How often do you hire escorts?

[Rudynate]

a few times a year

[DallasClient]

One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy.

 

What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'.

 

One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile.

 

I have who I call my Sunday boy who comes over each week and he often spends the night and I Uber him back to his parents house. It's not robbing the cradle if you put them back! (He's actually 23). Then there are maybe 1 or 2 others during the week.

 

I'm 51, executive level job, no debt, 1M+ in retirement accts, so I have a good amount of discretionary income.

 

My partner is actually older than me, we spend time in two houses, we have been together for 23 years and encourage each other's dalliances. We don't play together but we do sometimes have our regulars meet us for dinner somewhere so we have faces to place with names. We like different things - I like 18-23ish and he is more into guys 30's-40's.

[+ RyanDean]

I find that I hire in spurts. So to speak.

The last several months have been pretty active (about 3 bookings per month) but I can tell that I'm entering a "fallow" period...

[newhudson]

I have who I call my Sunday boy who comes over each week and he often spends the night and I Uber him back to his parents house. It's not robbing the cradle if you put them back! (He's actually 23). Then there are maybe 1 or 2 others during the week.

 

I'm 51, executive level job, no debt, 1M+ in retirement accts, so I have a good amount of discretionary income.

 

My partner is actually older than me, we spend time in two houses, we have been together for 23 years and encourage each other's dalliances. We don't play together but we do sometimes have our regulars meet us for dinner somewhere so we have faces to place with names. We like different things - I like 18-23ish and he is more into guys 30's-40's.

 

TMI ?

[MidwestCoastal]

TMI ?

 

I'm sorry.... I'm the one who asked. I should have asked for PVT but just need advice.

 

Not many friends know I 'do' this....really enjoy the community here. Please private me instead of posting here.

 

Sorry and thanks.

[Chad Constantine]

If you exclude masseurs than I can go months without. I never really had someone I would consider a regular because I usually just go with how I am feeling plus it takes me a while before I feel sure I want to meet up. I probably avg. maybe 1 every 3-4 weeks

[Aaron James]

Two to four times a month on average, although I also go through phases when I get caught up in the possibilities of new guys. Living in London there’s sometimes too much choice...

 

I’ve had a couple of less than stellar meets in the last few weeks so I’ll probably stick to regulars for a bit, so once or twice a month.

 

I probably spend 1k-2k a month.

[DallasClient]

TMI ?

 

I'm an open book.

[+ JEC]

Some young guys definitely like daddies, and may not need the money. You could try for a bit and see if they like your daddy-looks. You have to be psychologically ready to be rejected, ignored and blocked, though.

I'll echo my friend Tarte, when my profile is "up" on Grindr, I'm amazed at all the Daddy love that comes my way from hot young guys. My circumstances don't allow me to host, and my schedule is really complicated so a pre-scheduled visit is what works best for me (Grindr is very "right now") so I rarely connect on Grindr but the "love" is infectious

[myophile]

Two to four times a month on average, although I also go through phases when I get caught up in the possibilities of new guys. Living in London there’s sometimes too much choice...

 

I’ve had a couple of less than stellar meets in the last few weeks so I’ll probably stick to regulars for a bit, so once or twice a month.

 

I probably spend 1k-2k a month.

 

I’ve only been hiring for a couple of years, but long enough to notice certain patterns. I enjoyed whoring around when I was younger, and after a l-o-o-o-o-ng period of sexual abstinence, hiring seemed a way to recreate the excitement and risk of that life: a new guy every time, and no strings attached. So I was surprised to find myself, within about a year, in a steady twice-a-month “relationship” with a single provider. That’s ongoing, and quite fulfilling; but I still hanker after novelty, and living in New York, the provider selection is enormous and varied and ever-changing. My wants are specific, and I generally research my hires pretty carefully; but I tend to go off the rails a bit in the summertime, and this year’s Pride celebrations nearly did me in, financially and physically! I’m not sure what the fall will bring; I look forward to getting back into a quieter series of regular visits with my guy, but on the other hand, I travel a lot between September and May, and every city has its temptations ...

Edited October 1, 2019 by myophile

[Caliboy95]

I’ve hired at least someone a year. I don’t have much spare money or else I would hire more often. Mind you, I’m still a full time student and have a full time job ?.

[+ SundayZip]

How could you let your grade school math teacher down like this? Of course there is an average, it's just that none of us know what it is. :D

 

What the OP probably probably really meant is to ask what is typical and that is where you hit the nail on the head:

 

Yes, there is the mean (aka, average) but there's also median and mode. Seems like the mode would be most meaningful for this exercise. ;)

[+ JEC]

My "average" is once per month. If I travel for work I have more freedom and might go on a "spree". Boston has a pretty limited talent pool so I tend to wait for visitors or opportunities elsewhere. The train to NY can be as little as $78 RT which opens up some doors.

[studchaser]

I don't do masseurs, but I am counting Grindr guys in the mix but always pay them about the same as RM guys. I need to cut back though.

 

I love your self awareness its humorous. The escorts got u hooked. Make sure your still investing for retirement and can pay your bills. Dont engage in risky behavior because with increased frequency comes increased probability. However if its not a financial strain n not affecting your regular day to day then no harm no foul.

[vaurien]

i would hire more often if the pickings weren't so slim.

[bigjsd]

I want to be different, just like everybody else...

 

I *love* that scene...

