Do you prefer to give or receive a blowjob?

[Goodbuddy]

For me....receive. Maybe also because I tend to get compliments on what's on offer?

[MaybeMaybeNot]

Receive. I have only started to give BJs in the last two years, which was/is to my former bf. If there is a strong connection, I will suck on dick for a short time, but I get bored. Getting BJs . . . Wow!!

[lightdagger]

I prefer to worshi...er, I mean, give.

[+ azdr0710]

well, selfish me prefers to receive..... sorry!

 

I've tried giving just a few times, either to try to please the other guy, show my appreciation, or to see if I can just get into it for myself, but it does nothing for me.....just feels like some object is in my mouth that's sorta bothering me or is in my way.....of course, I'm ever-worried my lame attempts are not impressing the receiver, too......

 

one well-known former gay porn performer and former provider, allegedly very straight, wins the "best blow job" honors with me.....don't know what he was doing, exactly, but there was a noticeable "wow factor"!.......other straight-leaning dudes I know are the runners-up........

 

of course, any head feels great!......

 

Edited March 26, 2020 by azdr0710

[NYCethan]

I’ve wasn’t into receiving until very recently. A client got into the 69 position while I was blowing him and it’s changed my life forever ?. So sad I won’t be seeing him for a while.

[caramelsub]

Definitely giving. I actually don’t like receiving head at all, probably because I’m a submissive sexually. Though I like to jack off and cum. But I get ultimate gratification by sucking.

[wearytraveller]

My favorite position is "68" … the provider gives me a BJ and I owe him one

 

Seriously though, love giving, finishing him off first and then laying back and have him return the favor.

[rvwnsd]

...The best guys swallow.

My motto is "Mean people suck, but nice people swallow."

[+ RJD]

My favorite position is "68" … the provider gives me a BJ and I owe him one.

 

Mine is 71, which is 69 with a finger up each other’s ass.

[DMICS]

I prefer to receive more than give. My self-assessment is that I give okay blowjobs, but nothing that sets the world on fire (or penis to a volcano of cum, whichever)

 

Definitely receive.

 

I love to lie back and let a good guy lick my balls and suck my cock. I’ve been told that my guttural moans as I approach climax are a turn-on. With an expert cocksucker, I can hold out for a while but then I have a juddering climax and groan/growl as I spurt into his mouth. I always want the cocksucker to keep sucking, swallow my load and then lick my cock clean. When that’s done, I bring him up to lie on my chest and we kiss deeply.

 

I truly appreciate an expert cocksucker to completion.

 

 

As I've developed my body and packed on muscle, I've found great pleasure in kicking back and letting other guys blow me.

 

The best guys swallow.

 

Receive

 

For me....receive. Maybe also because I tend to get compliments on what's on offer?

 

 

 

You guys are all truly, TRULY appreciated hahaha. Feel like it's tough to find guys who just like to sit back (or stand) and receive professional service.

 

Answering the original question, I love to service. Nothing like making love orally and attaching yourself to a nice dick. Not into receiving or mutual at all. It's very rare someone can get me off that way and I find it to be a waste of time. I have to be really into someone chemistry wise to let them go down on me. 69 isn't my thing either, my height plus my dick being curved makes it difficult and annoying most times. That's why I love having a private glory hole, I avoid a lot of those issues.

Edited March 26, 2020 by DMICS

[thickornotatall]

You guys are all truly, TRULY appreciated hahaha. Feel like it's tough to find guys who just like to sit back (or stand) and receive professional service.

 

Answering the original question, I love to service. Nothing like making love orally and attaching yourself to a nice dick. Not into receiving or mutual at all. It's very rare someone can get me off that way and I find it to be a waste of time. I have to be really into someone chemistry wise to let them go down on me. 69 isn't my thing either, my height plus my dick being curved makes it difficult and annoying most times. That's why I love having a private glory hole, I avoid a lot of those issues.

Me too!....I don't care to receive.....unless someone is really really good...I prefer to get between his legs to lick..sniff...suck..rub his belly...rest my head on his belly while he rubs my head or pulls my hair....sometimes being held tight between his legs....

[curiousbynature12]

I like the visuals of a pretty dick like the next gay, but I get enjoyment from receiving blow jobs.

 

From experiencing the exploration and eagerness of newbies, to the grit and sloppy finesse of more experienced/hungry cocksuckers, I like laying back and seeing guys get turned on trying to satisfy me, prove they can take every inch, and ideally, swallow every drop.

 

Also, who doesn't love seeing the tell-tale signs of an enthusiastic blow job (tears on their eyes, very wet face/beard and dick)? Blowjobs are fun as an extended appetizer or the main course during a session.

Edited March 26, 2020 by curiousbynature12

[+ PapaTony]

I like both but enjoy giving more so. Based on the pleasurable responses I get from the men I’ve blown I seem to have developed exceptional skill.

[+ Funguy]

Also love to give and receive - more to give, ESPECIALLY if the other party just lets go and comes so I can swallow and also kiss.

Some guys cum easily, some take some work - dont mind at all.

Now, a very active and matched 69 is really nice and even more so, a 71 as described above.

[+ Axiom2001]

I prefer to receive more than give. My self-assessment is that I give okay blowjobs, but nothing that sets the world on fire (or penis to a volcano of cum, whichever)

Receive

 

As one can read in the above quoted material, I prefer to receive than to give. Why? I don't feel that I have the expertise, for I, unfortunately, have never perfected the art.

 

Most of the times that I've had "a hot mouth" on my "male member"-- the guy "doing me" has definitely known his stuff.

 

For about four years, or perhaps a little longer, I would see my "go --to guy" in San Francisco for play. He was a champ in "firing up my nips" as well as sucking me off. To date he has a regular job which he loves. But I miss his company and "his hot, talented

mouth!"

[+ Hoover42]

I'll give you one guess!

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Two favorites who are pro’s

• https://rentmen.eu/SebastianPerez
  
  
• https://rentmen.eu/AlexStandall
  
  

Both these guys are primarily cocksuckers. Any recommendations for providers who are enthusiastic feeders/oral tops?

[+ GregM]

I enjoy giving while getting my hole eaten out and fingered. I'm not a fan of the other person laying back and me doing all the work.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Guest DeanParkerTEX]

When I was still in my teens and very early 20s, I was the guy who liked giving head. Huge turn-on.

 

As I've developed my body and packed on muscle, I've found great pleasure in kicking back and letting other guys blow me.

 

The best guys swallow.

I used to get and really liked it. I’ve only recently sucked off three guys. I enjoyed it. I hope they did too. Two came in my mouth but I didn’t swallow. Wish I had.

[EastbayMike]

Give! And sucking out/swallowing every drop.

[+ robear]

Give, definitely! But I do need reciprocity of some kind, I'm not into guys who just lay there, because they're "straight" or whatever. I know some guys appreciate that but not moi.

[harlow]

Even though I've only ever topped I get way more turned on by sucking a dick more than I do having my dick sucked. I've hired over 20 guys and only 2 gave really memorable blowjobs. I find it way more satisfying to suck a guy off to climax and swallow a load. I just go wild when I have a nice dick in front of me to suck.

I'm the same way!

[Stormy]

I prefer receiving. I’m a terrible gagger.

[KinkyNEguy]

Receive!

[Caliboy95]

I’m in my mid 20s and I still enjoy giving oral.