Would any of your hire an overweight 50 year old escort

[handiacefailure]

How'd he get your email?

 

Escorts can email clients on Rentmen just like we can email them on rentmen. I noticed he had looked at my profile

 

it was through the rentmen email message system not regular email

[RealAvalon]

Escorts can email clients on Rentmen just like we can email them on rentmen. I noticed he had looked at my profile

 

it was through the rentmen email message system not regular email

entrepreneurial

[Quincy_7]

entrepreneurial

 

I had a nice looking mexican boy message me once offering to be my guide for a week long vacation in his city. Judging by his reviews, this seems to be a strategy that's working for him. I do hold a certain respect for the more entrepreneurially minded escorts, particularly those like Justin who can manage to get a lucrative onlyfans page going.

[Zapped]

If he’s really good at kink, or really warm and compassionate and cuddly in a way most hookup parters aren’t, maybe there’s a need he can fulfill in the market. And maybe it’s just wishful thinking.

[Monarchy79]

I have to side with those who are horrified at the negative crap being posted about this gentlemen!

 

Would I hire him? No. Would I hire and have sex with myself? NO!

 

We each are drawn to what attracts us personally - to our type! When people question if they have a “type” I tell them to imagine that they are on the crowded midway of a major State Fair - MOBS of people. Who catches you eye and your think WOW!

 

I happen to like slender men with regular endowment! I am thankful that those I connect with have evolved enough to see me beyond my phyical carcass! Often beauty & connection are within. There is much more than body and penis size.

 

I am sure there are clients who are excited to find Howie.

 

A HIGH percentage of the time I look at providers raved about by guys on these forums and think “OMG - really? UGH!” But I don’t post it!

 

To each your own. Surely we can be more accepting of all our differences.

 

I know that I have to make Key West next winter! There is a slender young provider there that has been on my list for too long!!!!!!!!

 

Good Post!!!

 

I think what bothers me most is how shallow, arrogant, delusional, and entitled men can be (both gay and straight)... a guy can be a “2”, and will affirm with ultimate confidence that he has no interest than anyone below a “7”.

 

On dating apps, there are fat old men, who strictly demand the company and dating of only slim, young men.

 

Although people have the right to have whatever preferences they choose, it cracks me the hell up how so many guys reach beyond their own “standing”, and absolutely degrade those that are actually their equals...

 

Now I’m a 39 year old black guy in average shape.... I find other black guys in my same age range in the same shape attractive.... do you know how many of these clowns in my same range refuse to even acknowledge my existence because they are reaching “higher”.... (yet never get what they are asking for) ???????

 

I just think that men in general have an extremely deluded sense of true self-awareness......

Edited December 15, 2020 by Monarchy79

[handiacefailure]

Good Post!!!

 

I think what bothers me most is how shallow, arrogant, delusional, and entitled men can be (both gay and straight)... a guy can be a “2”, and will affirm with ultimate confidence that he has no interest than anyone below a “7”.

 

On dating apps, there are fat old men, who strictly demand the company and dating of only slim, young men.

 

Although people have the right to have whatever preferences they choose, it cracks me the hell up how so many guys reach beyond their own “standing”, and absolutely degrade those that are actually their equals...

 

Now I’m a 39 year old black guy in average shape.... I find other black guys in my same age range in the same shape attractive.... do you know how many of these clowns in my same range refuse to even acknowledge my existence because they are reaching “higher”.... (yet never get what they are asking for) ???????

 

I just think that men in general have and extremely deluded sense of true self-awareness......

 

But in this case they aren't charging $300 an hour for it. I'll admit when I was in my 20s and in decent shape I wouldn't have been going after guys who look like me, I wanted other guys my own age. But at my age I don't get pissy either if a 20 or 30 something who is in great shape also wants the same thing and just skip over their ads and totally understand (althought I sure won't complain when I am occasionally lucky enough to find a guy in his 20s who likes older guys on recon and it does happen oLOL). I figure if I want a hot 20 something I'll just hire them.

 

The point of me doing the original post wasn't to criticize howies looks but I was just curious if someone would hire him and I haven't seen anyone on here saying they are rushing out to hire him.

[caliguy]

 

The point of me doing the original post wasn't to criticize howies looks

Really now? You've been doing nothing but criticizing him.

