Islesguy Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 One think is taking a shower, other things is douching... it's assumed if the escort wants to take a shower the hour starts after his shower is over. Some folks sweat in the summer while walking to an appointment and politely ask to shower again when they get to their clients home/room. This reminds of an experience I had with someone I hired. I'm a notorious sweater especially arm pits even in the winter when I walk a bit. I hired a guy right before I locked myself in last year. Had to walk from The Bowery station to near Ferrara's bakery to his hotel. Barely sweated at all. Found out during the session he likes a sweaty guy. Of all the days I didn't sweat much, it had to be that one. ? + WilliamM and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DruJac Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) Playing scheduling games. I had booked for a couple hours and then was asked if we could cut short to accommodate his other appointment. In a service business like this don’t overbook at my expense. And have accurate ad interests ie be prepared to do everything your ad says your are willing to do. Also, don’t be high when I first meet you. Edited February 24, 2021 by DruJac xyz48B and dbar123 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Justin7402 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 No call/no show is one, especially if I'm traveling to them, other thing was the only time I refused to pay, when I got there provider said he needed to shower before we started, showered for 30 minutes then when he got out said he wasn't in the mood to do some of the things we had discussed. I cancelled and he tried to charge me for his time in the shower so I just walked out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thickornotatall Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 About 55 minutes in to a meet up with a very cute young man he informed me we had just about run out of time...I stopped..got out of bed..put my shorts on and grabbed his clothes..I told him we were done..get out..get out now..get dressed in the elevator..the lobby..the street..just get out...He apologized and said I could have the next 1/2 hour free...as I pushed him out the door...ignorant... John, + DrownedBoy and dbar123 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 One think is taking a shower, other things is douching... it's assumed if the escort wants to take a shower the hour starts after his shower is over. Some folks sweat in the summer while walking to an appointment and politely ask to shower again when they get to their clients home/room. One man I hired traveled from Long Island to Philly in August by train (two trains) and was fresh as a daisy.. Perhaps he took a sponge bath on the train. I should have been suspicious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Renegotiating the financial terms either after the date is made but before it begins or, even worse, during the date. jtwalker 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ MakeMeCowboy Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 About 55 minutes in to a meet up with a very cute young man he informed me we had just about run out of time...I stopped..got out of bed..put my shorts on and grabbed his clothes..I told him we were done..get out..get out now..get dressed in the elevator..the lobby..the street..just get out...He apologized and said I could have the next 1/2 hour free...as I pushed him out the door...ignorant... That's beautiful! Good for you... Bargara Leatherboy and + glutes 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMICS Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) Luckily I've barely had any bad encounters with providers. One great session I had noticed the provider was watching the clock a few times. Another time I had a session with a regular provider who couldn't get up and it was clear he was a bit high. Up to that point we have had a bunch of sessions so I filed that under having an "off day." So yeah I'd say clock watchers and providers that show up high. Escorts who go ballistic (and limp) when you ask them to use a condom The Prep generation got people forgetting what a condom is...smh. Edited February 24, 2021 by DMICS + glutes and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papichampu Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 those that have "available now" on the ads and NEVER answer. and those that do not answer to very polite inquiries. Three words suffice, guys! + ButchAtl 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 About 55 minutes in to a meet up with a very cute young man he informed me we had just about run out of time...I stopped..got out of bed..put my shorts on and grabbed his clothes..I told him we were done..get out..get out now..get dressed in the elevator..the lobby..the street..just get out...He apologized and said I could have the next 1/2 hour free...as I pushed him out the door...ignorant... If you had only booked an hour, I think the provider was justified in telling you time was about up. Didn’t you experience this in other activities in your life? At school, when I was sitting for exams we would be told near the end that we only had so much time to finish. That way you could decide what was important to finish and what to let go. That‘s one reason I avoid one hour sessions. Things tend to be too rushed. Except for massage. One hour is about right for that. allyouknow, + WilliamM, + Coolwave35 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattr Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Too much phone time during our sesslon. At least pretend I'm more interesting than your phone jtwalker 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) About 55 minutes in to a meet up with a very cute young man he informed me we had just about run out of time...I stopped..got out of bed..put my shorts on and grabbed his clothes..I told him we were done..get out..get out now..get dressed in the elevator..the lobby..the street..just get out...He apologized and said I could have the next 1/2 hour free...as I pushed him out the door...ignorant... Did you pay him for 55 minutes or 60? Did you cum? If you had only booked an hour, I think the provider was justified in telling you time was about up. Didn’t you experience this in other activities in your life? At school, when I was sitting for exams we would be told near the end that we only had so much time to finish. That way you could decide what was important to finish and what to let go. That‘s one reason I avoid one hour sessions. Things tend to be too rushed. Except for massage. One hour is about right for that. I wouldn’t compare an exam to a date with an escort but I get your reference. I guess the guy was certainly a clock watcher to know the difference between 55 and 60 minutes. Edited February 24, 2021 by marylander1940 HoseMaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) Too much phone time during our sesslon. At least pretend I'm more interesting than your phone The moment the hour, couple of hours or overnight stars they need to know they have to put the phone away and silent. During an overnight they can always take a break to go to the bathroom and why not check their phone there. Edited February 24, 2021 by marylander1940 mattr, HoseMaster and xyz48B 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thickornotatall Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 If you had only booked an hour, I think the provider was justified in telling you time was about up. Didn’t you experience this in other activities in your life? At school, when I was sitting for exams we would