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Does a provider with a ton of OF/JFF content turn you off?


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Its weird.  I like seeing a provider with a few videos on RM; its like a demonstration of skills.  Recently I've had a 'crush' on a few guys and stumbled on to their OF pages some with some hardcore kink that isn't my kind of kink.

I know its a bit naive of me, but I guess I like a bit of mystery or the guys who lead 'double lives' - one kind of professional by day and a different by night.

Yes, I know... its like sleeping with a 'classic' porn star in many ways - but I've never been with a porn star.  For any guy in a video, watching them take two fists up the ass just kills it for me in my desire to have them top me.  Also watching guys openly participate in PnP sex is a huge turn off. 

I don't mean to be judgey here, just my personal preferences and curious how others feel about OF/JFF content in the context of a provider.

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I don't have an issue with a guy who has a lot of Fans content just as I didn't have an issue with a guy having done a lot of studio porn.  Since you mentioned specific things like fisting and PNP, though, I understand that hesitation.  Obviously you could hire someone who likes to be fisted and not do that with him, but I can understand how just having seen the guy do it might be somewhat of a boner killer for someone.  There's no right or wrong answer, but if seeing certain things on someone's Fans page turns you off then there are lots of other men available.  This is honestly what turns me off more, and I've only recently encountered it because I started using OF/JFF in a slightly different way: If a guy is visiting my area and has a Fans page that is reasonably priced, I will subscribe for a month to help me decide whether I'd want to meet him.  Out of the three times I've done this, two firmly changed my desire to hire them because they were providing so little content on Only Fans that I felt cheated.  I figure that if someone is going to ask $9.99 per month and then post just a couple of still photos and brief j/o videos then he probably doesn't care about providing a quality experience in person, either. 

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I have had two situations with guys who are self-styled porn "stars", by which I mean guys who believed they could quit their day jobs and earn a big income via OF and porn work.

The first problem was that they were just over exposed.... I got so tired of seeing them desperately trying to create "interesting" content that I quite frankly grew bored of their bodies and its various parts. Also, they became obsessed with the number of followers they had. And i do mean obsessed.

One turned out to be an unsatisfactory hire ("uhhh, sorry but I am not very clean down there") and the other got "hired' by a low end BB porn producer.

Both just turned out to be very, very boring.

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I do not watch it but I have hired some guys for more than an overnight and they needed time to add content to their page.  That was a bit of a turnoff, though one could look at it as someone taking a business call.  I do not object to extended time hires having private time to take care of their business but something about their taking that time to add X rated content is bothersome.  It did not ruin our time together but it was enough of a distraction for me to have me consider not hiring them again. I think it may be that it disrupts the fantasy aspect of our time together.  

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I’m of conflicted opinion. On on hand, a seasoned sex performer is likely more able to pull off a convincing BFE. On the other, they tend to over an overinflated sense of their time’s value. I also find myself also questioning the whole time if he’s genuinely enjoying his time with me or just acting. That’s why I appreciate my regulars. We have an established relationship. 

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Stardom, however scant, can distort human interactions with us peasants who have less in physical attributes (but higher credit limits.)

JFF, OF etc are advertising media. Sometimes personal time is for sale, sometimes just ongoing subscriptions for new content. No objection and sometimes amazement…

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