Cost of hiring

[FewBricksShy]

What’s up with Floridians anymore?!

[NJF]

1 hour ago, FewBricksShy said:

What’s up with Floridians anymore?!

More than your regular shares of scammers, catfishers, and ghosters.

[jeezifonly]

On 6/19/2022 at 9:15 AM, BonVivant said:

No. The separate room is a huge red flag. This means he is not “yours” for the time engaged. You are just the bank for his trip. He will then see you when he wants; will give you your one hour of play time; and then he’ll trick or trade in his separate room. You’ll be miserable. 
 

Walk away. Not worth it. 

Stipulation: Yes to his own room, BUT you get your percentage of each fee he collects while in your location, up to the cost of his airfare and his room. It’s just business. 

[NJF]

3 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

Stipulation: Yes to his own room, BUT you get your percentage of each fee he collects while in your location, up to the cost of his airfare and his room. It’s just business. 

That will make you a pimp, or a human trafficker.

[+ nycman]

3 hours ago, NJF said:

That will make you a pimp, or a human trafficker.

Or more likely…..someone without a sense of humor, who doesn’t get that it was a joke. 

[NJF]

31 minutes ago, nycman said:

Or more likely…..someone without a sense of humor, who doesn’t get that it was a joke. 

Or someone has only half of a sense of humor 😂 

[MscleLovr]

Or (given @jeezifonly’s humorous suggestion) 15-20% of a sense of humor?

[FewBricksShy]

For the first joke it’s 100%. But I’ll offer a break for subsequent jokes at 80%. For an extended discourse with jokes I can do 50%. 

[jeezifonly]

22 hours ago, NJF said:

That will make you a pimp, or a human trafficker.

Actually it wouldn’t make me anything, because I have no history of (nor interest in) overnights/weekends/travel. They host, 2 hr max or I pass…

[+ friendofsheila]

I remember there are some providers who ask for whatever they can, because they can.  He might not be concerned if any of his asks makes you say no to the whole thing.  So it might not be the times; there have always been people liek this.  

[+ friendofsheila]

I forgot to add that you've been really generous with him. 

Maybe his reviews say he's worth it.  Or maybe you'll find out and tell us if he is, in a review.

[FewBricksShy]

4 minutes ago, friendofsheila said:

I remember there are some providers who ask for whatever they can, because they can.  He might not be concerned if any of his asks makes you say no to the whole thing.  So it might not be the times; there have always been people liek this.  

I can’t imagine anyone willing to pay for time that’s not spent together. That seems ludicrous to me.

[FewBricksShy]

I have been reflecting more on this…

When I hire, I hire for multiple days. I usually bring guys in as well. I have had guys go with me on vacation as well. I don’t like the one-hour sessions of fuck and go. That’s me. I accept that this is also not a “cheap” hobby. But, venting here, there seems some level of disconnect from reality with some providers. The cost of hiring is not limited to the escort’s fee:

• Fee  (multiple thousands)

• Transportation (hundreds, potentially thousands)

• Food

• Entertainment

• Lodging if it’s not my house

And this is for multiple days. The guy gets a trip out of, meals provided. Often in restaurants. Entertainment covered. And he gets to fuck, which if they’re to be taken at their word, they enjoy doing. I mean…The escorts are making out on this. I’ve had guys tell me they can’t do a weekend for the amount I’m willing to pay  for their fee . And that’s not saying anything about their transportation or food or lodging or entertainment. All covered. The fee is on top of everything else they’re getting for free during the time we’re together. And then I’m supposed to understand how difficult this work is? What, exactly, is so bad about it? At some point it’s just entitlement.

Imagine if you will if the escort said, “I’ll cover the room” or “I’ll pay for dinner.” That’ll be a cold day in hell! 
 

[MscleLovr]

4 hours ago, FewBricksShy said:

Imagine if you will if the escort said, “I’ll cover the room” or “I’ll pay for dinner.” That’ll be a cold day in hell! 

I understand your point of view @FewBricksShy but I don’t entirely agree.
 

I feel it depends very much on the person you hire as your vacation companion. I always checked how compatible we were with a couple of overnight dates before any trip. What is important to me in the initial discussion is whether

• the man is a nice guy I can spend days with
• does he truly wish to visit the place I’ve chosen? 
• It’s still work for the escort but if he is keen to visit Europe or Africa or Australia, he’ll be more flexible on the arrangements. And if he enjoys the vacation, he’ll perform better as my companion.

I would always ask the guy first to tell me what fee he required for the trip. Over the years, I was often surprised by how reasonable the fees were. My instinct was that if a guy demands an excessive fee, he’s not interested and won’t make a good companion.  
 

And Yes, on several trips, I’ve had guys tell me “I want to pay for dinner tonight” 😃

[FewBricksShy]

I do believe that the fee was especially reasonable for the vacations that I took escorts on. But it is a factor in the cost. I definitely enjoyed my company beyond the sex. And some of my regulars would make poor travel companions. 

 I wish my work paid everything (including the sex!) for a trip to, say, Australia. I’d work while I’m there too if that were included. I mean this not so snarkily either! In the age of remote work, we don’t need to be in the office. How is my working remotely, everything covered, any different than an escort doing OF with a few fully covered trips by clients? Aside from a few incidental differences, there really isn’t any. Other than it’s not my reality!

[Luv2play]

On 7/2/2022 at 7:22 PM, FewBricksShy said:

I can’t imagine anyone willing to pay for time that’s not spent together. That seems ludicrous to me.

Most divorced men do.

[FewBricksShy]

9 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

Most divorced men do.

A lot to unpack there. Not all good! 

[Luv2play]

I've not had personal experience as a single man but have observed over many decades in my 75 years on earth that many men willingly pony up often half their fortune to unload a wife so they can pursue their dreams with a much younger and appealing woman for the years they have left.

It's happened in my own family and you read about it in the press when the sums involved are in the $millions or $billions. So what's to unpack. Just call me a realist.

[FewBricksShy]

14 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I've not had personal experience as a single man but have observed over many decades in my 75 years on earth that many men willingly pony up often half their fortune to unload a wife so they can pursue their dreams with a much younger and appealing woman for the years they have left.

It's happened in my own family and you read about it in the press when the sums involved are in the $millions or $billions. So what's to unpack. Just call me a realist.

Millions and billions is simply not my world. And it’s not the world of most divorced folks either. I was actually thinking you meant something a lot different than this.