Escort offering you a drink at the start of a session

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

This whole thread, like most here, is multiple shades of gray.

If you know the guy, if you've seen him before, if you have a genuine rapport, if he's a known, solid provider, have a drink. 

Have two or three if he brought a decent bottle.

 

I've been known to bring a couple bottles of Groth to local overnights/weekends.

 

 

[BtmBearDad]

Whether in call or out call, I always meet the gent in a public setting first. Usually the hotel bar if I’m hosting, or a pub near his if he’s hosting. This goes for both first time hires, as well as established regulars. It makes it a bit less transactional to have a few drinks, and a chat before getting down to business. 

I can understand being cautious accepting drinks in their home or hotel - especially with a first time hire. It’s honestly never occurred to me tho. Any gent I engage with has come with recommendations from hobbyists on here, and/or that I know outside this forum. Whether I’ve just been lucky I can’t say. What I will say the one time I believe someone slipped something in my drink was at a well known gay bar in NYC. Nothing bad happened - beyond feeling all fogged for a day or two after - but can’t figure out why the bartender (that’s who we were convinced slipped something in our drinks) did it 🤷🏼‍♂️

Needless to say, I’ve not darkened their door since. 

Whether it’s a provider, a hook up, a guy chatting you up at the bar, etc. just be mindful gents and be careful! 
 

BBD

[+ Italiano]

On 9/4/2021 at 12:41 PM, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

This whole thread, like most here, is multiple shades of gray.

If you know the guy, if you've seen him before, if you have a genuine rapport, if he's a known, solid provider, have a drink. 

Have two or three if he brought a decent bottle.

 

I've been known to bring a couple bottles of Groth to local overnights/weekends.

 

 

Of course.

[+ Pensant]

On 9/4/2021 at 12:06 PM, BtmBearDad said:

Whether in call or out call, I always meet the gent in a public setting first. Usually the hotel bar if I’m hosting, or a pub near his if he’s hosting. This goes for both first time hires, as well as established regulars. It makes it a bit less transactional to have a few drinks, and a chat before getting down to business. 

I can understand being cautious accepting drinks in their home or hotel - especially with a first time hire. It’s honestly never occurred to me tho. Any gent I engage with has come with recommendations from hobbyists on here, and/or that I know outside this forum. Whether I’ve just been lucky I can’t say. What I will say the one time I believe someone slipped something in my drink was at a well known gay bar in NYC. Nothing bad happened - beyond feeling all fogged for a day or two after - but can’t figure out why the bartender (that’s who we were convinced slipped something in our drinks) did it 🤷🏼‍♂️

Needless to say, I’ve not darkened their door since. 

Whether it’s a provider, a hook up, a guy chatting you up at the bar, etc. just be mindful gents and be careful! 
 

BBD

In my experience, most providers will not meet beforehand. There are only a few fakes I wished I’d physically met and vetted before.

[Quincy_7]

Luka Magnotta offered a laced drink to a guy he'd met on craigslist and then proceeded to dismember the guy and feed the remains to his cat. I don't care if I've known an escort for 1 day or 5 years, I'm never accepting any food/drink from them.

[Fcfs]

It goes far beyond accepting a drink. Meeting people is extremely dangerous. Poison you with a drink is just one of many ways to kill you. They can just shoot you, or knife you, or strangle you, or burn you alive. We read about these horrible things in the news and see them in Netflix. Staying locked in in total isolation is the only sane thing to do.

Edited September 7, 2021 by Fcfs

[+ purplekow]

On 9/4/2021 at 12:41 PM, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

This whole thread, like most here, is multiple shades of gray.

If you know the guy, if you've seen him before, if you have a genuine rapport, if he's a known, solid provider, have a drink. 

Have two or three if he brought a decent bottle.

 

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I had a business meeting at my home when I was first opening my office.  The person who came to my home was the president of a medical supply house.  The first time he came to my home, I got us both a drink and soon afterwards felt very groggy and asked him to leave.  I was naive and perplexed.  The next time, the same thing happened.  I never had him to my home again.  Several years later, a member of his volunteer fire department squad was drugged, recognized it and was able to get out of the house.  Eventually charges were Brought and the president was convicted.  I supplied the drinks on our visit but did not keep a very close eye on mine and I think he just slipped me a Mickey.  

That being said, I still would take a drink from a closed bottle if I were thirsty, but mostly my thirst  usually is slaked in other ways.  

Edited September 7, 2021 by purplekow

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 9/3/2021 at 4:49 PM, marylander1940 said:

I don't know why I thought you were more of a beer drinker! 

I've heard of clients taking a bottle of red wine for an overnight but requesting a specific kind of flavored vodka sounds a little too much. 

 

Millennials have taken to cocktails, and less so to beer and wine, compared to previous generations

[marylander1940]

10 minutes ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

Millennials have taken to cocktails, and less so to beer and wine, compared to previous generations

are you millennial? 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

10 hours ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

Millennials have taken to cocktails, and less so to beer and wine, compared to previous generations

The wine business is still strong with the younger set, especially since many vineyards are bottling quality product that's not at all expensive. 

One example:  Rosé has been a mainstay for millennials.  It's continued to see a huge boost for the wine industry.

Craft beer has never been stronger.

Seltzers (alco-pop) are huge too. 

 

[+ sniper]

19 hours ago, Fcfs said:

It goes far beyond accepting a drink. Meeting people is extremely dangerous. Poison you with a drink is just one of many ways to kill you. They can just shoot you, or knife you, or strangle you, or burn you alive. We read about these horrible things in the news and see them in Netflix. Staying locked in in total isolation is the only sane thing to do.

For that matter, getting a massage involves literally turning your back on the masseur and he could pretty easily kill you were he so inclined...

