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Only guys I've met who don't kiss are self-proclaimed "Straight guys", I understand some people like that kind of thing but in my experience they're bad dates and bad lays (both pro and not so).

 

Then again, I'm very much one to treat my own hygiene and smells as top priority before a date, be it with a pro or not, could never understand those who don't even try before meeting a provider, seems to me like just basic courtesy to put your own best foot forward before an encounter, whether paid or not.

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One of my guys freaks out when he gets messages from clients and their 1st question is "Do you kiss/rim?".

He would rather not answer and lose a client instead of saying yes, to later find out the client is not clean.

Well if he wouldn't answer the question, I wouldn't book a session so either way he'd lose me as a client.

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Only guys I've met who don't kiss are self-proclaimed "Straight guys", I understand some people like that kind of thing but in my experience they're bad dates and bad lays (both pro and not so).

His case. Soccer player, girlfriend, you'd never know if you see him on the street.

It took me a 3rd date, and some weed, to convince him to kiss me.

Why did I wait so much? Cause he'll rim me and pound me like no other, and then some.

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In all the hires I’ve meet the 10 years or so I’ve been doing this, most of them were good to great kissers. They ran the gamut between straight, gay, and everything in between.

 

There were a handful who weren’t kissers. Either they told me flat out they don’t kiss or they implied that they did and wouldn’t in the moment. Those were one offs I never saw again. Although one guy, that wouldn’t I would consider seeing again because he was so responsive to everything else I did to him.

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Only guys I've met who don't kiss are self-proclaimed "Straight guys", I understand some people like that kind of thing but in my experience they're bad dates and bad lays (both pro and not so).

 

Then again, I'm very much one to treat my own hygiene and smells as top priority before a date, be it with a pro or not, could never understand those who don't even try before meeting a provider, seems to me like just basic courtesy to put your own best foot forward before an encounter, whether paid or not.

 

As a former straight guy (figured out pretty late that I liked dudes too), I do not see the draw. The vast majority of straight dudes have bachelor frog-level (it's a meme, Google it, you're welcome :p) hygiene at best. I used to be a slob, and that was when I considered myself 'hunting' or 'on the market'. The couple of girls I've had since I started having sex with men have actually remarked about how clean my place is - and that I have clean sheets/pillow cases. The bar is that low.

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As a former straight guy (figured out pretty late that I liked dudes too), I do not see the draw. The vast majority of straight dudes have bachelor frog-level (it's a meme, Google it, you're welcome :p) hygiene at best. I used to be a slob, and that was when I considered myself 'hunting' or 'on the market'. The couple of girls I've had since I started having sex with men have actually remarked about how clean my place is - and that I have clean sheets/pillow cases. The bar is that low.

 

I know lots of straight guys who are “messy” in an adorable way but their cleanliness (hygiene), etc., are all beyond reproach.

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His case. Soccer player, girlfriend, you'd never know if you see him on the street.

It took me a 3rd date, and some weed, to convince him to kiss me.

Why did I wait so much? Cause he'll rim me and pound me like no other, and then some.

 

I get the idea that some people have just very personal hangups, it's just been more efficient for me to not chase after those types after several disappointments :). I've had guys with girlfriends who are very much into kissing and all sorts of passionate displays of affection, maybe that's why the "no-kissing" thing is such a turn off.

 

As a former straight guy (figured out pretty late that I liked dudes too), I do not see the draw. The vast majority of straight dudes have bachelor frog-level (it's a meme, Google it, you're welcome :p) hygiene at best. I used to be a slob, and that was when I considered myself 'hunting' or 'on the market'. The couple of girls I've had since I started having sex with men have actually remarked about how clean my place is - and that I have clean sheets/pillow cases. The bar is that low.

 

Yup, talking to women about guys hygiene/cleanliness, it's pretty clear the bar is quite low. I guess I got spoiled by my early experiences when guys were always freshly showered, perfumed and with fresh minty breath, being a slob doesn't even register on my mind, but personal hygiene and smell does quite a lot. (PS. Now I have a reason to visit Atlanta after the World decides to stop ending ;))

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Viral load at exposure is the thing, so the tinier the particles, the lower the viral load in what you “receive” into your system. Larger amounts of infectious fluids, air particles or mist being emitted or expelled will have larger viral load no matter where it lands. Kissing has to be among the easiest ways for a virus to travel from host to host, as it doesn’t have to survive aerosolizing or surface transfer, and is constantly being refreshed as kissers salivate.

 

You’ll absolutely find OC providers who kiss and do it well!

Patience will be rewarded.

 

 

 

True - if that were the only mode of transmission involved in an intimate encounter, avoiding kissing would be an excellent risk mitigation strategy. My point was that you've already been exposed through multiple routes, so what does it matter? If you're in for a pint, you're in for a pound. Having decided to take the risk in the first place, go for it.

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When I went to Vegas last time I hired a guy that said he wouldn't kiss, despite the ad saying otherwise. We hit it off, and turned out to be a really nice guy. At the end he did kiss me on the lips but he he gave that famous line I hear so often.[MEDIA=pinterest]471189179734991232[/MEDIA]

It reminds me of the stories about female escorts who'd blow but won't kiss clients. Same with some male escorts, they would blow you or rim you but would back-off is kissing is requested, whether for intimacy, hygiene, or health reasons nowadays. I think for some it's going a little bit too far if it's not offered upfront as part of the session.

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ABSOLUTELY!!! Deep french kissing just makes everything SO MUCH BETTER, doesn't it?! ;)

I totally agree. I once hired an escort who advertised that he was a top exclusively and no kissing. While I would have preferred he was into kissing, I hired him anyways because of his excellent reviews and other attributes. Anyway once we started in he started kissing me, first on various body parts and then on my mouth. And then he started with the tongue action and went full bore on French kissing (my favourite type of kissing). Afterwards I asked him why he didn’t advertise that he kisses and he said he wanted to keep the option to himself whether he would kiss a client, based on oral hygiene (mine is great) and chemistry (I guess I fit the bill in that regard as well). Some of the escorts I have hired who list kissing only go through the paces with rather lackluster kissing. Life is full of surprises, some good, others not so good.

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my experience, I think some do pick and choose when it comes to kissing regardless of anything

True. That's why I don't ask up front if they are into kissing if it's not in their 'intos' section.

When we meet I try ;) to kiss them and if they allow then bingo!

I want to slap those ones ???

Not if they kiss you

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