be told near the end that we only had so much time to finish. That way you could decide what was important to finish and what to let go. That‘s one reason I avoid one hour sessions. Things tend to be too rushed. Except for massage. One hour is about right for that. I suppose you had to be there...the alarm on his watch went off..He stopped what we were doing....And quoted a price for one more half hour....not quite what I would call human.... jtwalker, + KensingtonHomo and + glutes 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayCeeKy Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Last year I texted an escort in Indy for rates. When he replied with rates that were extraordinarily high for that market, I politely declined stating that his rate was outside my budget. He counteroffered with a more moderate, though still somewhat high, fee. Against my better judgement I accepted and met him at his hotel in DT Indy. For about 20 minutes he sat in the bed telling me why he deserved the rate he had originally requested, at which point I got up and left, totally disGRUNTled. If a Provider is not going to provide a copacetic experience for the client due to resentment over fees, he should say so up front so that both can move on. + WilliamM, Leyte2019, + Axiom2001 and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ ButchAtl Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) Visiting escorts and masseurs who seem to guard their location like it was Fort Knox ! 1. I'm in a large metro area geographically and it makes a difference in my time planning or even if I want to travel to their location at all. I only ask initially about their general location area at first anyway; I need to know if the distance is feasible for me. 2. After an appointment is made, dragging the actual address out of them can seem unreasonably difficult. You would think the one getting paid would be at least as interested in me getting to them as I am. Edited February 27, 2021 by ButchAtl thickornotatall, papichampu, HoseMaster and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ ButchAtl Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) Escorts that are not ready at the agreed start time! If we agree to meet at 7pm, then you are ready at 7! You don’t start douching at 7! Yes! Its irritating to text a provider upon arrival (about 5 minutes before appointment usually in my case) only to get a response to "give me about 10 or 15 minutes please," ... ( I need to shower, get the room ready, etc) Edited March 4, 2021 by ButchAtl + Lucky, + bashful and marylander1940 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 (edited) Last year I texted an escort in Indy for rates. When he replied with rates that were extraordinarily high for that market, I politely declined stating that his rate was outside my budget. He counteroffered with a more moderate, though still somewhat high, fee. Against my better judgement I accepted and met him at his hotel in DT Indy. For about 20 minutes he sat in the bed telling me why he deserved the rate he had originally requested, at which point I got up and left, totally disGRUNTled. If a Provider is not going to provide a copacetic experience for the client due to resentment over fees, he should say so up front so that both can move on. Damn, you're patient... 20 mins talking. Was he handsome at least? Visiting escorts and masseurs who seem to guard their location like it was Fort Knox ! 1. I'm a a large metro area geographically and it makes a difference in my time planning or even if I want to travel to their location at all. I only ask initially about their general location area at first anyway; I need to know if the distance is feasible for me. 2. After an appointment is made, dragging the actual address out of them can seem unreasonably difficult. You would think the one getting paid would be at least as interested in me getting to them and I am. Agreed! I'm sure some guys want to keep their location open and might bid priceline the day before or check a last minute Airbnb. I require the actual address or at least corner before making plans, not that in this city where I walk everywhere really matters compared to Atlanta. I hope the guys at least tell you if they're in Buckhead, Midtown or Downtown. One mile one way or the other shouldn't matter if you're driving. Does having a place near a MARTA Station matter in Atlanta @ButchAtl ? I want to know the name of the hotel and the room number, even if I promise to text from the lobby before coming up. I just have to know it. Edited February 24, 2021 by marylander1940 orville 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 those that have "available now" on the ads and NEVER answer. and those that do not answer to very polite inquiries. Three words suffice, guys! “Available now” is an empty marketing ploy....ask your regular providers ? orville and + Lucky 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayCeeKy Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Was he handsome at least? This escort is a short super-muscular African-American male with a watermelon butt, but he is not classically handsome, but is okay. I noticed that his RM ads had a couple of negative Reviews (another complaint that I had to hear about extensively) - and he also periodically changes his name on RM - I'm guessing b/c of the Reviews. He would be an appealing hire except for his crappy attitude. HoseMaster and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 “Available now” is an empty marketing ploy....ask your regular providers ? I know guys who constantly click "available now" for 6 hours just to be on the first page of their big city, they do it even if they're booked. Leyte2019 and jtwalker 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 I know guys who constantly click "available now" for 6 hours just to be on the first page of their big city, they do it even if they're booked. Yes, and also because many clients click the “available now” filter because they’re interested in “now”, so all the escorts who have it turned on pop up....whether or not they are truly available “now”. orville 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Yes, and also because many clients click the “available now” filter because they’re interested in “now”, so all the escorts who have it turned on pop up....whether or not they are truly available “now”. You can always text them to find out, whoever replies first will get your cash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
former lurker Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 About 55 minutes in to a meet up with a very cute young man he informed me we had just about run out of time...I stopped..got out of bed..put my shorts on and grabbed his clothes..I told him we were done..get out..get out now..get dressed in the elevator..the lobby..the street..just get out...He apologized and said I could have the next 1/2 hour free...as I pushed him out the door...ignorant... That seems an odd reaction to me. If you hired for an hour, and he gave you a notice with 5 minutes left, that, to me, is a good thing. It gives you the opportunity to focus on how to spend the last 5 minutes rather than running out of your time without notice. + FrankR and orville 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Aside – I’ve always really understood “available now“ as they were literally on the site right then. I think that “now“ is a relative term. I could want to eat lunch right now, or I might not be in the position to hire right now…Both of those mean two different things. + WilliamM 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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