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bigjsd

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  1. I, too, am asking for any information about Zach as he will be in my area soon.
  2. I, too, would love to see this. Not a lot of info other than the forums here.
  3. It's one of the first questions I ask a provider -- I'm this big, is that an issue? No hard feelings if so. I'd rather you be honest now and I don't feel weird because you were put off. I only started doing this because I saw a provider that asked me, a couple times, about my size and if I was interested in changing it. "Well, yes, but not right now -- I'm interested in this current massage."
  4. I could go for a few.dozen massages like this.
  5. Anyone have any more, or more recent information on Trevor? Feel free to PM.
  6. I prefer morning. It just works better with the rest of my day that way.
  7. Whoa, anyone know where I can find this massage in San Diego?
  8. I posted this in another thread....but I didn't know my first was going to be my first. It was a legit casino spa in Vegas 25 years ago. About the time I realized it was going there, it was already over.
  9. I posted this in another thread....but I didn't know my first was going to be my first. It was a legit casino spa in Vegas 25 years ago. About the time I realized it was going there, it was already over.
  10. Most of the time I'm shooting for 1pm or earlier. I like 9-10 if I can work out the schedules for a good mid-morning reset. Otherwise, I'm looking at 9pm or later.
  11. Waaaay long ago...first massage I ever got...pretty sure at the Stardust, in Vegas, although it could have been the Frontier. I was super nervous, woman/masseuse was very nice. Found out that I had never had a massage, explained how everything worked...disrobe, put clothes here, lie face down, put sheet over myself. She'd come in and do a full cover etc... Asked me about problem areas and I explained that I work on my feet 12-15 hours a day, 6 days a week (in restaurants at the time) and basically everything from my lower back down all hurt, especially calves and hamstrings. Does X hurt? yes. Does Y hurt? yes. Do your adductors hurt? My what? Explained to me that I just "need to relax" and let her do her job. If anything hurt or was uncomfortable, let her know and she'd modify it. Couple times she'd press on something and I'd just and she'd apologize and adjust. Every once in a while as she was moving muscle groups she'd say "now if this hurts" or "if this is uncomfortable" Gets time for a flip, I don't really want to (because then she's going to see my boner) and I flip and she says nothing about it. Tells me she is going to work on my adductors (my what?) and the boner isn't going anywhere at this point. (sidebar, adductor massages can suck) Tells me again, let me know if anything is uncomfortable and I can modify it and then it happens....she is massaging something we hadn't talked about and 3 to 4.5 seconds later, she is doing a quick cleanup while continuing the massage and letting me know to let her know if anything is uncomfortable. To be honest, ruined the massage and my mood. I was 95% sure I was going to get in trouble with security or the cops or something (I was 22-23), and I was somewhere between embarrassed and confused. Couple days later I had gotten over embarrassed and confused and couldn't wait for my next massage. Never had a legit massage like that again. Chasing the high
  12. This WAS one of my favorite series. Recording without consent killed that.
  13. I think you just tell them that -- if that rubs them the wrong way...so be it. Only thing that irks me is this kind of deal -- I talk to a provider about schedule sometime tomorrow between 8am and noon and agree to touch base early in the morning. I text at 730 or so and they don't reply until after noon, when it is too late to schedule a different provider that works with my schedule. If that's the worst thing that happens to me on any given day, I'm doing okay.
  14. Yes. I decided to empty the deep freezer and the liquor cabinet of all the stuff that is never going to get drunk and refuse to buy more until they have been consumed or disposed of. I am down to a bottle of whiskey, one champagne and one prosecco before I am allowed to go buy more vodka or gin. I have thrown about 7 bottles of utter garbage (wine and/or liquor) away. The deep freezer still has a couple weeks of stuff in it.
  15. I am in a full house where I care for most of the people. My problem isn't isolation, it's the inability to have enough time to myself (I currently get up early to grab 30 minutes of sitting in a dark room with a tea or coffee and get another 15-20 minutes at night when our essential occupant returns). I fantasize about what I'm going to do for myself once this is over and I just keep adding to the list of what I'm going to do... Haircut Beard Trim Manscaping Stretching FBSMassage Head/Neck Massage Foot Massage A drink at a bar facing the water Sitting down and watching people walk by etc... I really am dying to get a professional stretching. I've had all sorts of these things done (both erotic and non-erotic). Everything from super-clinical PT type, to Stretch U, reflexology stuff, chiropractic, to other types I can't remember. The good ones leave me feeling like jelly. All fantasy aside -- it seems that in my general area, a lot of the efforts being made have done some good. We haven't hit a big spike like some areas and from what I can tell our systems aren't overtaxed right now. It's looking very promising. The one thing that worries me is that once we are given the go ahead to begin starting up normal activities, we will all rush out and create the ideal situation for the virus to rapidly spread. This is why it's likely that even once we are allowed to go into public on a more regular basis, I still don't see myself getting any of the more close and intimate services. I'll get a haircut. I may even get a beard trim. Maybe a foot massage at the AMP down the road. The other stuff will likely have to wait. However, I just relived one of those "good" stretches in my mind. I think me and my memory will have to sanitize and have some quality alone time. Stay safe, please.
  16. Oh, definitely not until then. I would actually say even after everything reopens that you want to give it a little bit more time.
  17. One of the things that will make things "safe" moving forward will be improved treatment protocols. From what I understand, the treatment protocols are being adjusted on a daily (hourly) basis as they understand more and more about the way the virus works. (I am not a medical professional, nor do I play one on TV -- please take the following with a huge grain of salt and my views and opinions do not reflect the view or opinion of this website or anyone sane) One of the anecdotes I read was that a typical flu-like protocol they were using was actually (counter intuitively) causing issues in patients that had already gone pneumonic. So they have started to investigate this protocol. Another anecdote was based on the anti-inflammatory response to steroids and the cause of the inflammation. (I highlight anecdote because it is just that at this point. An single point of data which has not be tested or vetted properly yet.) This doesn't mean you won't be able to get it, it means that the treatment you receive for it is constantly improving. Ideally we get an effective vaccine and we don't need to worry about the treatment -- but a vaccine will take time, even when fast tracked by the FDA. All that being said, I am beginning to think it is will be a long time until massage activities resume for me.
  18. I've turned disinfecting into foreplay prior to masturbation. Can't trust myself too much.
  19. I'm to the point where I demand a shower, fresh sheets, gloves and a mask when I decide to spend some quality alone time with myself now.
  20. Does anyone know of another series in the vein of the Asian Massage Parlors, the Czech Massage, etc. I like the fantasy that it is a taboo thing going on -- something about the amateur/hidden nature of it and the (generally) static camera do it for me. I understand it's all staged, but like Mulder -- I believe. Thanks!
  21. What I heard (from someone who is actually actively involved in researching COVID currently) is that, as viruses go, this one doesn't mutate "as bad" (my interpretation of what he said) and that they could likely find a common treatment. (Note: I am not a doctor or virologist and my statements are not meant to insinuate any promise or warranty, now or in the future) That being said, even if I had gotten it and had recovered -- my hiring is probably curtailed until late May just based on the logistics of life under COVID. I'm living vicariously through the massage video thread.
  22. If you catch it and are recovered, is it okay to resume?
  23. I go in phases as well. I'll have a good solid period where I go every 2 weeks like it's on a schedule and then something will happen (like I alluded to in my previous post) that destroys the fantasy for me and then I'm out for several months.
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