Size isn't everything?

[Rick M]

Except maybe it's half the equation? For me, size in terms of muscles plays a large part in a guy's appeal, and size of his male member can often take up the other 50%. Yet let's not ignore technique! The most erotic, stimulating plowing I ever received was from a man with an average body and an average dingus to match, but he hit the right spot, whereas the bodybuilder with the enormity but no talent made me long for the session to be over.

[+ The Big Guy]

I am mostly a top but still want the provider to have a large dick to suck on.  On muscle mass, I prefer a twink/twunk body type so that does not matter as much.  Having said that I still understand and appreciate the amount of hard work put in at the gym by a muscular man.  

[jeezifonly]

Aesthetic beauty (including scale and shape of the nethers) is the bait, but motivation, sensitivity and technique work better once you got him in the dark, don’t they? 

[Rick M]

8 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

Aesthetic beauty (including scale and shape of the nethers) is the bait, but motivation, sensitivity and technique work better once you got him in the dark, don’t they? 

It's rarely if ever dark or even dim when I visit a provider's hotel room. Lights turned up bright, TV showing something distracting (not necessarily porn)... I guess they like to see what they are doing, but as I am a sensitive, retiring type, it can put me on edge.

[+ Pensant]

1 hour ago, Rick M said:

Lights turned up bright, TV showing something distracting (not necessarily porn)... I guess they like to see what they are doing, but as I am a sensitive, retiring type, it can put me on edge.

I can’t stand bright lights. All switches in my houses have dimmers. For sessions, low light and candles. Klieg lighting destroys the ambiance for me.

[Rick M]

There was one occasion when I visited a provider in DC. He had recently moved into a small 1-bedroom unit, but he was taking pains to deck it out with a sound system, large video screens, and in the bedroom--computer-controlled mood lighting, keyed to the music. THAT was a dim environment, but not all that relaxing to me, for like a cat I became fascinated by the color changes and almost forgot about the sex!

Oops, off-topic...

[Luv2play]

11 hours ago, Pensant said:

I can’t stand bright lights. All switches in my houses have dimmers. For sessions, low light and candles. Klieg lighting destroys the ambiance for me.

I agree in that I much prefer the light set low when in bed with a provider. Sex in broad daylight I find distracting. OK but not my favourite scene. 
 

But I don’t like absolute darkness either. I want to enjoy the visuals along with the sense of touch and smell etc. That is all the senses engaged.

[+ Pensant]

Just enormously enjoyed the candlelit ambiance with a regular provider. Now the afterglow!

[KrisParr]

I saw a provider one time who’d just moved into a new apartment. The only thing in the bedroom was a mattress on the floor. However, it did have nice sheets and a cover. But, there were no curtains or blinds, shutters, etc. At least he was on a top floor and there wasn’t any view where we could be seen. We met in the late afternoon with the sun blazing through the windows. He tried to hang up some towels and things but it just didn’t work. The good part, though, is that the romp was a lot of fun as he was extremely good looking and a helluva ride. 

[Rudynate]

I like afternoon sex most - daylight is fine with me.

[liubit]

I like sex in daylight too. My favorite times are morning -that’s when I am at my horniness peak- and afternoon.

Of course, I don’t refuse evening or night sex. In fact, I never refuse sex at any time. 

[HoseMaster]

On 1/26/2022 at 5:41 AM, Pensant said:

I can’t stand bright lights. All switches in my houses have dimmers. For sessions, low light and candles. Klieg lighting destroys the ambiance for me.

It’s been a long time time since I’ve heard the term “Klieg lighting”.  Having a stage lighting background, I thought, “Maybe he used to be in porn?”  Lol

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 hour ago, HoseMaster said:

It’s been a long time time since I’ve heard the term “Klieg lighting”.  Having a stage lighting background, I thought, “Maybe he used to be in porn?”  Lol

I got a little aroused when he said that too.  I've got a weird fascination with stage lighting design.

C'mon...  Say leko or fresnel to me.  Say it slowly into my ear.  

[HoseMaster]

55 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

I got a little aroused when he said that too.  I've got a weird fascination with stage lighting design.

C'mon...  Say leko or fresnel to me.  Say it slowly into my ear.  

I know those terms too!   Those were some fun days working in that field.