 

why would I pay $300 for an escort that is that age and in a lot worse shape than I am in?

I am in a lot better shape

I have no issues having guys that look a lot better than him wanting to hook up on other sites.

I can find guys that look better than him for free

I wouldn't have any trouble getting someone that age and in that shape for free

[Monarchy79]

Another point I’ll make, is that there is a possibility that the escort doesn’t see himself in the same image that many of the commenters see him. Just as many men in general have warped perceptions of themselves. It’s a screwed up cycle of men in general. Many guys think that they look better than they actually do.... this is why we commonly see the following:

 

1.) men lying about their age, when they obviously look older than their ACTUAL age

 

2.) men chasing around “hot” guys they never seem to get, all the while ignoring men who look JUST like them.

 

3.) men on apps tearing appart and objectivfying the looks of an escort/masseur, to such extremes, while not taking into consideration their own faults and flaws.

 

Everyone has types and preferences and that’s fine.... but many of you guys are waaaaay to bratty and bitchy about it... and only correct your ways when you are suddenly on the receiving end of the “troll treatment”.....

 

This is why lesbians are so damn happy.... no men... lol???

Edited December 15, 2020 by Monarchy79

[Rudynate]

He's from the BDSM world which operates differently. Often looks are deemed secondary to attitude in importance. He might be a great BDSM top who is able to get inside the mind of a client and give them exactly the experience they crave.

[marylander1940]

In some areas of the country his body would be considered average

[rvwnsd]

It was SO predictable....and really the close-mindedness so very sad

 

...the energy you put out into the universe is the energy you get back - think of that the next time someone makes you feel too old, too fat, not masc enough, not worthy of attention.

 

Back when I was co-facilitating the men's coming out group, a guy would say something about how unaccepting the gay community is and in the next breath would disparage a whole group of men based on stereotypes. That's when one (or all three) of us co-facilitators would ask them to listen to what they just said and think about how they were contributing to the problem.

 

Im actually somewhat surprised to see forum members dragging him through the mud. The same forum where members are asking escorts if they’re okay with them being overweight in a subsection over. Weird.

 

No, he does not fit the aesthetic of the RM brand, but in the event someone is into him (someone, somewhere is), where else is he to advertise?

 

Is it ambitious? Sure. But I’ve seen some equally (if not more) ambitious ads from escorts that most here would deem attractive.

 

So here is some advice for all four of us. When pissing in the wind, make sure it is at your back.

[Ryan Roman]

I received an email on rentmen from this guy today:

https://rentmen.eu/domhowie

 

He's in my area and told me his rate is $300/Hr.

 

Not trying to sound shallow here, but why would I pay $300 for an escort that is that age and in a lot worse shape than I am in? And $300 is really pushing it when it comes to me to hire anyway, that few times I've paid that much was for porn stars like Paul Pratt a long time ago when he was still young.

 

I noticed it's a new listing. Was just curious if there are guys that would pay that kind of money (or even $200). When I hire I want the type of guy I can't get anymore who is younger and in good shape.

 

Working in the same market, I've seen this new escort's ad, and have thought about it a little. One of my regular clients (a brilliant psychologist) and I talked about this new escort. At the end of the day, to each there own, and perhaps there's an untapped market he will appeal to. I hope he's successful for his sake. I don't think the market will bare $300/hour, but then, I've been wrong about a great many things before. Perhaps he has a skill set we've not tapped into yet. IDK...

[Ryan Roman]

I just feel like this is joke. Whether it was meant to be or not, it really gave me a good laugh so when you think about it...I guess it was a joke

 

It's an $80/month fee... maybe it's a joke, but I've got better ways to spend $80....

[Ryan Roman]

Allegedly, every pot has a lid. If he can find a market, more power to him.

 

That's what I've been thinking... if he can find an audience, good for him...

[Ryan Roman]

I guess if this guy can escort there’s hope for me at my advanced age.

 

He’s not the oldest escort around, though. I wish him luck.

 

no, he's not the oldest around... gives me some hope as I get older

[+ E.T.Bass]

Allegedly, every pot has a lid. If he can find a market, more power to him.

....and he may have some phenomenal talent we don't know about yet.

[Ryan Roman]

....and he may have some phenomenal talent we don't know about yet.

 

I thought the same thing as well...

