Getting a BJ during COVID-19

[n2guysnatl]

During this COVID-19 scare I've been really careful and abstaining from all sex. I don't know how much longer I can last. Today I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he offered to service my cock. I thought about it and it seems to be relatively low risk. I would wear a mask and have limited contact other than his mouth and hands on my dick and balls. I'd walk in with him keeping a distance and I'd stand the entire time so not to touch anything in his apartment. I'd unzip and take my dick out. I'd watch him wash his hands then kneeling before me. He'd touch only my cock and balls with his hands and mouth. When I get home I'd immediately shower and wash the clothes I was wearing.

 

Sound safe enough or too risky?

[marylander1940]

During this COVID-19 scare I've been really careful and abstaining from all sex. I don't know how much longer I can last. Today I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he offered to service my cock. I thought about it and it seems to be relatively low risk. I would wear a mask and have limited contact other than his mouth and hands on my dick and balls. I'd walk in with him keeping a distance and I'd stand the entire time so not to touch anything in his apartment. I'd unzip and take my dick out. I'd watch him wash his hands then kneeling before me. He'd touch only my cock and balls with his hands and mouth. When I get home I'd immediately shower and wash the clothes I was wearing.

 

Sound safe enough or too risky?

 

Safe for you, risky for him because he won't be wearing a mask.

[jeezifonly]

Sounds really hot, but not as safe as if you were to blow each other...

 

...kisses from across the room. ??

 

Comes back to Risk/benefit ! !

And don’t forget to factor risk to family or roommates you live with, if they assume you are abiding by guidelines.

Please stay well!

[Smurof]

That was the most un-romantic story I've read all day.

[jjkrkwood]

Some people just don't /cant understand how the virus is transmitted.....

[cany10011]

Save your $ until this is over and hire a pack of guys for an all night orgy.

[hypothetically]

During this COVID-19 scare I've been really careful and abstaining from all sex. I don't know how much longer I can last. Today I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he offered to service my cock. I thought about it and it seems to be relatively low risk. I would wear a mask and have limited contact other than his mouth and hands on my dick and balls. I'd walk in with him keeping a distance and I'd stand the entire time so not to touch anything in his apartment. I'd unzip and take my dick out. I'd watch him wash his hands then kneeling before me. He'd touch only my cock and balls with his hands and mouth. When I get home I'd immediately shower and wash the clothes I was wearing.

 

Sound safe enough or too risky?

 

Someone willing to risk their WHOLE life just to have their penis in someone’s mouth for 15 min (or vice versa) is easily the BIGGEST erection killer I can think of at the present time.....BY FAR. IMAGINE having to be put on a respirator because you just had to get your dick sucked. Whew, what a time to be alive. Worms for brain contingency in full effect.

[+ Pensant]

Some people just don't /cant understand how the virus is transmitted.....

Or they’re in denial

[KrisParr]

During this COVID-19 scare I've been really careful and abstaining from all sex. I don't know how much longer I can last. Today I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he offered to service my cock. I thought about it and it seems to be relatively low risk. I would wear a mask and have limited contact other than his mouth and hands on my dick and balls. I'd walk in with him keeping a distance and I'd stand the entire time so not to touch anything in his apartment. I'd unzip and take my dick out. I'd watch him wash his hands then kneeling before me. He'd touch only my cock and balls with his hands and mouth. When I get home I'd immediately shower and wash the clothes I was wearing.

 

Sound safe enough or too risky?

 

Three words: masturbate, masturbate, masturbate

repeat as often as needed until you regain consciousness

[+ José Soplanucas]

Someone willing to risk their WHOLE life just to have their penis in someone’s mouth for 15 min (or vice versa) is easily the BIGGEST erection killer I can think of at the present time.....BY FAR. IMAGINE having to be put on a respirator because you just had to get your dick sucked. Whew, what a time to be alive. Worms for brain contingency in full effect.

 

I am not surprised at the willingness to take a risk. I am myself going through my 8th week of abstinence and I am afraid that will not resist much longer.

What is astonishing is the stupidity of the reasoning.

[Monarchy79]

I’m glad we’re discussing this topic.

This makes me think of so many things:

1.) abstinence

2.) celibacy

3.) sexual addictions

4.) priorities

 

Personally, I’ve used this time as an opportunity to channel that built up energy into working out, focusing on work (I’m teleworking), personal projects (reorganized seasonal wardrobe, deep cleaned my home, and even started playing around with day trading).

Caught up on some leisurely reading too.

 

I jacked off about twice since I’ve been locked down. literally, the moment I busted off, the frustration of not having sex immediately went away.

 

Bottom line up front: Actual sex isn’t a “need”. And if one considers taking the risk of catching a deadly, contagious virus, for the sake of sex, you should ask yourself the following:

1.) Will masturbation curb my desire to “scratch that itch”?

2.) Am I using this time to do the things I usually don’t “feel like”, doing? Or am I conveniently “bored”, and getting horny due to idle time and hands?

3.) Do I have a sexual addiction?

 

No judgment here, just sharing some random thoughts at this time ☺️

[+ sniper]

Realistically, if you picked ONE person to be your fbuddy during quarantine, it's not a huge risk(couples who don't live together aren't abstaining, I can guarantee you that). But when you're talking about hooking up with random people who are ALSO hooking up with random people? Not a good idea.

[jjkrkwood]

I’m glad we’re discussing this topic.

