How do you thank a scort after hiring?

[orville]

I am just not rich as you, lol.

 

I also don't know the scort's taste so far hahaha

Then rehire. He can't reject that, unless he's arrogant, in which case he's not worthy of your sorrows. Too many others out there.

[orville]

I'm deeply hurt. He never replied. ?

Oh my Good Lord! You and others in this forum really get me thinking...

He's an E.S.C.O.R.T. and it's the weekend.

You being nice has nothing to do with him being busy (or an idiot).

I can't believe there are guys that behave like this after meeting another man 1-S.I.N.G.L.E. T.I.M.E.

Chill the f*ck out.

Edited August 22, 2020 by orville

[orville]

At the very least @nycboi he could have sent a simple ’Thank you‘ in response.

This lack of regard on his part tells you his only interest in customer service is during the time you’ve paid to be with him.

Super valuable input! He's probably thankful but he might also be thinking: "If he thinks he's gonna get free sexting, he's wrong. He better hire me again".

[Studsearcher]

I hope some of the OP posts are tongue in cheek. It’s was a transaction not a date. Thank him like you would any other service provider. A brief note, a good review, a tip and repeat business. Just remember he gave you a good time because it’s his job, not because he’s into you. If you come across as ‘in love’ he will either run for the hills or try to take advantage of you.

[orville]

I just sent him a thanks and he didn't reply... What does this mean?

I'm deeply hurt. He never replied. ?

I thanked him yesterday. ?

I'm an attractive dude ... at times I noticed he wasn't very into it. Other times he seems like he was totally enjoying it though. I got mixed signals really. But he was a good scort.

It takes less than 1 min to just reply with a cold "Thanks to you too".

This wrong behavior from clients is what makes some escorts so entitled.

I wonder if this is how some of them get 5-star reviews, by doing the bare minimum or nothing (muscle worship).

If it was me, no matter his looks, after the meeting this escort would get absolutely nothing else from me.

A good escort doesn't give you mixed signals, he makes you feel as if YOU are his best fuck ever, or the fucking love of his life, no matter how you look.

[socurious]

?????????

[socurious]

By blocking them.

 

What? Please elaborate.

[+ purplekow]

I think I fell in love with him ☹?????

You should fall in love with an escort but only for the time you have hired him. This is a pay for sex experience, Do not make it more than that. Though it may change in time as you get to know one another, riding off into the sunset is not going to be the outcome. If he did not reply to your thank you texts, he is impolite and probably not a courteous or experienced escort. Drop the idea of being in love and take it for what it is, lust or infatuation.

[socurious]

?????

[MscleLovr]

Don’t beat yourself up @nycboi. I bet many of us at one time have fallen a little in love with the wrong guy.

 

I feel it’s easier to understand your reaction to him if you consider this.Your body during sex releases chemicals and hormones. Think of orgasm as a bonding process. Your physical response doesn’t differentiate between a paid encounter (which you had) and making love to Mr Right (who you maybe haven’t met yet).

[bendable2019]

Just a French kiss on his Penis...and toodles! ?

[The Dude]

Pay him.

 

Like that scene in Mad Men when Peggy complains she never gets a "Thank you" for her work, and Don screams back "That's what the money's for!"

[+ peterhung85]

So far, the only escort I’ve gotten “thank yous” from has been the one and only @peterhung85 each time I have seen him. He would send it shortly after leaving via email and it just makes me miss him even more. He’s just the sweetest and most caring man in my hirings and that’s why he will always be on my list when I visit Vegas.

Awwwe... I genuinely mean it too! I always have a great time with you too!!!! :-)

[RandyVue]

A big tip and repeat business

[OrBlanc]

Usually I'll tip, but only if I think the provider went above my expectations. Recently I had a guy who was really extraordinary, I tipped, we kissed goodbye and I left, a couple of hours later I get a message from him saying thanks (guess he didn't really check until afterwards) I just said I'd see him later we had a short conversation afterwards and that was it.

 

The sex was more than enough to do repeat business, but the politeness just makes me want to make him a regular.

[John]

Gosh, I should think that the escort should thank the client.

[John]

And also the rule when I was growing up was that we never tipped the business owner. Should the escort come through an agency, tipping is appropriate, but not if he is a sole practitioner.

[MikeBiDude]

And also the rule when I was growing up was that we never tipped the business owner. Should the escort come through an agency, tipping is appropriate, but not if he is a sole practitioner.

Which (slightly off topic) always makes me wonder how I should tip at a sushi bar where the owner is also the sushi master preparing my meal?

[OrBlanc]

And also the rule when I was growing up was that we never tipped the business owner. Should the escort come through an agency, tipping is appropriate, but not if he is a sole practitioner.

 

Usually I agree with this, but sometimes (not all the time) it just feels like I'm underpaying and I just give a little extra.

[Danny-Darko]

Usually I agree with this, but sometimes (not all the time) it just feels like I'm underpaying and I just give a little extra.

 

If you're paying him what he asked for you're not underpaying him! Don't off-set the market guys!

Americans also tend to do this when traveling abroad in everything from escorts to AirBnB's and it pisses off the locals a whole bunch! This foments a two-tier pay rate! One for US and one for them for the exact same services! All things are relative to the local and present day economy, not what you can personally afford . I remember HooBoy (may he RIP) used to travel a lot and made this very point when Americans started following him to Brazil!

[John]

If you're paying him what he asked for you're not underpaying him! Don't off-set the market guys!

Americans also tend to do this when traveling abroad in everything from escorts to AirBnB's and it pisses off the locals a whole bunch! This foments a two-tier pay rate! One for US and one for them for the exact same services! All things are relative to the local and present day economy, not what you can personally afford . I remember HooBoy (may he RIP) used to travel a lot and made this very point when Americans started following him to Brazil!

Don't worry. Americans won't be able to do this much longer.

[Danny-Darko]

Don't worry. Americans won't be able to do this much longer.

 

But foreigners don't know it! They still think we are ALL RICH! ?

[John]

Which (slightly off topic) always makes me wonder how I should tip at a sushi bar where the owner is also the sushi master preparing my meal?

The owner of a restaurant is not tipped. You can express approval by repeat visits, bring new friends, sending friends, and writing reviews on social media. I put escorts in the same category.

[gilbert]

I would love to tip, but I scrape up all the money I can just to hire. All I can afford to do is tell him what a good time I had and that we had to get together again in the near future. Before he walks out the door I hand him an envelop full of money (his fee), give him a big hug and kiss, and tell him to be safe. That's it.

[robberbaron4u]

I want to thank one but I'm not sure if it will seem awkward.

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