[Monarchy79]

In some areas of the country his body would be considered average

 

I don’t think the standards of “beauty” are regional, but more so demographic, specifically in “straight” world vs. “gay” world.

 

A gay man’s “ugly”, is a straight man’s “average”.

 

A gay man’s “average”, is a straight man’s “good looking”

 

A gay man’s “good looking”, is a straight man’s “unattainably gorgeous”.

 

I always tell people that there are two areas of life where you will spend your entire life being scrutinized for your looks and feel the pressure to maintain your looks until the grave: 1.) being a professional model, and 2.) being a gay man.

 

The reason why gyms are packed with gay men isn’t because they are health conscious... it’s because they have to maintain a certain standard of physical attractiveness in order to have a sex life and find a mate (for a friendship, relationship, random sex, etc.)

 

Those who get out of the matrix of superficial bullshit either do onenof the following:

 

1.) say “fuck it”, and let themselves go and live a happy life, without seeking validation, and just orders escorts.

 

2.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a vice: (drugs, food, alcohol)

 

3.) Says “fuck it”, and becomes a hermit.

 

4.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a depression

 

Or .....

Says “fuck it”, exits out of the matrix, reprogrammed his values and sense of reality, lives his life to the fullest and focused of self-value, authenticity, and is clear of seeking the validation of others. ☺️??

[marylander1940]

I don’t think the standards of “beauty” are regional, but more so demographic, specifically in “straight” world vs. “gay” world.

 

A gay man’s “ugly”, is a straight man’s “average”.

 

A gay man’s “average”, is a straight man’s “good looking”

 

A gay man’s “good looking”, is a straight man’s “unattainably gorgeous”.

 

I always tell people that there are two areas of life where you will spend your entire life being scrutinized for your looks and feel the pressure to maintain your looks until the grave: 1.) being a professional model, and 2.) being a gay man.

 

The reason why gyms are packed with gay men isn’t because they are health conscious... it’s because they have to maintain a certain standard of physical attractiveness in order to have a sex life and find a mate (for a friendship, relationship, random sex, etc.)

 

Those who get out of the matrix of superficial bullshit either do onenof the following:

 

1.) say “fuck it”, and let themselves go and live a happy life, without seeking validation, and just orders escorts.

 

2.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a vice: (drugs, food, alcohol)

 

3.) Says “fuck it”, and becomes a hermit.

 

4.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a depression

 

Or .....

Says “fuck it”, exits out of the matrix, reprogrammed his values and sense of reality, lives his life to the fullest and focused of self-value, authenticity, and is clear of seeking the validation of others. ☺️??

 

My comment was one of the nicest and most honest things said about him on here. For the record!

 

 

It was SO predictable....and really the close-mindedness so very sad

 

Have you ever commented on here about the looks of someone advertising? I don't like some of the adjectives used to talk about him but this is the Deli and has that name for a reason whether we like it or not.

 

I don't buy this fake Kumbaya some on here are trying to sell on here but I must say some guys who made fun of Howie might pay attention to him in a sex party.

Edited April 7, 2019 by marylander1940

[hypothetically]

My comment was one of the nicest and most honest things said about him on here. For the record!

 

[marylander1940]

 

I guess you didn’t read the other posts!

 

[hypothetically]

Reli

I guess you didn’t read the other posts!

 

I guess you didn’t read the other posts!

 

Yours? I do my best to avoid them when I can, speaking truthfully.

[Jomo]

in a word, no not even for free, not even if i was paid. that being said, for each, his own

[marylander1940]

Reli

 

 

Yours? I do my best to avoid them when I can, speaking truthfully.

 

No the other mean posts on here directed at Howie, mine as I told you was one of the nicest.

 

Why so much attitude?

 

I hope you're able to turn it off, is bad for business. Btw you can always ignore someone.

Edited April 8, 2019 by marylander1940

[+ kent]

I don't see the need to comment disparagingly on his age or appearance. If he doesn't appeal to you, just move on, and consider using the filtered search feature in RM.

 

He's catering to a market that's looking for a particular sort, as he implies with both his handle and with this line "I think that spending some time under my control will provide the answer to the most important question in being gay, the discovery and acceptance of who you really are." The only advice I'd even think of giving him is to include a photo in a suit or coat and tie or the like given his (assumed) target market.