[sjmuktop]

2 hours ago, sniper said:

For that matter, getting a massage involves literally turning your back on the masseur and he could pretty easily kill you were he so inclined...

I just had the gruesome image of the first murder from the movie Cruising (1980) come into my head.

[hornymm]

But it is important to remember

Most people are decent

These things do happen 

 But the vast majority of people don't even want to bother you

And an overwhelming majority of people don't want to poison you or kill you

 

Edited September 10, 2021 by hornymm
Grammar

[coriolis888]

On 9/6/2021 at 3:50 PM, Quincy_7 said:

Luka Magnotta offered a laced drink to a guy he'd met on craigslist and then proceeded to dismember the guy and feed the remains to his cat. I don't care if I've known an escort for 1 day or 5 years, I'm never accepting any food/drink from them.

Although a problem of accepting a drink from an escort is remote and uncommon, check out this article which recounts actual events when a client takes a liquid drink from a stranger:

https://kenyannews.co.ke/health/health-news/good-night-cinderella-what-it-is-composition-and-effects-on-the-body/

There was a well known poster to this forum who was a victim of Good Night Cinderalla.  When he woke up after the drug had worn off, he was without his money, his wallet and many personal items.  

Bottom line, 

Edited September 8, 2021 by coriolis888

[+ nycman]

Did no one ever teach you guys Gay Bar Safety 101?

Only drink long neck beers…so you can keep your thumb over the mouth at all times. 

Only drink long neck beers….that you watched the bartender open.

Never go home with someone…..unless the bartender says he’s ok. 

Tip the fuck out of your bartender…..he will protect you. 

If the bartender says "you need to go home"….you need to go home….alone. 

Don’t try to fuck the bartender…he’s busy trying to keep you alive.

[Quincy_7]

Another thing to keep in mind is offers of weed. I've been offered weed a number of times by escorts.

[likembbbig]

Til that "G" can be mixed with lube.

So no more accepting lube unless unopened sealed, follow the gay  trick 101 rules.

P.s. note to Italiano. The only thing that makes sense to me is that it was an accident. The place that warned me of lube, men r us, also mentions pouring out what u don't drink. He was probably buzzed and not paying attention, mediocre, etc. Imho

[+ Italiano]

On 10/3/2021 at 11:40 PM, likembbbig said:

Til that "G" can be mixed with lube.

So no more accepting lube unless unopened sealed, follow the gay  trick 101 rules.

P.s. note to Italiano. The only thing that makes sense to me is that it was an accident. The place that warned me of lube, men r us, also mentions pouring out what u don't drink. He was probably buzzed and not paying attention, mediocre, etc. Imho

In what sense an "accident" @likembbbig?... He poured something in my drink not knowing what he was doing?...🤔

[+ BritSD]

Never. Just gotta be safe!!!

 

[likembbbig]

Italiano,

Yes. So he had some in a glass from earlier and used the wrong one. Or poured from the wrong bottle. Something like that. I can't imagine it being on purpose. Why would he want to do that? If it kicked in earlier, he would be hosting you for more than an hour.  It musta been a mistake. He probably didn't even know. I think a lot of time, accidents are seen as intentional.  Or we assume that people are aware of predicaments we experience. To cover up his poor performance? That makes no sense to me. If he's still around, he would have done it to others and word would get around. I think he was careless, especially if he had some prior to meeting you. 

[+ Italiano]

1 hour ago, likembbbig said:

Italiano,

Yes. So he had some in a glass from earlier and used the wrong one. Or poured from the wrong bottle. Something like that. I can't imagine it being on purpose. Why would he want to do that? If it kicked in earlier, he would be hosting you for more than an hour.  It musta been a mistake. He probably didn't even know. I think a lot of time, accidents are seen as intentional.  Or we assume that people are aware of predicaments we experience. To cover up his poor performance? That makes no sense to me. If he's still around, he would have done it to others and word would get around. I think he was careless, especially if he had some prior to meeting you. 

@likembbbigYour theory it's a very remote possibility, it sounds so weird to me that he had two glasses ready there, and he poured my drink in the "wrong" one. In his profile with my review (which of course he deleted and created a new one) there was another client's negative review which referred to mine, saying that he had insisted for him to drink something which (very wisely!) he refused to. Whatever the reason for that to happen, he is a BIG Motherfucker! And yes, he is still around with a profile with another worker as a team.

[Leyte2019]

On 9/8/2021 at 6:43 AM, Quincy_7 said:

Another thing to keep in mind is offers of weed. I've been offered weed a number of times by escorts.

Orlando incall, March 2018. The provider offers weed, and I accept. Oh, I'm getting so sleepy.  😴💤💤  poppies, poppieszzzzz. Can we lie down for a while? I just....oh...2 hours later. Time to leave.

 

Edited October 6, 2021 by Leyte2019

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

2 hours ago, Leyte2019 said:

Orlando incall, March 2018. The provider offers weed, and I accept. Oh, I'm getting so sleepy.  😴💤💤  poppies, poppieszzzzz. Can we lie down for a while? I just....oh...2 hours later. Time to leave.

 

Did you at least get to douse the bitch in water and watch him melt?

[Leyte2019]

2 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

Did you at least get to douse the bitch in water and watch him melt?

Haha. At least I had body contact while lying on my back in a semi conscious state. I vaguely remember being told that supplements had created the plump but firm caboose I cupped during my rest in the poppy field.

[Islesguy]

Only one escort ever offered me something to drink and that was midway through a multi hour session. He also offered to cook me some eggs but I wasn't hungry and politely declined. I did accept a hot tea.

When I hire at home, I always carry a bottle of water for myself as I usually have a 45 minute train ride into the city.