the south, in a major metropolitan city. I actually don’t find the southern fratty preppy guys to be all that attractive. Southern girls are very pretty and demure, but the guys, not to my taste. But then again I prefer the exotic type guys with dark features. Like the ones you’d find in northern new jersey or nyc, or miami.

[+ DERRIK]

4 hours ago, tassojunior said:

+1 Southern guys. #1 for me was always Birmingham with it's muscle boys with angel faces playing pool 24/7 at the Quest and looking for dates. I hear Al's, also famous for trade, is re-opened in southside. The Patio in Columbus Georgia is probably closed. Was full of Ft. Benning trade as is around many southern military bases.

btw- the oldest existing gay bar in the US is Lafiete in Exile in New Orleans which started serving liquor in 1933 officially. Tito's in Birmingham was also a gay speakeasy throughout prohibition when B'ham was the south's largest city with many Italian immigrants. Sadly it closed. 

Financial and business urban centers have the same guys or look-alike clones. Often because the same guys move between them. I've lived in DC most of my life and run into guys from bars here in bars in NY and LA and London. Either traveling or moved for work between offices. A few locals filter into these financial centers but mostly it's the same mobile social class. 

 

 

[Guest]

25 minutes ago, caramelsub said:

...I prefer the exotic type guys with dark features....

Edited February 26, 2023 by Unicorn

[+ DERRIK]

It’s been ten years since I’ve been to Birmingham 

I remember the Quest was open 24 x7

during none booze hours the stuck to soft drinks 

three years in a row I planned the trip to coincide with a gay baseball tournament in bham