Join client for holidays?

[Greg_blond]

One of my regular clients asked me to join him for a 7 days holiday....

Any experience with such requests?

Any recommendations? Attention points?

Thanks so much for your help!

Greg

 

[big-n-tall]

I have much experience, but I’m a client not a provider. 

First and foremost you both need to discuss expectations. What is it the client expects could be totally different from what the provider expects. Then you have to account for down time. If you need to workout daily or carry on some type of business that requires you to be away from the client… that needs to be figured out as well. Discuss common interests that would possibly make the time together more fun. Also discuss sleeping arrangements. If one or both of you snore, sleeping may be a problem. Not that there will be much sleep going on anyway. 😜

As a client, the longest I’ve spent with an escort is 9 days. One of the days was strictly platonic and the other 8 were business. This particular escort and I have a real strong friendship/relationship and have done extended stays with a mix of just hanging out as friends and bedroom activities. We’ve done a lot of extended time together, too many times to count at this point. If the pandemic doesn’t shutter my plans for next year, he and I might spend 10-11 days together… 8 for client/provider business and the rest of the days running around sightseeing, eating good food, and whatever else as friends. I know this is not necessarily typical of client/provider relationships. So make sure boundaries are known between both parties.

I guess I lucked out with this guy especially when it comes to extended time together. We probably spend 90 to 100% of that time together (depending on how long the meet up lasts). When we do the 7-8 day meet ups he usually requires time to work out an hour or two daily. Usually anything shorter than 8 days and he’s by my side constantly… except for bathroom breaks. Lol! That is his choice. I’ve always told him if he needs downtime he can have it, but he chooses mostly to stay next to me.

Edited August 14, 2021 by big-n-tall

[+ DrownedBoy]

Yes definitely set expectations, and make sure they have something they want to do.  My vacation with an escort bombed when he decided it wasn't fun and took off 2 days in, even after I switched resorts so he had a gym.

[Storm4U]

7 hours ago, Greg_blond said:

One of my regular clients asked me to join him for a 7 days holiday....

Any experience with such requests?

Any recommendations? Attention points?

Thanks so much for your help!

Greg

 

Yes!!! Ive done this twice and it worked out well both times! 

My recommendation is to just find out exactly what he expects from you while on holiday and make sure you are willing to provide that (just like any other booking). If he communicates what he expects, and you can provide that during the trip, then all will go well! Something to keep in mind is that because you’ll be spending more time with him on holiday, you will need to be “up and on” a lot during that time. 
 Go for it!!

Edited August 14, 2021 by Storm4U

[Jamie21]

I went on holiday with a client but it wasn’t working as such. He paid for the flight, food, drinks etc and entertainment and I paid my share of the hotel, which I was happy to do. There was no payment for my time, and as such no expectation of anything, even though plenty of action happened both with him and when we hooked up with other guys during the holiday. 

He’d asked me to join him because otherwise he’d have travelled alone and he wanted someone to share the holiday with. I was reticent at first because it’s one thing to get on during his sessions, and on the occasions he’d asked me to dinner or theatre etc (these occasions as friends) but it’s a more challenging situation to spend a week on holiday with someone. You really have to have shared interests outside of sex.

I decided to agree to his request though because we get on really well and he had become a friend..,which is of course fraught with difficulty and I’d never recommend but there you are…it happened and it had worked out very well. I was glad he let me pay for some of it because otherwise I’d have felt awkward. 

So what am I saying? Only go if you are ok with the client / provider relationship changing. Treat it like friends and it’s more likely to be successful, especially if you have interests outside of sex in common. If you go as a provider then basically you’re working the whole time (even when you’re not having sex) and that I think would be very challenging. 

 

[CalTec]

10 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

Also discuss sleeping arrangements. If one or both of you snore, sleeping may be problem. Not that there will be much sleep going on anyway. 😜

 

 I remember one client who I went on numerous trips with always carried earplugs as his SO also snored, it was hilarious, it was like part of his bedtime routine and it worked out well.

[jeezifonly]

I have the Fish Rule: a four day limit on overnight visits (mine or theirs) and that’s with people I know and like.
 

Booking a provider for anything beyond one overnight is not on my list. If I traveled solo often, maybe that would put me in a different frame of mind. I’m sure they add to scenery wherever they go.

[Guest]

17 hours ago, Greg_blond said:

One of my regular clients asked me to join him for a 7 days holiday....

Any experience with such requests?

Any recommendations? Attention points?

Thanks so much for your help!

Greg

 

Don't be afraid to set a rate per day that you think is worth your time. Everyone will have more fun if you're not worried about whether it was worth coming or not, and can instead focus on maximizing the experience for your client. 

I have been on some trips with clients that felt more like actual holidays, and some that felt more like regular escorting....both are cool, but it's good to know what you're getting yourself into. 

 

[lonely_john]

11 hours ago, Storm4U said:

“up and on” a lot during that time.

[+ IronMaus]

7 days is a long time to spend with ANYONE - make sure you want to spend that much time with them. Find mutual interests and things to keep you busy. Unless they intend to do all the panning, research where you are going and have suggestions/reservations ready so you can both have a great time without spending the morning and afternoon what to do next. See if there is a bath house where you are going, cruise the local escorts to suggests 3ways or groups.
Make sure he knows what to expect of you and vice versa - if you are going somewhere you would go on your own and he wants a lower rate, secure some time for yourself during your trip so you can accommodate them and please yourself in the meantime.

[sjmuktop]

4 minutes ago, IronMaus said:

7 days is a long time to spend with ANYONE 

As someone who is extremely independent and not very good at compromise - and who always travels solo - I couldn't imagine anything worse than spending 7 days with someone on holiday. I don't mean just with an escort, I mean with anyone. I'm far too independent and like doing my own thing as and when I want to.