 

"I'm not!"

[Guy Fawkes]

I don't play "Security Theatre" anymore so it's an easy answer. Zero.

 

This is the equivalent of asking a group of frequent fliers about their yearly mileage

[Strafe13]

I have who I call my Sunday boy who comes over each week and he often spends the night and I Uber him back to his parents house. It's not robbing the cradle if you put them back! (He's actually 23). Then there are maybe 1 or 2 others during the week.

 

I'm 51, executive level job, no debt, 1M+ in retirement accts, so I have a good amount of discretionary income.

 

My partner is actually older than me, we spend time in two houses, we have been together for 23 years and encourage each other's dalliances. We don't play together but we do sometimes have our regulars meet us for dinner somewhere so we have faces to place with names. We like different things - I like 18-23ish and he is more into guys 30's-40's.

 

I want to be you when I grow up!

 

To the OP’s query, with respect to my home base area, I hire a few times a year, probably closer to a frequency of about every month or two. But I hire much more profusely when I travel. I’d ideally like to hire once or twice a month while at home, though.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I don't play "Security Theatre" anymore so it's an easy answer. Zero.

 

Would it help if I dressed up in a tight-fitting TSA uniform and told you I needed to do a full pat-down?

[Guy Fawkes]

There better be a suspicious bulge.

Would it help if I dressed up in a tight-fitting TSA uniform and told you I needed to do a full pat-down?

[+ Just Sayin]

I'm an open book.

 

I enjoyed reading about @DallasClient 's arrangements; it gives us an idea of possibilities; as my friend the therapist says, we are not heterosexual, so the heteronormative is not necessarily appropriate for each of us

[DallasClient]

I enjoyed reading about @DallasClient 's arrangements; it gives us an idea of possibilities; as my friend the therapist says, we are not heterosexual, so the heteronormative is not necessarily appropriate for each of us

 

We have been masters of non-traditional life styles for decades with our ability for non-monogamy, polyamory, and other types of open relationships.

 

Here was the last time I kept track and I hope it's not TMI or inappropriate:

 

April 1 Hogan

April 2 Dillon

April 4 Hogan

April 6 Tex

April 8 Kevin

April 13 Jacob

April 18 Hogan

April 20 Ian

April 22 James

April 24 Hogan

April 28 Tex

April 29 Zack

 

May. 1 Hogan

May. 5 Brad

May 7 James

May. 8 Payton

May 10 Hogan

May 15 George (London)

May 16 Maxim (London)

May 17 Maxim (London)

May 19 Matt (London)

May 22 Jacob

May 24 Tex

May 26 Brad

May 28 Payton

May 29 Jacob

May 31 Corey

 

June 4 Hogan

June 7 Alex

June 9 Corey

June 12 James

June 13 Tex

June 20 Josh

June 22 Hogan

June 23 Tex

June 24 Josh

June 25 James

 

There are a lot of sheets and towels always being washed here

[Strafe13]

We have been masters of non-traditional life styles for decades with our ability for non-monogamy, polyamory, and other types of open relationships.

 

Here was the last time I kept track and I hope it's not TMI or inappropriate:

 

April 1 Hogan

April 2 Dillon

April 4 Hogan

April 6 Tex

April 8 Kevin

April 13 Jacob

April 18 Hogan

April 20 Ian

April 22 James

April 24 Hogan

April 28 Tex

April 29 Zack

 

May. 1 Hogan

May. 5 Brad

May 7 James

May. 8 Payton

May 10 Hogan

May 15 George (London)

May 16 Maxim (London)

May 17 Maxim (London)

May 19 Matt (London)

May 22 Jacob

May 24 Tex

May 26 Brad

May 28 Payton

May 29 Jacob

May 31 Corey

 

June 4 Hogan

June 7 Alex

June 9 Corey

June 12 James

June 13 Tex

June 20 Josh

June 22 Hogan

June 23 Tex

June 24 Josh

June 25 James

 

There are a lot of sheets and towels always being washed here

 

Again, I want to be you when I grow up!

[bostonman]

I don't hire a lot, to be honest. I have one "regular" that I see when he comes through town a few times a year, otherwise I may be tempted to hire here and there, but I'm always careful of my modest budget, so I really can't do that much. I do "window shop" a lot though. There are several guys in my area that I've always wanted to try, though...

[+ JEC]

We have been masters of non-traditional life styles for decades with our ability for non-monogamy, polyamory, and other types of open relationships.

 

Here was the last time I kept track and I hope it's not TMI or inappropriate:

 

April 1 Hogan

April 2 Dillon

April 4 Hogan

April 6 Tex

April 8 Kevin

April 13 Jacob

April 18 Hogan

April 20 Ian

April 22 James

April 24 Hogan

April 28 Tex

April 29 Zack

 

May. 1 Hogan

May. 5 Brad

May 7 James

May. 8 Payton

May 10 Hogan

May 15 George (London)

May 16 Maxim (London)

May 17 Maxim (London)

May 19 Matt (London)

May 22 Jacob

May 24 Tex

May 26 Brad

May 28 Payton

May 29 Jacob

May 31 Corey

 

June 4 Hogan

June 7 Alex

June 9 Corey

June 12 James

June 13 Tex

June 20 Josh

June 22 Hogan

June 23 Tex

June 24 Josh

June 25 James

 

There are a lot of sheets and towels always being washed here

Hogan!!!!!