This makes me think of so many things:

1.) abstinence

2.) celibacy

3.) sexual addictions

4.) priorities

 

Personally, I’ve used this time as an opportunity to channel that built up energy into working out, focusing on work (I’m teleworking), personal projects (reorganized seasonal wardrobe, deep cleaned my home, and even started playing around with day trading).

Caught up on some leisurely reading too.

 

I jacked off about twice since I’ve been locked down. literally, the moment I busted off, the frustration of not having sex immediately went away.

 

Bottom line up front: Actual sex isn’t a “need”. And if one considers taking the risk of catching a deadly, contagious virus, for the sake of sex, you should ask yourself the following:

1.) Will masturbation curb my desire to “scratch that itch”?

2.) Am I using this time to do the things I usually don’t “feel like”, doing? Or am I conveniently “bored”, and getting horny due to idle time and hands?

3.) Do I have a sexual addiction?

 

No judgment here, just sharing some random thoughts at this time ☺️

 

Usually after jerking off, I just go to sleep or take a nap.... Then I wake up, have a snack, and I am good ! It's all a brain fuck. If you obsess over having sex, it will take over your life. Watch some porn and fantasize ! :p

[wklukas]

Usually after jerking off, I just go to sleep or take a nap.... Then I wake up, have a snack, and I am good ! It's all a brain fuck. If you obsess over having sex, it will take over your life. Watch some porn and fantasize ! :p

 

(way, way) TMI .....but nonetheless I hope that the snack is matzoh brei.

[Monarchy79]

Realistically, if you picked ONE person to be your fbuddy during quarantine, it's not a huge risk(couples who don't live together aren't abstaining, I can guarantee you that). But when you're talking about hooking up with random people who are ALSO hooking up with random people? Not a good idea.

 

There are still risks there.

If your fbuddy or partner is exposed to the public (work, store, public transportation, etc.) he will still be a transmission risk.

 

This is how groups of families who live together have contracted the virus. All it takes is for one person to be exposed asymptomatic, and bring it home (or in this case, to your home)

 

The coupling only works if both partners are following the appropriate “stay at home”, protocols, and are not exposed.

[jjkrkwood]

(way, way) TMI .....but nonetheless I hope that the snack is matzoh brei.

 

Is there ever really TMI here when we share our experiences ? And Brei is never a snack... A snack is a dark chocolate Kit Kat bar....

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

It's actually been kind of fun finding creative ways to keep a regular schedule of 'sex' while not actually being able to be in close-proximity of another person.

 

I'm writing about it for the next 15MM, but if you've got another dude who's willing to think outside the box, you can stay safe AND have fun.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

As a cocksucker, I think it sounds great and wish you lived closer..... I think if you've showered and he has brushed and gargled, you're not in a high-risk situation, especially if you wear a mask (leave room for poppers if you like). I would swallow your cum, wash my hands and be out of your hair until the next time. I think it would be fine.

[jjkrkwood]

As a cocksucker, I think it sounds great and wish you lived closer..... I think if you've showered and he has brushed and gargled, you're not in a high-risk situation, especially if you wear a mask (leave room for poppers if you like). I would swallow your cum, wash my hands and be out of your hair until the next time. I think it would be fine.

 

 

GOOD LUCK with that ! :rolleyes:

[Monarchy79]

It's actually been kind of fun finding creative ways to keep a regular schedule of 'sex' while not actually being able to be in close-proximity of another person.

 

I'm writing about it for the next 15MM, but if you've got another dude who's willing to think outside the box, you can stay safe AND have fun.

 

Not to digress, but please don’t forget to write about your skincare treatments, favorite products & tools in one of your upcoming submissions.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Not to digress, but please don’t forget to write about your skincare treatments, favorite products & tools in one of your upcoming submissions.

 

Will do.

 

Thank you for the reminder

[+ keroscenefire]

Like maybe if you lived in a place like New Zealand or South Korea where the number of new cases has been very low (single or low double digits) for at least a couple of weeks. Those places have a very very small rate of local transmission currently and if your FB was someone who had been working from home and otherwise is low-risk (no recent travel), it might be okay. These countries also have high rates of testing so I think they have a good idea of what is happening in their country.

 

But I don't think that is anywhere in the US or Europe currently and probably won't be for a long time. Keep your dick in your pants and out of the mouths of anyone for the time being.

[+ sniper]

There are still risks there.

If your fbuddy or partner is exposed to the public (work, store, public transportation, etc.) he will still be a transmission risk.

 

This is how groups of families who live together have contracted the virus. All it takes is for one person to be exposed asymptomatic, and bring it home (or in this case, to your home)

 

The coupling only works if both partners are following the appropriate “stay at home”, protocols, and are not exposed.

I didn't say zero risk. I just said not really out of line with what most people are doing. And yes, if the person is a healthcare/essential worker or such, that's on par or higher risk than multiple random people, because those workers are currently at the highest risk.

[Guest DeanParkerTEX]

It's actually been kind of fun finding creative ways to keep a regular schedule of 'sex' while not actually being able to be in close-proximity of another person.

 

I'm writing about it for the next 15MM, but if you've got another dude who's willing to think outside the box, you can stay safe AND have fun.

Tell me more. Hit the publish button already.

[+ aeikaryoko]

@Benjamin_Nicholas my gawd. The details you include in your writing is mind blowing and load blowing. ?