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bigjsd

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  1. Strippers and massage therapists (men and women both) have a way of eventually snapping me out of this and reminding me that the transaction is what has them interested, not the interaction.
  2. OMG, this. If you figure out the magic answer, let me know. Even pre-busting it can be sketchy as everything that builds up to the end already has me on edge.
  3. You have a better chance of getting influenza. Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional, but the above is based on my casual observation of infection numbers.
  4. *feverishly starts looking through grindr* (if I matched your types you described, I definitely would be looking for you, but please keep up with the stories)
  5. Me too. A couple weeks off isn't going to hurt me.
  6. They assured me it was clean, but used a cover as well.
  7. My new current favorite: https://www.gayforit.eu/video/510871/Dads-BareBack-Massage-Parlor
  8. I *love* that scene... "I'm not!"
  9. If I don't come back, I've dehydrated myself...send help.
  10. He is creepy because he is in his 50s, or that is in addition to his normal creepiness?
  11. I've experienced the money up front thing with masseuses, not masseurs. As far as the appearance thing, I make my size clear and ask if there are any issues prior to setting an appointment. I have no issue when someone (all one of them) has said that it is an issue. I'd rather know and save my money.
  12. Everything in this series (if it hasn't been posted before): https://www.xnxx.com/video-go1zj93/body_massage_cuerpo_a_cuerpo_buenos_aires_48157977 It seems amateur-ish, and if I'm being choosy, I enjoy the lying on the stomach penetration more. Sign me up for this type of massage (but in San Diego, not Argentina).
  13. I went to rent small boat to putter around a lake in one time. I hadn't reserved a boat so the price went from $60 to $70 for a few hours. I had a couple minute conversation about how the owner could take $60 from me, or $0. He basically told me that was how things "worked around here" and I decided I didn't really need a boat... ...and I don't need a massage from that guy.
  14. I would love to be an "unwilling" participant like this.
  15. Thanks for this tip, went to the doc yesterday and he gave me new scrips -- just got back from picking them up for much, much cheaper.
  16. I don't think this just applies to this industry, it applies to anything. I am more likely to continue to patronize someone if they seem to enjoy the fact that I am spending my money right then, right there. Whether it's buying a pizza, getting a massage or getting something more intimate -- if you can 'act' like the money is an inconsequential portion of the exchange, I am more likely to return. I once received a massage that was so mechanical that not only was I not relaxed, I ended up mostly uncomfortable and felt bad that I was wasting her time.
  17. Thanks for the reply. I understand what you are getting at. I am trying to play both sides of that fence by saying "I know what I want to happen" but also "I want it to just happen without my explicit instruction." I have experienced the not knowing I liked something until it was presented to me -- and that's always great. I've also experienced a lot of massage sessions that were scheduled as massage, but turned into something else (with M, T and W). I've found massage therapists (W and T) that very seamlessly (I might say organically) move from massage to something else with little to no verbal direction, which is what I like. I get to relax and enjoy. They rightfully earn my repeat business. I've still not found that experience with a masseur that I know is out there. I have found masseurs that move from one thing to another, but not the thing that I really wanted (but didn't ask for and didn't know if it was available). At any rate, I have some more direction on my homework -- so thanks for all the replies.
  18. Holy cow - my pharmacy/insurance comBo wants vs almost 500 for 8 cialis
  19. I'm actually curious now based on the last time this was posted. I am a client that is looking for both and would like a good massage (not a half-hearted rub) -- so am I looking for an escort with massage skills, or a masseuse that offers that extra something? I ask because many masseuses (is that a word) don't advertise the extra even if it is available and it seems many of the escorts offer massage but in my understanding you run the range of skill level there and may end up with the half-hearted version.
  20. bigjsd

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    There is also eros, but I was thinking more of a message board type format. But thanks for pointing those out, I didn't think of that.
  21. bigjsd

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    While I would applaud one existing, I don't think there is one. You might find some remnants of word of mouth reviews here and there -- but I think even those were largely based on what your specific definition of passable.
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